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Christian Gajewski

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๐Ÿง  AuDHD - ๐Ÿ’™ INTP-T - โš–๏ธ 2w1 ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡น IT | ๐Ÿ‡ฆ๐Ÿ‡ฉ CAT | ๐Ÿ‡ช๐Ÿ‡ธ ES | ๐Ÿ‡ฌ๐Ÿ‡ง EN | ๐Ÿ‡ฉ๐Ÿ‡ช DE ๐Ÿ”— https://medium.com/@christian.gajewski

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The Autistic Consciousness: Another Way of Being The mystery that lives within us

Consciousness, perception, reality.
Three words, an abyss.
#Autism #Philosophy #consciousness #existentialism #selfawareness

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14.10.2025 17:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Spock and the Spectrum: Exploring Autism Representation in Star Trek From Vulcan Logic to Neurodiverse Narratives

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#Autism #AutismAwareness #AutismAcceptance #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity

19.08.2025 11:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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What If Autism Helped Humanity Evolve? How Hidden Traits of the Mind Shaped Survival, Innovation, and Human Progress

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#Autism #AutismAwareness #AutismAcceptance #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity

19.08.2025 11:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Rolling the Stone, Finding the Spark: Camusโ€™ Myth of Sisyphus Through an Autistic Lens Exploring how repetition, revolt, and meaning-making intersect with neurodivergent experience.

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#Autism #AutismAwareness #AutismAcceptance #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity

19.08.2025 11:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Architecture of Emotion: Life with AuDHD, Alexithymia, and the Art of Simulation When the mask becomes the face, and analysis replaces feeling.

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#Autism #AutismAwareness #AutismAcceptance #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity

19.08.2025 11:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Kubrick, Symmetry, and the Overlap Between Autism and Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder Subtitle: Exploring the Intersection of Artistic Precision and Neurodivergent Traits

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#Autism #AutismAwareness #AutismAcceptance #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity

19.08.2025 11:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Beyond the Fidget: Everyday Objects and the Hidden Function of Stimming Small gestures, big acts of regulation

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#Autism #AutismAwareness #AutismAcceptance #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity

19.08.2025 11:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Craving Fire: Autism, ADHD, and My Unusual Appetite for Taste When sensory seeking meets the dinner table, even water becomes the strangest drink.

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#Autism #AutismAwareness #AutismAcceptance #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity

19.08.2025 11:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Mind Before the Conversation: How an Autistic Brain Handles Social Uncertainty Predictive simulation, mental heuristics, and the hidden labor behind every interaction.

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#Autism #AutismAwareness #AutismAcceptance #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity

19.08.2025 11:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Beyond Rain Man and Sheldon: How Fictional Autistic Characters Builtโ€Šโ€”โ€Šand Brokeโ€Šโ€”โ€ŠStereotypes From silver-screen savants to sitcom scientists, pop culture has shaped how the world sees autismโ€Šโ€”โ€Šfor better and worse.

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#Autism #AutismAwareness #AutismAcceptance #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity

19.08.2025 11:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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How Vulcan Philosophy Guided My Childhood as an Undiagnosed AuDHD Child Finding Calm, Clarity, and a Sense of Purpose Through the Logic of Fiction

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#Autism #AutismAwareness #AutismAcceptance #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodiversity

19.08.2025 11:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Labyrinths We Build, Monsters We Hide When the labyrinth of thought becomes both prison and sanctuary.

Inside each of us thereโ€™s always a Minotaur and a Labyrinth. I wrote about it on Medium, blending myth and psychology.
#Mythology #MentalHealth #SelfReflection #ShadowSelf #Psychology #adhd #autism #AuDHD

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06.09.2025 19:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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When Brains Refuse the Marketplace: Rethinking ADHD and Autism Beyond Disorder What if the problem isnโ€™t the brain, but the world itโ€™s forced to live in?

