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Vali, the Nonbinary Bear

@mxmeup.bsky.social

NB Auti-3000 Bear in OMGNOhio. I'm old. I'm tired. I'm out of fucks with which to part. Also, I crochet. And garden. Well, my husband gardens more than me but hey: My peppers are πŸ”₯πŸ”₯πŸ”₯ They/Them. Fuck your binary.

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Latest posts by mxmeup.bsky.social on Bluesky

Goodwill fought it, claiming he was fired for tardiness.

Goodwill is still fighting it.

Fuck Goodwill.

They have none.

And especially fuck At-Will Employment.

28.09.2025 15:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A week after the fact, he gets his Termination Notification from an HR lady whom he knew and had always been friendly with...

She suggests he try for unemployment, so he does, thinking if we can get at least a little cash it would help us, while waiting for SSDI...

28.09.2025 15:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Now, picture my husband going blind from glaucoma, having to go on FMLA, burning through his PTO, and then being released from his job because there are no positions he can fill as a blind person.

28.09.2025 15:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My poor Sasha...
She's a German/Aussie Shepherd Mix who is TERRIFIED of sky-booms and skrumbles...
She is especially scared of her nemesis, Mr. Jason Thunderberker.
That dude is always ruining Sasha's fun...

27.07.2025 15:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If you are β€œafraid for your sons" based on 2% of reported rap3s being false, imagine how afraid we are for our daughters based on the other 98% .

07.07.2025 11:16 β€” πŸ‘ 13023    πŸ” 2520    πŸ’¬ 144    πŸ“Œ 73

At least give it a click.

There are pix of our dogs inside!

Thanks everyone...

28.06.2025 15:53 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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a man in a purple suit and top hat is making a funny face ALT: a man in a purple suit and top hat is making a funny face

Please at least toss this a share...
I'm overstimulated, exhausted, and just plain tired...
But I have to find a way for us to keep affording his ophthalmologist and our girls' vet appts and meds...
We really thought things were about to get better for us and it's like life was just like...

28.06.2025 15:53 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Donate to My Family Needs Your Help!, organized by Vali Darke McDougal-Palacios Hi everyone... I'm Vali. And my family needs your help. My husband, Je… Vali Darke McDougal-Palacios needs your support for My Family Needs Your Help!

Right. I hate this. My husband's glaucoma spiked and now he's legally blind and has burned through his sick leave and PTO on FMLA, and we're out of options, until I can get help...
The rug has fully left the space it used to occupy under our feet.
Everything sucks for everyone, but I have to ask...

28.06.2025 15:53 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
MalΓΆrt & Savior - On The Day It Finally Happens
YouTube video by MalΓΆrt and Savior MalΓΆrt & Savior - On The Day It Finally Happens

Oh! What an absolutely WONDERFUL Day it will be!

13.06.2025 04:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Mornin'! Nice day for fishin', ain't it? Hu-HA!

It's just the main menu of the game Nice Day For Fishing by β€ͺ@vivaladirtleague.bsky.social‬

Mornin'! Nice day for fishin', ain't it? Hu-HA! It's just the main menu of the game Nice Day For Fishing by β€ͺ@vivaladirtleague.bsky.social‬

Mornin'! Nice day for fishin', ain't it? Hu-HA!

29.05.2025 19:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You know that Twilight Zone episode where the kid has amazing psychic powers and can make people disappear with his mind and the entire town is hostage to him and has to cater to his every whim? That’s us right now.

05.05.2025 16:29 β€” πŸ‘ 23805    πŸ” 3478    πŸ’¬ 966    πŸ“Œ 241
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I remember. I also remember the sequel episode ("It's Still A Good Life") in the 90s.
It was only slightly less terrifying.
His daughter had the chance to overthrow him but then just decided she'd rather betray humanity and go on a lovely trip with Daddy in the end...

06.05.2025 14:55 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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a man in a suit and tie is drinking from a blue mug that says " good " ALT: a man in a suit and tie is drinking from a blue mug that says " good "

I was at GFS (Gordon Food Services) Wednesday, here in OMGNOhio, and thought I'd maybe get some coffee there, for the house; since we figure coffee prices are about to go up...
Whoops. It already happened there. A 30oz carton of coffee, which used to be $8.99-$9.99, is now $18.99-$19.99.

02.05.2025 19:13 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Should this happen, the event would be countered by a massive turnout of citizens protesting his birth.

02.05.2025 01:09 β€” πŸ‘ 20887    πŸ” 4341    πŸ’¬ 1405    πŸ“Œ 229
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Pritzker: The reckoning is here. And now that this culture of timidity is on display, these same do-nothing Democrats want to blame our losses on the defense of Black people, trans kids, and immigrants, instead of on their own lack of guts and gumption.

28.04.2025 20:53 β€” πŸ‘ 20440    πŸ” 5356    πŸ’¬ 476    πŸ“Œ 920
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Faker. He looked like He-Man but he was BLUE and GINGER and for some reason that was HOT.
Hmm. Now that I think of it, Faker might be the root of my lifelong love of redheaded men.

28.04.2025 23:50 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Look at this fuckin’ dump. Jesus. Way to vote, America.

26.04.2025 19:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1002    πŸ” 138    πŸ’¬ 89    πŸ“Œ 8
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I checked this out on Snopes, completely real.

www.snopes.com/fact-check/o...

26.04.2025 21:50 β€” πŸ‘ 892    πŸ” 615    πŸ’¬ 37    πŸ“Œ 37

Ha!

26.04.2025 23:13 β€” πŸ‘ 424    πŸ” 21    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 0

And then there's the part where they outright tell you that they are not required to save your job for you, if they decide you're costing the company too much money.
My husband's glaucoma has made him legally blind.
He's going to lose his job once his leave is done.
We're going to lose everything.

27.04.2025 06:12 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Fun Fact: When you go on FMLA, part of the paperwork you sign says you have to use your PTO for it, another part says you still have to pay all your taxes and premiums and stuff, and if you miss payments twice, you'll lose your insurance...

27.04.2025 06:12 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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En route

22.04.2025 22:32 β€” πŸ‘ 272    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 21    πŸ“Œ 1
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No cats, but here's an Evelyn/Evil-Lyn/Evie...

22.04.2025 20:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My understanding is Leifeld has been trying to get his foot in the door with the Comicsgate crowd for a while now. That must be difficult considering nobody has ever seen his feet.

22.04.2025 16:18 β€” πŸ‘ 34    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I love how the "wrong" is implied and accurate. lol

22.04.2025 18:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Screenshot from a DM, where my husband says, "Love you too. See you in a few hours. Only outta one eye. lol."

Screenshot from a DM, where my husband says, "Love you too. See you in a few hours. Only outta one eye. lol."

Can we just take a moment to appreciate how my husband is trying to find humour in going blind?*

(*At least in one eye. The other isn't doing so well, either, but it's better than the one.)

22.04.2025 18:25 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Washington Post now willingly handing reporting to OpenAI The Washington Post now willingly handing reporting to OpenAI

FUCK. THIS. All of this.

22.04.2025 16:35 β€” πŸ‘ 19367    πŸ” 3817    πŸ’¬ 1133    πŸ“Œ 503

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