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Vancouver BC area novelist, screenwriter, solo poly, ex line cook she/her ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ/๐Ÿ‡บ๐Ÿ‡ธ๐Ÿคบ YVR>SEA>YQQ>YVR UBC CRWR โ€˜18 SCCC Film&Video โ€˜08 https://linktr.ee/victoriadecapua

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Latest posts by victoriadecapua.bsky.social on Bluesky

It is really obvious you're either using tools or individuals who are incapable of parsing the simplest contextual use of human language. This is an ironic statement that demonstrates no active desires to oppress any group of individuals. It doesn't shove them in vans at gunpoint. Calm. Down.

07.10.2025 01:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

@safety.bsky.app this post is not intolerant. I don't appreciate how you're gaslighting this community every ten seconds.

One of the good things about this site was a public agreement that truth and accuracy matter. Do you know how painful it is to see you endorse the disintegration of meaning?

07.10.2025 01:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 29    ๐Ÿ” 5    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

I'm still hopeful enough that bsky might actually course correct long before mastodon becomes a viable alternative.

07.10.2025 00:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

2019: I put a Musk in here because he was crying pedo about his submarine being rejected. Starlink hadn't yet been launched so I had to retroactively go add it during current revision.

Will a giant nuclear Musk satellite fall to earth and destroy most of human life? Yeah probably. Thanks a lot.

07.10.2025 00:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

sorry, a *what* Cory Doctorow essay?

07.10.2025 00:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It must be a weird experience not being able to understand that people are disappointed in you because they genuinely want to be hopeful. I think thatโ€™s the most frustrating thing - when you really expect better, expect help, and instead you just get more ego and retribution.

Iโ€™m tired.

06.10.2025 23:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh jeeze

06.10.2025 23:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Me tooo

06.10.2025 23:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Fear of legal retribution. The American system is so weaponized a SLAPP is highly effective even if itโ€™s dismissed or withdrawn.

Iโ€™d still call him a fucking idiot to his face though.

06.10.2025 23:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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when you work in communications for Vancouver Coastal Health and you give up halfway through your job

06.10.2025 22:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 74    ๐Ÿ” 8    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 7    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Also thatโ€™s not that many. It also sounds like you force your mods to make decisions in 30 seconds. Thatโ€™s for easy calls. A team consults on a more complex issue. Why can I do this effectively as a volunteer but you canโ€™t pay your mods to do it?

Iโ€™m not a wizard. Itโ€™s not magic.

06.10.2025 22:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Itโ€™s just crappy store bought ciabatta crisped up a bit.

06.10.2025 22:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Then why can I effectively moderate a community of 1.7 million with four people?

Because we know our ethical framework and Reddit generates a complete view of all community interactions and offences, as well as public post history anyone can see.

Youโ€™re just inefficient.

06.10.2025 22:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Bread, olive oil with vinegar, olives and peach slices

Bread, olive oil with vinegar, olives and peach slices

Simple snack

06.10.2025 10:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 16    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Actually because of him I now think all husbands are suspect. He really influenced my opinions on husbands. Not all husbands but I really need them to answer for the bad one I met one time.

06.10.2025 10:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Itโ€™s so fucking weird.

06.10.2025 09:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Just donโ€™t read the book.

06.10.2025 09:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I saw it when I was twelve.

Of course I did. Look at my name. It has every vowel in it but Y.

06.10.2025 09:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I knew one husband who I thought was really cool

06.10.2025 09:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Tonyโ€™s okay.

06.10.2025 09:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Long Tony says hi

06.10.2025 09:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Attention:

This is Tony. All spiders have been officially renamed Tony until further notice.

06.10.2025 09:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Bsky post entry box. Text reads: โ€œOooh! Excellemy!โ€ The last two letters are underlined.

Bsky post entry box. Text reads: โ€œOooh! Excellemy!โ€ The last two letters are underlined.

This. This is what Iโ€™m talking about. I mistyped โ€œexcellentโ€, went back two letters to correct it, and now we are apparently going to insist - but really insist - that the most obvious letter combo is โ€œexcellemyโ€œ.

06.10.2025 08:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 112    ๐Ÿ” 11    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 16    ๐Ÿ“Œ 3

What the fuck did I just watch

06.10.2025 08:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

If you did this here youโ€™d be lucky to get arrested still able to walk upright. I mean holy shit.

06.10.2025 07:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Logged back into this platform for the first time in a while. What the fuck is going on? Specifically about the CEO of bluesky? But I'll also take any commentary.

06.10.2025 06:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Carmyโ€™s relationship with his mother is the thing that sends me the most in the Bear. I can deal with the cook stuff. Itโ€™s small trauma. But Carmyโ€™s mom is my mom almost 1:1. Not quite as crazy and not really penitent, but close.

โ€œI donโ€™t know you and you donโ€™t know meโ€. Fuck.

06.10.2025 06:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Honestly I think Reddit has the best system, and they were really only able to do that because the mods are voluntary and mostly do it because they're invested. But the premise is there, it's not difficult to set up a system that handles what needs to be handled. It just feels so sloppy.

06.10.2025 04:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Seriously. There should be admin oversight for legal purposes, and some accountability, but otherwise how exactly is this in any way a separation.

06.10.2025 04:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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06.10.2025 04:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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