An invitation to see ADHD and autism not as โ€œdefectsโ€ to be fixed but as cognitive strategies shaped in ancestral contexts and now trapped in rigid school and work systems.
#neurodiversity #adhd #autismo #Psychology #education #society #culture

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14.09.2025 12:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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When โ€œAutismโ€ Becomes Everything: How a Once-Clinical Diagnosis Turned Into a Cultural Mirror Why the spectrum is stretchingโ€Šโ€”โ€Šand what that says about psychiatry, social media, and identity today.

A deep dive into r/Psychiatryโ€™s thread โ€œWhat even is โ€˜autismโ€™ at this point?โ€ โ€” how autism is shifting from a clinical diagnosis to a cultural identity in the age of TikTok and TherapyTok.
#Autism #Neurodiversity #Psychiatry #SocialMedia #MentalHealth #SelfDiagnosis

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17.09.2025 17:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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When a Grain Becomes a Heap: Autism, Twice-Exceptional Adults, and the Sorites Paradox How Ernesto Reaรฑoโ€™s โ€œSer o no ser lo โ€˜suficientemente autistaโ€™โ€ sparked a deeper look at thresholds and identity

Inspired by Ernesto Reaรฑoโ€™s video โ€œSer o no ser lo โ€˜suficientemente autistaโ€™,โ€ I explore how the Sorites paradox helps us understand adult autism and twice-exceptionality.
#Autism #Neurodiversity #TwiceExceptional #AdultAutism #Philosophy #Identity #MentalHealth

18.09.2025 19:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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When Support Turns Hostile: My Month in Autism Subreddits Exploring hidden dynamics, conflicts, and contradictions within communities claiming to support autistic voices.

One month in autism subreddits: firsthand observations on support dynamics, competition, and digital narcissism.
#Autism #Neurodiversity #DigitalToxicity #PeerSupport #OnlineCommunities

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20.09.2025 02:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Being Yourself in Relationships: Authenticity, People-Pleasing, and Alexithymia Finding your way through love, boundaries, and emotional complexity with neurodivergence.

I share my experiences of love, boundaries, and authenticity as someone living with neurodivergence and alexithymia.
#Neurodiversity #Relationships #Authenticity #Alexithymia #MentalHealth

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21.09.2025 14:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Invisible Walls: Why Autistic Voices Go Unheard in Group Settings When silence isnโ€™t a choice but a response to misunderstanding, the cost of exclusion becomes invisible yet profound.

Why are autistic voices so often unheard in groups? In my article, I explain the dynamics, stereotypes, and solutions for more inclusive spaces.
#Autism #Neurodiversity #AutisticMasking

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26.09.2025 12:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Behind the Mirror: Why Autistic People Often Attract Narcissists When empathy becomes a magnet for manipulation

In my latest article, I explore why autistic peopleโ€™s empathy can attract narcissistic partners, how online dynamics amplify risk, and strategies to protect emotional wellbeing.
#Autism #Narcissism #Relationships #EmotionalWellbeing #DigitalCommunication

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30.09.2025 09:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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From Lego to Scars: My Adult Autism Diagnosis How I Spent a Lifetime Cataloging Chaosโ€Šโ€”โ€ŠFrom Masking to Self-Harm, Until the Revelation

From Lego play to lasting scars: the story of my adult autism diagnosis and how I found meaning in the chaos.
#Autism #AutisticMasking #ActuallyAutistic #MentalHealth #Philosophy #Neurodiversity

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04.10.2025 18:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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From Lego to Scars: My Adult Autism Diagnosis How I Spent a Lifetime Cataloging Chaosโ€Šโ€”โ€ŠFrom Masking to Self-Harm, Until the Revelation

From Lego play to lasting scars: the story of my adult autism diagnosis and how I found meaning in the chaos.
#Autism #AutisticMasking #ActuallyAutistic #MentalHealth #Philosophy #Neurodiversity

medium.com/@christian.g...

