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Esther Perry

@understandsurvival.bsky.social

I'm a mental health therapist, trauma consultant, and author. understandingsurvival.com

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Some of these women might have even been trafficked before marrying them.

They are easy to write off as "unreliable reporters" if they do come forward. And these men are fully aware of this.

24.02.2026 01:08 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Are we not all seeing how often these guys brag about taking people out?

And it's very common for perpetrators to find women who are already detached from reality from their own trauma history.

It's a feature, not a bug for them. They are the safest partner because they're compliant and broken.

24.02.2026 01:05 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Yes! I've worked in corrections and with many folks on probation and the rehab/therapy efforts are ALSO draconian. 50+ years behind the research (not that it was implemented based on research to begin with). The curriculums are laughable. No trauma training almost at all.

20.02.2026 21:55 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Yes! And the curriculums and therapy in corrections really needs to be overhauled too. The programs I've seen have all been very behavior heavy and almost no trauma intervention training. Which is wild when many offenders are products of a broken system to begin with.

20.02.2026 21:50 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I so agree with this. I think many people would feel better about pressing charges and holding people accountable, especially for sex crimes, if the system was more rehabilitative. People deserve a chance to change, even if some won't choose it.

20.02.2026 20:05 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

If you think you don't know a victim of SA, you're wrong. You're just not safe enough to tell.

Release ALL the files and prosecute them.

#epsteinfiles

20.02.2026 17:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

🀬

20.02.2026 17:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Btw, anyone saying not to focus on the Epstein Files is one of the following:

1. A MAGA
2. Foreign account meddling
3. A pedophile

Block them. Ignore them.

Keep talking about the Epstein Files.

20.02.2026 05:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1254    πŸ” 280    πŸ’¬ 45    πŸ“Œ 8

This seems intentional. If there is precedence for adult competency in one situation, then it's grounds to justify maturity to consent in other situations.

Also, as a MH therapist who's worked with minors for 15 yrs, this goes against all brain research on underage brains. It should be upped to 25.

20.02.2026 17:00 β€” πŸ‘ 116    πŸ” 13    πŸ’¬ 9    πŸ“Œ 0

Okay. But do you ever sleep? Your stamina is amazing. We appreciate everything you're doing and we want you to live a long and healthy life! ❀️

15.02.2026 16:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The President of the United States raped underage women.
Attorney General Pam Bondi has seen the proof in the Epstein files and doesn't care.
Thank you for your attention to this matter.

14.02.2026 04:30 β€” πŸ‘ 17846    πŸ” 4883    πŸ’¬ 1519    πŸ“Œ 307

For everyone that is overwhelmed right now, take a breath...

and remember that most coping skills are tools that have been used to suppress outrage during systemic oppression and perpetuate compliance.

Community and connection with authentic outrage is actually what this moment calls for.

14.02.2026 15:56 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
14.02.2026 04:43 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Millions of Dollars from Now-Defunct USAID Reportedly Paying For Russell Vought’s Security Detail Russell Vought reportedly diverted millions of dollars earmarked for the federal agency that once provided global humanitarian and economic aid.

TRICKLE UP!!!πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ€¬πŸ€¬πŸ€¬πŸ’―πŸ’―

tRumpstein's budget chief Russell Vought reportedly DIVERTED MILLIONS OF DOLLARS EARMARKED FOR USAID!!!

THE FEDERAL AGENCY THAT ONCE PROVIDED GLOBAL HUMANITARIAN AND ECONOMIC AID πŸ˜ͺ

IN ORDER TO PAY FOR HIS SECURITY DETAIL!!!

🀬🀬🀬🀬🀬🀬🀬🀬🀬🀬🀬🀬

14.02.2026 00:52 β€” πŸ‘ 5017    πŸ” 2785    πŸ’¬ 618    πŸ“Œ 268

Abusers are good at making the victim believe they are guilty too. It may be with grooming, threatening a pet or loved one to gain compliance, or coercing them to invite others.

Most perps are good at selecting victims who are isolated, knowing the victim will continue to internalize the shame.

13.02.2026 05:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It's devastating that the thing that helped them survive also became the very tool that pushed them to become complicit in suppressing the truth.

But this isn't just by chance.

13.02.2026 05:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I think the reason so many people can't come to grips with how common SA is, is because they HAVE experienced it and had to learn to bury it to survive.

Many family members, friends, professionals, etc. struggle to stand with victims, because it would require them to face their own abuse.

13.02.2026 05:30 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

While Amazon touts the surveillance state enabled by its Ring cameras, remember...

Amazon's U.S. tax bill dropped by 87% in 2025, mostly thanks to Trump's tax cuts.

Meanwhile, its profits jumped by 45% to nearly $90 billion β€” and it announced 30,000 job cuts.

Is this the world we want to live in?

10.02.2026 18:31 β€” πŸ‘ 2110    πŸ” 760    πŸ’¬ 77    πŸ“Œ 30
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Disabled son of ICE detainee dies after 30 days of hospitalization It had been months since Wael Tarabishi seen his father. The family is calling on ICE to release Maher Tarabishi so he may attend his son's funeral.

In October, ICE grabbed Maher Tarabishi.

He was a 24/7 caregiver for his disabled son Wael.

At the time of Maher’s detention, disability advocates warned that taking away Wael’s caregiver put his life at risk.

Wael died on Friday at age 30.

ICE caused his death.

They didn’t get to say goodbye.

24.01.2026 03:01 β€” πŸ‘ 20754    πŸ” 11064    πŸ’¬ 892    πŸ“Œ 963
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in case you're curious about how angry Minnesota is about ICE, it was -20 today

24.01.2026 00:38 β€” πŸ‘ 50102    πŸ” 14432    πŸ’¬ 970    πŸ“Œ 854

I came to Minneapolis to report on what's going on, and one of the main questions I showed up with is "just what is the scale of the resistance?" After all, we're all used to the news calling Portland a "war zone" or whatever when it's just some protests in one part of town.

22.01.2026 03:58 β€” πŸ‘ 15503    πŸ” 5789    πŸ’¬ 141    πŸ“Œ 1560

Whatever is in the Epstein Files is so explosive that the leaders of the Department of Justice are openly breaking the law every day to keep us from seeing it. (Just a reminder amongst all the other stuff flying around.)

22.01.2026 15:03 β€” πŸ‘ 24542    πŸ” 8333    πŸ’¬ 655    πŸ“Œ 294

Spot on.πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡

22.05.2025 23:55 β€” πŸ‘ 875    πŸ” 148    πŸ’¬ 17    πŸ“Œ 5
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President Trump showed a screenshot of Reuters video taken in the Democratic Republic of Congo as part of what he falsely presented as evidence of mass killings of white South Africans reut.rs/4mI3S7w 1/3

22.05.2025 21:03 β€” πŸ‘ 654    πŸ” 296    πŸ’¬ 86    πŸ“Œ 54
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This is a tweet from our White House. It is sad to realize we have sunk this low and still can see the bottom.

08.04.2025 01:30 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

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