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@kay-onward.bsky.social

Kayaker. Dork. Urban Planner. Rural NY. Gender Wellness. Not always in this order. Also, trans woman.

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TANTRUM: I love how the Prime Minister reacted, even though it wasn't Canadian Feds who placed + paid for the ad. To sum it up, when America is ready to show up at the table, he's ready to pick up where they left off, otherwise, PM Mark Carney is building Canada's future with or without the US.

24.10.2025 15:50 β€” πŸ‘ 29    πŸ” 8    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This was welcome.

23.10.2025 13:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I dislike the word transexual. In my own language I’m increasingly using gender diverse to represent the umbrella of trans folks.

22.10.2025 17:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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This is Buttercup last night asleep in my legs. She is very much a corgi.

21.10.2025 12:37 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Seriously would be helpful if it auto blurred everyone not the subject of the photo (think portrait subject vs background faces) and we double tapped the additional faces we wanted to include.

18.10.2025 20:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

37, still need to hit a few cuties

31.07.2025 03:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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What if transitioning turns out better than you ever imagined? What becomes possible then?

These are the questions which challenge me to do my best every day.

24.07.2025 14:00 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Just a trans woman spinning through your feed.

21.07.2025 19:31 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Running around Manhattan with a student bus and subway pass. Starting in 4th grade I took the city bus from home to school every day. My kids don’t quite believe me

14.07.2025 03:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

@govenor.ny.gov please sign the bills protecting gender affirming care in ny.

11.07.2025 10:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

When I was being prepped for BA surgery I was asked to provide a urine sample. I asked what the test was for and told it’s β€œroutine.” 10 minutes later the health portal app on my phone gets a notification. Turns out I’m not pregnant. Also I work for gender clinic associated with surgeon & hospital

02.07.2025 10:31 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

So this. I hate it.

26.06.2025 20:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This week has been hell

20.06.2025 16:14 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Trans women are women. Pass it on.

09.06.2025 10:35 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
β€œEnough is ENOUGH!”: The Transexual Menace NYC Pickets The New
York Times
If you have been wanting to make a public display of disgust against The New York Times,
tomorrow is your chance. The Times’ coverage of transgender healthcare is biased and
one-sided in a manner which has only served to further harm the transgender community
at-large. On Thursday June 5, 2025, The Times will be launching its 6-part podcast titled β€œThe
Protocol” aimed at covering transgender healthcare for minors, which looks to be more of the
same unsubstantiated rhetoric. This release also coincides with the first week of Pride Month.
The Transexual Menace NYC refuses to tolerate any longer the constant deluge of journalistic
hit jobs directed at our community. It is time to raise public awareness of The Times’ failure to
provide factual, evidence-based coverage. Beginning at 9:00 AM and running throughout
the work day, The Transexual Menace NYC will be picketing The New York Times Building
at 620 Eighth Avenue in Manhattan to demand an end to The Times’ deliberate
anti-transgender bias.
Publishing this content as a podcast, a format more easily engaged in than print, is particularly
harmful. As Parker Molloy explains in this article from The Present Age: β€œAudio content can feel
more intimate and trustworthy than text… And releasing all episodes at once during Pride Month
maximizes the potential for viral spread and political weaponization.” This is a clear display of
The New York Times’ efforts to continue spreading their executives’ biased points of view to as
wide a centrist audience as possible.

β€œEnough is ENOUGH!”: The Transexual Menace NYC Pickets The New York Times If you have been wanting to make a public display of disgust against The New York Times, tomorrow is your chance. The Times’ coverage of transgender healthcare is biased and one-sided in a manner which has only served to further harm the transgender community at-large. On Thursday June 5, 2025, The Times will be launching its 6-part podcast titled β€œThe Protocol” aimed at covering transgender healthcare for minors, which looks to be more of the same unsubstantiated rhetoric. This release also coincides with the first week of Pride Month. The Transexual Menace NYC refuses to tolerate any longer the constant deluge of journalistic hit jobs directed at our community. It is time to raise public awareness of The Times’ failure to provide factual, evidence-based coverage. Beginning at 9:00 AM and running throughout the work day, The Transexual Menace NYC will be picketing The New York Times Building at 620 Eighth Avenue in Manhattan to demand an end to The Times’ deliberate anti-transgender bias. Publishing this content as a podcast, a format more easily engaged in than print, is particularly harmful. As Parker Molloy explains in this article from The Present Age: β€œAudio content can feel more intimate and trustworthy than text… And releasing all episodes at once during Pride Month maximizes the potential for viral spread and political weaponization.” This is a clear display of The New York Times’ efforts to continue spreading their executives’ biased points of view to as wide a centrist audience as possible.

Share far and wide. Protest the NYT

04.06.2025 20:14 β€” πŸ‘ 116    πŸ” 53    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

TERFs are literally just saying "I don't believe cis women are being harassed in bathrooms" right now.

It's AMAZING how quickly transphobes just jump straight to misogyny and anti-feminism when it suits their needs.

21.05.2025 23:50 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s so stupid and hurtful, but of course that’s the point. It’s meant to out and identify the professional staff that represent the US everyday who happen to also be trans.

And guess what, those professionals are still going to be professional, even as their nation fails them.

14.05.2025 11:55 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The MAGA State Department is not just being gratuitously cruel to trans employees. Deliberately outing & misgendering them in communications will endanger civil servants & foreign service officers abroad.

They want trans people to quit government, to disappear from public life, or to just die.

14.05.2025 02:40 β€” πŸ‘ 151    πŸ” 65    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1

You are speaking up. And that gives others courage to speak up. And yet, as you know it’s exhausting being visible, while you watch so many peers be silent.

I’ve put my energy into the transexualmenace group as a means of being visible in meaningful ways.

12.05.2025 15:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

You are saying the words I’ve been struggling to say myself about this insane place we are in.

12.05.2025 01:30 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Have fun!

As a trans woman who works in a gender clinic I hear a lot of tales of woe, and no question this process can be hard, especially now. But, we aren’t transitioning for others, we do this for ourselves - celebrate the fun we get to have when we are being our authentic selves.

06.05.2025 15:49 β€” πŸ‘ 33    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

im very sick of the cis "ally" take as well that typically goes like: "well look - they're not death camps. we're not there yet. don't be hyperbolic."

like dog theyre not death camps to *you* yet maybe - but look up the raw statistics of what happens to people like *us* when we get arrested. yeah.

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27.04.2025 00:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Just in case anyone was wondering what I think.

26.04.2025 16:03 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Paul Revere 2025: β€œThe British aren’t coming and nor are the Europeans or Canadians….”

24.04.2025 21:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1850    πŸ” 425    πŸ’¬ 90    πŸ“Œ 35

If 70k was just pocket change to me and we were still in a world with non-existent trans healthcare on the NHS, there would still be no more surgery fundraisers because I’d pay for them all. Impossible to become a billionaire without also being a dreadful human being.

25.04.2025 08:50 β€” πŸ‘ 113    πŸ” 10    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Cis people: if you see someone trying to bully trans folks out of single-sex spaces, it’s your moral duty to intervene.

17.04.2025 10:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1595    πŸ” 475    πŸ’¬ 13    πŸ“Œ 20

Just to clarify.

Trans Lifeline.
Fantastic charity.
But only covers the US and Canada.

If you want to help British trans people today. Consider donating to charities like Gendered Intelligence & the LGBT foundation.

16.04.2025 17:19 β€” πŸ‘ 1191    πŸ” 794    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 1

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