04.10.2025 18:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Behind the Mirror: Why Autistic People Often Attract Narcissists When empathy becomes a magnet for manipulation

In my latest article, I explore why autistic peopleโ€™s empathy can attract narcissistic partners, how online dynamics amplify risk, and strategies to protect emotional wellbeing.
#Autism #Narcissism #Relationships #EmotionalWellbeing #DigitalCommunication

medium.com/@christian.g...

30.09.2025 09:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Invisible Walls: Why Autistic Voices Go Unheard in Group Settings When silence isnโ€™t a choice but a response to misunderstanding, the cost of exclusion becomes invisible yet profound.

Why are autistic voices so often unheard in groups? In my article, I explain the dynamics, stereotypes, and solutions for more inclusive spaces.
#Autism #Neurodiversity #AutisticMasking

medium.com/@christian.g...

26.09.2025 12:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Being Yourself in Relationships: Authenticity, People-Pleasing, and Alexithymia Finding your way through love, boundaries, and emotional complexity with neurodivergence.

I share my experiences of love, boundaries, and authenticity as someone living with neurodivergence and alexithymia.
#Neurodiversity #Relationships #Authenticity #Alexithymia #MentalHealth

medium.com/@christian.g...

21.09.2025 14:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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When Support Turns Hostile: My Month in Autism Subreddits Exploring hidden dynamics, conflicts, and contradictions within communities claiming to support autistic voices.

One month in autism subreddits: firsthand observations on support dynamics, competition, and digital narcissism.
#Autism #Neurodiversity #DigitalToxicity #PeerSupport #OnlineCommunities

medium.com/@christian.g...

20.09.2025 02:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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When a Grain Becomes a Heap: Autism, Twice-Exceptional Adults, and the Sorites Paradox How Ernesto Reaรฑoโ€™s โ€œSer o no ser lo โ€˜suficientemente autistaโ€™โ€ sparked a deeper look at thresholds and identity

Inspired by Ernesto Reaรฑoโ€™s video โ€œSer o no ser lo โ€˜suficientemente autistaโ€™,โ€ I explore how the Sorites paradox helps us understand adult autism and twice-exceptionality.
#Autism #Neurodiversity #TwiceExceptional #AdultAutism #Philosophy #Identity #MentalHealth

18.09.2025 19:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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When โ€œAutismโ€ Becomes Everything: How a Once-Clinical Diagnosis Turned Into a Cultural Mirror Why the spectrum is stretchingโ€Šโ€”โ€Šand what that says about psychiatry, social media, and identity today.

A deep dive into r/Psychiatryโ€™s thread โ€œWhat even is โ€˜autismโ€™ at this point?โ€ โ€” how autism is shifting from a clinical diagnosis to a cultural identity in the age of TikTok and TherapyTok.
#Autism #Neurodiversity #Psychiatry #SocialMedia #MentalHealth #SelfDiagnosis

medium.com/@christian.g...

17.09.2025 17:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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When Brains Refuse the Marketplace: Rethinking ADHD and Autism Beyond Disorder What if the problem isnโ€™t the brain, but the world itโ€™s forced to live in?

An invitation to see ADHD and autism not as โ€œdefectsโ€ to be fixed but as cognitive strategies shaped in ancestral contexts and now trapped in rigid school and work systems.
#neurodiversity #adhd #autismo #Psychology #education #society #culture

medium.com/@christian.g...

14.09.2025 12:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Labyrinths We Build, Monsters We Hide When the labyrinth of thought becomes both prison and sanctuary.

Inside each of us thereโ€™s always a Minotaur and a Labyrinth. I wrote about it on Medium, blending myth and psychology.
#Mythology #MentalHealth #SelfReflection #ShadowSelf #Psychology #adhd #autism #AuDHD

medium.com/@christian.g...

06.09.2025 19:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Would you be so kind as to elaborate, please? I'm sincerely interested in your point of view.

19.08.2025 12:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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