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Dr Lianne

@ruokayanniek.bsky.social

๐Ÿ‡ฟ๐Ÿ‡ฆShe/Her | Not ๐™ฉ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ kind of Dr | cPTSD badass | โšกChronic Pain warrior | ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆwife/mom/friend | Humanist

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I've decided that I may need a holiday. Not a silent retreat, but definitely in nature. The 100 acre woods would be perfect. I could share empathic conversations with Eeyore, rage with Rabbit if I needed it, find joy with Tigger, and sit alongside Pooh and Piglet on hard days.
#self-discovery

22.01.2025 20:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I've not made any resolutions for 2025. They always feel wrong.
I've now decided to set an intention for 2025.
I want to quiet my mind so I can truly hear myself.
Quieting my mind without busying it with academic pursuits is a big ask for me.

19.01.2025 12:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My oldest daughter is moving out of the house to start working after studies. She is overwhelmed and scared. Telling her it's okay to do this when she's scared is the right thing, I know. I'm petrified. This part of parenting, where I sit in that fear with her =2 stars, would not recommend.

06.01.2025 05:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Collage image of two braided puff pastry dishes. One is basil pesto, mozzarella, tomato & chicken. Served with crisp salad. Second pastry is filled with caramelised apple, sugar crust and served with cinnamon ice cream.

Collage image of two braided puff pastry dishes. One is basil pesto, mozzarella, tomato & chicken. Served with crisp salad. Second pastry is filled with caramelised apple, sugar crust and served with cinnamon ice cream.

Going through a dark period in my life, but I've been able to do productive work the past two days, made trial-run dishes for a lunch next week, and my pain actually stayed under an 8/10 the whole time I was doing that. Need meds now because ๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿฝ = pain when you have a #dynamicdisability but ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿฝโ€โ™€๏ธ

18.12.2024 19:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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a woman is standing in front of a car on fire . ALT: a woman is standing in front of a car on fire .

2024 has been, and continues to be, rough. But I shared this Gif with my therapist today... I'm ready to say goodbye to it

02.12.2024 14:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Creating things really helps me find some meditative peace. It's part of my daily metal health workout. Recently started doing resin moulds. These earrings will be hanginspecimy person's ears ๐Ÿ’œ

18.11.2024 21:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Feeling trapped right now. It is suffocating. Can't focus on work, my usual escape route keeping my mind busy. Psych session in 2 days... holding on for dear life

18.11.2024 21:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I recently heard Dr Gabor Mate explain how speaking about feelings helps to process because of the way the brain works. I wish it was less scary to do.

15.11.2024 16:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
15.11.2024 14:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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a woman says this is a safe space in front of a potted plant Alt: a woman says this is a safe space in front of a potted plant

I'm 43, so my intro to SM was ICQ, at 7pm, because, Telkom. Then, chatrooms at 25 for pregnant moms when I was about to have my 2nd, then FB, etc. I'm unlikely to curate my account here in any way, shape, or form. My habits have changed, so I'm more deliberate in how I engage, but otherwise...

13.11.2024 17:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Your personhood matters. That doesn't change when someone treats you like a statistic, lumps you in w/ a group, or dismisses you because of a prejudice or assumption of theirs. It's gonna trigger our trauma rejection & abandonment wounds-- but remember: you absolutely matter.

13.11.2024 14:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 83    ๐Ÿ” 16    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Still, I rise
๐“œ๐“ช๐”‚๐“ช ๐“๐“ท๐“ฐ๐“ฎ๐“ต๐“ธ๐“พ

13.11.2024 15:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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