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@kurtrefling.bsky.social

Writer, tabletop game designer, occasional artist. Maybe: future friend? He/him. My games: http://a-smouldering-lighthouse.itch.io

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graphic that says no ice in Minnesota itch.io charity bundle

graphic that says no ice in Minnesota itch.io charity bundle

The No ICE in Minnesota Charity Bundle has officially LAUNCHED!

There are 1,439 games to discover for a $10+ donation to Immigrant Law Center of Minnesota!

Purchase the bundle here: itch.io/b/3484/no-ic...

09.02.2026 14:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3115    ๐Ÿ” 2958    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 30    ๐Ÿ“Œ 313

he really, honestly does

17.01.2026 23:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Stories that aren't mine (from places I haven't been). Hello darlings. Iโ€™ve been sipping at an idea these past weeks. Nursing it like a drink on a night thatโ€™s on the edge of over. Stories donโ€™t really belong to...

Stories that aren't mine (from places I haven't been).

A letter with a few feelings about mailing an object I mistook for a friend, the peculiarities of translation, and a bittersweet feeling in a place that's been abandoned.

buttondown.com/Kurt/archive...

14.01.2026 22:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A crude MS Paint drawing of a small person smiling nervously. In front of the small person, a placard reads "Kurt Refling: Baby / Imposter." On either side of Kurt, the shoulders of two people can be seen, heads out-of-frame like adults in a Charlie Brown cartoon. The left figure wears a suit jacket; the right figure wears a blouse.

A crude MS Paint drawing of a small person smiling nervously. In front of the small person, a placard reads "Kurt Refling: Baby / Imposter." On either side of Kurt, the shoulders of two people can be seen, heads out-of-frame like adults in a Charlie Brown cartoon. The left figure wears a suit jacket; the right figure wears a blouse.

i'm sitting on a couple panels at a convention this year. i know deep down that i'm Smart & Helpful Guy Who Knows Stuff, but do y'all ever feel like --

12.01.2026 15:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

See you at Breakout? ๐Ÿ‘€

03.01.2026 23:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

oh my god

02.01.2026 21:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

never before has a sock puppets post included video. now i am spoiled forever. listen to this perfect bumpo.

31.12.2025 05:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ’›

25.12.2025 05:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

As one of the KS rewards for Sock Puppets โ€” a LARP where you make and operate actual puppets โ€” the inimitable @kurtrefling.bsky.social offered the chance for backers to play a game with Herman, the puppet Kurt built to hype the game.

So what game did I pick? SOCK PUPPETS.

25.12.2025 00:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 21    ๐Ÿ” 5    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

thank you!

21.12.2025 18:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Closing this thread: I would love to know if you've ever watched a how to play video for an RPG! They're so common in the board game space, but I feel like it's largely absent from TTRPGs. If you have, link it below so we can see it too!

21.12.2025 17:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

If people want to pirate a game, there are much easier ways to do it than squinting at a screenshot from a tutorial.

But I am always looking for better ways to open the door for people to play. It's part of what makes @helloalexroberts.bsky.social's game For the Queen such a beautiful thing.

21.12.2025 17:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

"But Kurt," says a straw man. "Your RPG is like 40 pages. What if people just watch this video instead of buying your game?"

Thank you for asking, imaginary person.

I believe that people WANT to support art. We tip buskers because a moment of music is moving enough to invite something in exchange.

21.12.2025 17:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
How to Play Sock Puppets, ft. Herman
YouTube video by An Open Hand How to Play Sock Puppets, ft. Herman

In an act of radical approachability & mediocre puppetry, I made a quickstart video for Sock Puppets: a TTRPG about puppets and their problems.

I made this because I want more games you can just... play. No homework. No tests.

I also wanted to make bad, embarrassing jokes.

youtu.be/DcAZH6iwcXU

21.12.2025 17:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Just couple of OVAs, but they're hard to track down these days

20.12.2025 22:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

...Which means I also didn't know what a "black deck" was. Or that every card in the deck is like, "rotten corpse" or "bone devourer".

Which is how I found myself on my birthday, with my in-laws, playtesting a game about girls attending a school for young... necromancers. [2/2]

20.12.2025 20:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I wrote a magical girls game that uses Clow cards as oracles. During playtesting, I quickly realized it could work with any cards that have interesting art, so I asked my brother-in-law to bring Magic cards over.

I do not know anything about Magic. [1/2]

20.12.2025 20:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hey, did we mention we have Desperation back in stock?

12.12.2025 01:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 31    ๐Ÿ” 8    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

So many people do not have a place in their lives where they can play with other people. I mean really be playful. And the capacity is always there, just waiting to be let out.

11.12.2025 22:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 23    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I know this story wasn't fishing, but I will never pass up on an opportunity to tell you again what a smart smart thing you made.

11.12.2025 22:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Of the many things that make FtQ so genius (revolutionary!) is that and truly embodies games as conversation. You're just answering questions! It's such a perfect way to transition from natural discussion into this place of creativity and imagination.

11.12.2025 22:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

After games of For the Queen, I've had people sheepishly tell me that they'd borrowed some idea from a piece of media they love, or it was just a reframing of something that happened to them.

And I'm like, darlings! Sweet lovelies. Please. That's where all stories come from. You're doing great.

11.12.2025 22:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

God, yes, this exactly. People are so scared that they won't be clever or funny or cool, but none of that is what makes a good story. Good stories come from a place of honesty.

11.12.2025 22:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

writers are such magicians with storytelling games. always a treat.

11.12.2025 22:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
An amateur watercolour painting of a forest scene. A gnome couple sits in the foreground at the root of a tree. Behind them, a forested hillside angles upwards to the right, while a creek passes by on the left.

An amateur watercolour painting of a forest scene. A gnome couple sits in the foreground at the root of a tree. Behind them, a forested hillside angles upwards to the right, while a creek passes by on the left.

went to a white elephant gift exchange this weekend where everyone had to bring something hand-made.

nobody said i *wasn't* allowed to bring watercolour gnomes, so obviously that's what i did.

08.12.2025 16:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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A Smouldering Lighthouse

10 - I tricked you, there's no 10th footnote. You're just reading this because you like reading, nerd. Go read one of my games instead.

a-smouldering-lighthouse.itch.io

Some are even free.

itch.io/c/3144634/li...

Or maybe read my newsletter? I'm fun there too.

buttondown.com/Kurt/archive/

08.12.2025 16:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

9 - If this still sounds high, look into "marginal tax rates"! If you can understand how that works, you'll be a lot less mad about taxes (and a lot more informed than most people).

08.12.2025 16:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

7 - Paying for Adobe would change this thread to "how I made zero money as a game designer this year".

8 - The German title for Sock Puppets is Sockenpuppen. It's the literal translation. I know this. But tell me that isn't adorable. (The Italians have gone with "Sock Puppets," which, fair play.)

08.12.2025 16:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

5 - ULINE is a shipping behemoth headquartered in the US. They are affordable and ubiquitous. They also are megadonors to a very specific political movement that I personally find reprehensible.

6 - If you see me at Breakout (Toronto) in March, please say hello!

08.12.2025 16:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

3 - One Canadian dollar is worth about 70 US cents. That said, cost of living is about 16% higher in the US, so they're closer than they look in practice.

4 - If I was shipping a game in a box or anything that could be considered a toy, my US customers would have to pay significantly more.

08.12.2025 16:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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