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Aviva Blakeman

@actuallyaviva.bsky.social

author of kissing books (most recently: Hot Lumberjack http://shorturl.at/EIPW5 )snark enthusiast, confirmed spinster, anxiety aficionado, fangirl, she/her

1,103 Followers  |  140 Following  |  1,349 Posts  |  Joined: 15.08.2023  |  1.6362

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Happy spoopy day! You took your meds and had the water so you can see the Great Pumpkin right? Good job, have another candy!

31.10.2025 22:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Feel that? You're alive. Did you take your meds today? Release the tension from your shoulders. Open your mouth, stretch your face muscles, then go drink some water. Give a primal scream. As a treat.

30.10.2025 23:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

YES!! ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ

29.10.2025 23:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is your reminder that you are your worst critic. Nobody is judging you as harshly as you. The rating youโ€™re giving yourself? Thatโ€™s probably only about 30% of what others perceive. You are doing GREAT! So take your meds and drink some water!

29.10.2025 23:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody promoting Zohran

Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody promoting Zohran

POV youโ€™re still not married and your grandparents just found the nicest boy with a good job they want you to meet

29.10.2025 02:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 16132    ๐Ÿ” 1695    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 211    ๐Ÿ“Œ 144

Iโ€™m super proud of you, friend!

29.10.2025 12:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Well tbf, Iโ€™m not great at interacting with the comments myself, and thatโ€™s a big part of what drives responses so it makes sense. But thank you for saying this, Iโ€™m always happy to know these are helpful for people!

29.10.2025 12:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Itโ€™s right around or after dinner time for some of us, so quick check-in, did you take your meds today? Maybe have some water just for fun. Bonus round: whatโ€™s a nice thing you did for yourself today?

28.10.2025 23:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Laura Loomer @LauraLoomer
X.com
I've been warning the GOP this is going to be the biggest issue on the ballot in 2026 and 2028...
I also told President Trump.
Let's see what happens.
Allie Beth Stuckey
@conservmillen โ€ข1d
I asked my 840k Instagram followers (mostly
Christian women) what their biggest concern is for the country right now, and by FAR the most common answer is the growing influence of Islam.
I'd like to see this concern reflected in the GOP asap
7:46 PM โ€ข 10/26/25 โ€ข 300K Views

Laura Loomer @LauraLoomer X.com I've been warning the GOP this is going to be the biggest issue on the ballot in 2026 and 2028... I also told President Trump. Let's see what happens. Allie Beth Stuckey @conservmillen โ€ข1d I asked my 840k Instagram followers (mostly Christian women) what their biggest concern is for the country right now, and by FAR the most common answer is the growing influence of Islam. I'd like to see this concern reflected in the GOP asap 7:46 PM โ€ข 10/26/25 โ€ข 300K Views

Muslims comprise about 1.3% of the US population. If they can indeed make this an issue that can shift millions of votes, then the American electorate (and the opposition to MAGA) is a lost cause.

28.10.2025 00:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 429    ๐Ÿ” 84    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 64    ๐Ÿ“Œ 28

Hey hey hey! Itโ€™s Monday! Whatโ€™s one thing you can plan to do tonight to REALLY celebrate yourself and nourish you? Can you do something to make sure that happens? I believe in you!

27.10.2025 22:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Some days you eat soup for dinner and take a surprise nap after. Thatโ€™s cool. Donโ€™t forget your meds and have some water and moisturize.

26.10.2025 23:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Did you know your name rhymes with magnificent? No? Well you must be saying it wrong, friend, cause it totally does! Remember your meds today and have some water and moisturize something!

25.10.2025 23:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

APPARENTLY we gravitate to crime dramas and the like because we are used to tension-brain and that gets us there when nothing is wrong-wrong. So thatโ€™s fun. Hey remember your meds and have some water and moisturize something.

25.10.2025 00:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Did you manage to make it through your day without adopting a wild raccoon? Good job friend, nobody likes rabies. If you DO have a new pet, idk man, go get some shots. RIGHT now. Also take your meds, have some water, and call animal control.

23.10.2025 22:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Follow your instincts tonight, friend. Do that thing youโ€™ve always wanted to do. Even if you need to put down plastic first. You deserve a treat. Just take your meds and have some water and moisture too. Plan accordingly.

23.10.2025 01:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Have you taken your meds today? Did you drink water? You DID?! Look at you living your best life!

22.10.2025 00:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I am absolutely not telling you how to live your life, but it is delightful to have a collection of your favorite artisan grilled cheese sandwich recipes for when you want your own elementary school sick day but you gotta make it fashion. Take your meds and drink something!

20.10.2025 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I bet you did at least one thing today that didnโ€™t suck. If you took your meds and had water? Dude, thatโ€™s two more things! And Iโ€™d you havenโ€™t done those yet? You still have time todayโ€™s not done yet! Good job, you!

19.10.2025 22:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Celebrate your peace pockets. Yes, I said peace pockets. Things are HARD right now and those little moments of calm are how you find the strength to manage the storm. I believe in you. You can cuss as much as you want.

19.10.2025 00:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Whatever you decide to be make sure you lean into it & make sure youโ€™re a real one. Real good, real dramatic, real fake. But remember your meds. Have water. Moisturize something. Donโ€™t be real dehydrated & ashy, nobody likes that.

17.10.2025 23:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Consider this your weekly reminder that you deserve as much energy as you put into keeping your tech sufficiently charged and in working order. Youโ€™re worth more than air pods. Take your meds. Drink some water. Yeah, I said. Itโ€™s true.

16.10.2025 22:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hey now, youโ€™re a rock star, get the show on, get paid. hey now, the show is meds, go take โ€˜em. Maybe also have some water. You know what else glitters? You when you moisturize. Youโ€™ll never shine if you donโ€™t glow, yo.

15.10.2025 22:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Youโ€™re doing so amazing, sweetie! Iโ€™m so proud of you! You absolutely do not need to cave to algorithm pressure and join that dating app unless you want to. Also take your meds today if you havenโ€™t and have some water. Youโ€™re gorgeous!

14.10.2025 22:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Look I've been holding off from months asking this on Bluesky because of my pride but I need help.

My car needs brakes, my rent is past due and my step kid needs shoes.

I hate having to ask this

14.10.2025 17:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 448    ๐Ÿ” 499    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 14    ๐Ÿ“Œ 74

Hey, guess what?
Itโ€™s Monday. Donโ€™t forget to take your meds and drink some water. The water is just to shake things up before you moisturize. Obviously.

13.10.2025 22:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You are doing so well getting ready for the new week, youโ€™re impressing all kinds of people. I know. I hear things. I am proud of you, friend. Iโ€™ll bet you even took your meds today. Bonus round: did you drink any water?

13.10.2025 00:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

There is a finite number of times you can be told how great you are before you start to believe it (thatโ€™s a good thing). So Iโ€™m going to tell you again: youโ€™re pretty great. Take your meds. Have some water. Youโ€™re great.

11.10.2025 23:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Today is Mental Health Awareness Day, apparently. So quick check: do you have a mental and is it healthy? Itโ€™s cool if itโ€™s not, not everybody is good with plants. In the meantime, did you take your meds today? Drink something!

11.10.2025 00:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I've also decided my goal for the coming year will be to treat everyone who enters my life the way I've been treated on my birthday--with all the love, kindness, warmth, and genuine well wishes I can bring. Also, possibly and occasionally presents because who doesn't love presents sometimes? ;) 2/2

10.10.2025 12:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes both here and in person! You are all incredibly special to me and I can honestly say yesterday was my best birthday ever. I'm feeling incredibly blessed. 1/2

10.10.2025 12:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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