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๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿปโ€๐Ÿ’ป Linguist, anthropologist, writer ๐Ÿ’– Marriage + matchmaking expert ๐Ÿ“Chicago by way of Astana by way of Kyoto by way of Detroit ๐Ÿ’ฌ English/ๆ—ฅๆœฌ่ชž/ะ ัƒััะบะธะน/ื™ื™ื“ื™ืฉ ๐Ÿ†— ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ they/she โ€ข ใ‚ใฎๅฅด โ€ข ะพะฝะฐ โ€ข ื–ื™ โœก๏ธ ๐Ÿค ๐Ÿ‡ต๐Ÿ‡ธ land back worldwide Writing and more @ erikas.online

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In the end I made a batch of sourdough pancakes and 3 loaves of bread, and it was delicious and I should be well fed for the next while.

09.08.2025 02:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh yeah it's totally not going to actually help sex workers, which is terrible because ON THE FACE OF IT, it clearly ought to.

08.08.2025 20:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I would be extremely amused and delighted if this wound up supporting what's actually a pretty radical cause that is nonetheless a basic human rights issue

08.08.2025 19:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

"The following month, Republican members of the Senate sponsored the FIRM Actโ€”which has not yet been put to a voteโ€”aiming to prohibit banks from factoring in 'reputation risk' when making decisions about customers."

This is literally one of the reasons sex workers can't access financial services.

08.08.2025 19:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Donald Trump Orders Crackdown on Politically Motivated โ€˜Debankingโ€™ In a new executive order, the US president has called on federal regulators to investigate and punish banks for alleged discrimination against conservatives and certain types of business.

Something tells me that financial discrimination against sex workers doesn't count as "politically motivated debanking"

08.08.2025 19:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1
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Trump's drops IVF promise, preferring to blame women for infertility Instead of treatment, Project 2025 proposes shaming patients for premarital sex

This seems like it's going to go well.

Protip: Yelling at women has never accomplished culture change to the best of my knowledge

08.08.2025 18:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The problem is that itโ€™s not contamination from TERF island. Theyโ€™re borrowing US legal language. Itโ€™s always been a back and forth. The main advantage we have in the US is federalism.

08.08.2025 16:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

If you werenโ€™t listening when trans people were saying that the goal is to basically eliminate trans people from society, maybe you should start. This is in the UK but uses US precedents because weโ€™re in an arms race for who can have the most awful everything.

08.08.2025 16:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I tend to label with the intended end product, e.g. โ€œsourdough pancakesโ€

08.08.2025 16:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Love an unmarked irrealis mood

08.08.2025 05:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

a fun part of sourdough baking is all the bowls of gloop I leave to ferment on the counter that my poor spouse has to just believe are meant to be something NOT gloop at some unspecified future point

08.08.2025 05:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 12    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

itโ€™s SO FUNNY, and my spouse keeps calling it โ€œtheir favorite bookโ€ and also laughing at the notes grad-school-me left in it 20 years ago

07.08.2025 20:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
photo of a blond toddler with messy hair in a messy room covered with crayons holding a copy of Raymond Williamsโ€™ Marxism and Literature from ~2005. It has a bright red cover with a classic picture of bearded wise Karl Marx on it.

photo of a blond toddler with messy hair in a messy room covered with crayons holding a copy of Raymond Williamsโ€™ Marxism and Literature from ~2005. It has a bright red cover with a classic picture of bearded wise Karl Marx on it.

The wee beastie has become weirdly attached to one of my old grad school texts. I think they just like the cover?

07.08.2025 20:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 18    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

thanks! I should definitely poke at a couple of these.

07.08.2025 20:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Does anyone have favorite places to read or pitch long-form think pieces? Asking for me.

07.08.2025 18:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Cool, enjoy your futile struggle.

07.08.2025 16:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

bsky.app/profile/erik...

07.08.2025 16:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

so many words to actually be on the same page โค๏ธ

07.08.2025 02:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I just get so angry at the reverse purity and danger reaction that science and medicine are so good and perfect and what kind of idiot are you if you reject them or want to MIX THEM with something else? because that ALSO plays very directly into the scam sales pitch.

07.08.2025 02:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

the frustrating part is that this in particular is so solvable, but no one wants to pay for it publicly anywhere

07.08.2025 01:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yeah itโ€™s not like anyone is actually systematically serving marginalized communities better, and so probably the response needs to center actually doing that.

07.08.2025 01:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Fun fact I actually have an article about how ethnography kind of fucked me up even though I was in a fairly safe and fun fieldwork context where I got off EASY.

07.08.2025 01:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

sorry already said something similar, I just think about this a lot in particular but especially after last weekend when I had fun going to an urgent care that HAD NO EQUIPMENT. No x-ray, no EKG, no labs. Itโ€™s hard to ask people to trust medicine in the face of its sometimes deliberate uselessness.

07.08.2025 00:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The only remotely woo thing Iโ€™ve ever used it for was as a hangover cure in Japan, a thing itโ€™s widely sold for ๐Ÿ˜‚ which again, non-Western epistemologies etc., not exactly a quack anti-science scam in that context, although it would be in the US.

07.08.2025 00:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

omg the Michigan bio/arch drinking night started Friday at 5 and ended.. when it ended.

07.08.2025 00:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I have a friend whoโ€™s both a phone psychic and a phone sex worker and both those jobs are actually kind of the same and those jobs are basically a sympathetic listening voice/advice on demand and for not THAT much money all things considered.

07.08.2025 00:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I also keep thinking about how much access to medical care of all kinds is such a problem for so many reasons across so many different systems and how much the scams are so often more affordable/accessible/there for you when so often the system isnโ€™t?

07.08.2025 00:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Fortunately I think linganth training is a little less squishy than pure socio-cultural anthro, but like, damn if I wasnโ€™t doing a minimally traumatic โ€œfunโ€ topic in a nice safe place and STILL. STILL.

07.08.2025 00:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ethnography really is a mindfuck though and sometimes I sit around and think about what hearing all kinds of rhetoric about marriage and fertility and age and value did to me as a young single person in my 20s and 30s. I donโ€™t agree and yet I have these reflexes in my head! Which are not good!

06.08.2025 23:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

oh ffs thatโ€™s terrible

06.08.2025 23:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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