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Dee Whitnell (they/them)

@s3xtheorywithdee.bsky.social

🍌 Author of Beyond Bananas & Condoms 🌈 Multi-award-winning Nonbinary for hire πŸ“’ Founder of #TransKidsDeservetoGrowUp @transkidsdeservetogrowup

2,206 Followers  |  100 Following  |  204 Posts  |  Joined: 11.11.2024  |  2.061

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Penis filler is on the rise in Gen Z... but why? Yes, young penis owners are getting penis filler!

πŸ†β€¦ ever heard of peen filler before? It’s a new trend amongst Gen Z peen owners

Here’s what you need to know πŸ‘‡

s3xtheorywithdee.substack.com/p/penis-fill...

04.11.2025 12:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Why are vaginas and periods so scary?! As a sex educator, and a horror fan, I want to know: why are vaginas and periods so scary?!

πŸ“Ί Growing up, there was one horror film that was always talked about, purely for its topic: a vagina with teeth that bit off penises…

s3xtheorywithdee.substack.com/p/why-are-va...

30.10.2025 12:07 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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🚨 It’s finally happened!! Emergency contraction is now free of charge from local pharmacies! πŸ‘‡

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πŸŽƒ Checking your chest isn’t scary.. so let’s check ours this Halloween, with help from some pumpkins!

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Bush-gate ... the hairy vagina saga ... insight from a sex educator who has a bush πŸ’‡β€β™‚οΈ

Free the pubic hair.. don’t buy it?!

s3xtheorywithdee.substack.com/p/bush-gate-...

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Checking your chest isn’t scary πŸŽƒ

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πŸŽƒ Checking your chest isn’t scary.. so let’s check ours this Halloween, with help from some pumpkins!

27.10.2025 21:19 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Day in the life as a s3x educator 🩷✨
YouTube video by Dee Whitnell Day in the life as a s3x educator 🩷✨

Day in the life of a s3x educator πŸŽ₯

youtu.be/Ct-hHIIwrmQ?...

23.10.2025 16:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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⏰ I ALSO provide discounts on multiple commissions and commissions for charities!

Book me while you can! 🩡 Drop me a DM or email me @s3xtheorywithdemi@gmail.com

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🩷I have worked with NHS England, Urban Outfitters, Brook, Dr Martens, Glisten Cosmetics, Cosmopolitan, Durex, The Guardian, Channel 4, Pride in London, BBC to name a few!

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✨ Webinars, workshops, podcast questing!
✨ Talks as an author & book signings!
… and whatever wacky ideas you have!

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So how can we work together πŸ€”:
✨ Trans+ inclusive & specific content creation that will reach 2M+ folks when in collaboration with moi
✨ Talks on Trans sex ed, history and current affairs, my experience as a trans person in journalism, activism and allyship!

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⭐ The TD:LR: I’m a multi-award winning sex educator and content creator with a 2M reach on socials, years of speaking experience & founder of Trans youth campaign Trans Kids Deserve To Grow Up! (You can swipe for more deets like the fact I went viral on Fox News in 2024!)

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🚨 I’m booking for speaking opportunities, content curation & collaboration, & author gigs for Trans Awareness Month (October!) 🧡

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🩷 Today is the start of Black History Month & I have a reminder: Black Trans & Nonbinary folks deserve to see their history too! #BHM

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@s3xtheorywithdee.bsky.social
@mybodyandyours.bsky.social

Plus Ezra, John, Hafsa from @transactualuk.bsky.social Kate, Rachael, Emily, Avi, Tash, Claire, Grace, Ella, Timon, Dhiren and Jordan.

You were all superstars. I am so tired in my mind and so weary in my body, but it was worth every ache.

31.08.2025 23:38 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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My top five *easy and cheap* ways to affirm your gender identity! Here's how I affirm my gender on a budget! πŸ§ΌπŸ‘•πŸ’…

πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ You’ve heard of the gender tax, but what about the trans tax?

For many trans+ folks, there’s higher costs when it comes to just feeling good in yourself! So here’s five of my top *cheap & easy* ways to affirm your gender identity!

s3xtheorywithdee.substack.com/p/my-top-fiv...

03.09.2025 11:15 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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As young people across the globe return to school, these are the headlines trans youth are seeing πŸ‘‡

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β˜€οΈ Summer is here, and so is my dysphoria Personal essay on how my gender shifts depending on the season

β˜€οΈ Last year I went viral for talking about genderseason… but this year I’m feeling it more than ever!

New Substack piece available now πŸ‘‡

s3xtheorywithdee.substack.com/p/summer-is-...

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3/ ✨ These options cover all identities, whilst also highlighting the importance of women’s health & rights.

Language makes a huge difference & working with inclusive language takes practise - but there are ways to include everyone, respect everyone & still get the same message across!

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2/ ✨ Phrases you can use instead include:

Women & those with a uterus!

Women & those who have periods!

Those who have periods!

Individuals who menstruate!

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1/ Instead it places trans men, trans masc, nonbinary & Genderdiverse folks in a category that ultimately misgenders us.. it’s an uncomfortable category to be placed in because the term β€˜woman’ is right there, which is a sensitive spot for many folks who are trans+

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