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@garethkthomas.bsky.social

Redefining our understanding of child trauma. Therapeutic Specialist with lived experience. Speaker & Writer. Director of Strategy @coect.bsky.social.

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Every week, I speak to schools going above and beyond (with too few staff, too little money, and enormous stress) to do right by their children.

I also see children being pushed out of schools and into specialist provision because the school can’t (or won’t) meet their needs.

14.11.2025 09:55 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Children should attend school with their neighbours, friends, and teammates.

To make this possible, they need to have their needs met.

This can’t be the sole responsibility of schools (who have enough on their plates), but they clearly play a vital role in meeting needs.

14.11.2025 09:55 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Clearly, for some children, there is a need for specialist provision.

For the vast majority of children, they should be able to attend their local school (where their friends go, where transport is logical/affordable, where they are part of their community).

14.11.2025 09:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

By the end of the decade:

πŸ“ˆ One in every 20 children will have an EHCP

πŸ“ˆ Special school placements will cost councils Β£8bn

(According to the CCN)

14.11.2025 09:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

There’s an over-reliance on higher-cost placements/specialist provision, including private school places, according to The County Councils Network (CCN).

In 2014/15, there were 109,000 children in special schools in England.

Now, there are 194,000.

14.11.2025 09:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Another day, another sign our SEND system is utterly broken.

At the start of this year, there were 638,745 EHCPs in place.

That’s up 10.8% from the same time last year.

However, it’s not just EHCPs that are breaking budgets...

14.11.2025 09:55 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This is from a school that excels in many areas, and I understand why these things happen.

However, it ties in with the broader point I often make: we’ve moved away from humanity and connection, replacing them with systematisation and automation.

09.11.2025 20:54 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Nothing says β€œwell done” like a failed mail-merge.

09.11.2025 20:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
We are educating children for a world where they will navigate social media, manage personal data, identify misinformation, and use mobile technology for work and communication.

If we ban the device entirely for seven formative years, we are sending them into the digital deep end without ever teaching them how to swim.

We are educating children for a world where they will navigate social media, manage personal data, identify misinformation, and use mobile technology for work and communication. If we ban the device entirely for seven formative years, we are sending them into the digital deep end without ever teaching them how to swim.

I’m part of the last generation to experience childhood without a smartphone.

I learned how to β€œswim in the digital deep” as an adult who got to play as a kid.

Seems to work well.

09.11.2025 20:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Last weekend, a machine cut a duplicate key for me.

This weekend, a machine processed my lunch order.

I didn’t need to speak to another human.

Is this progress?

09.11.2025 10:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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As a care-leaver, my eldest was automatically entitled to significant benefits.

I encouraged and supported him into part time work. The β€˜benefits’ he’s gained from this are immeasurable.

09.11.2025 09:17 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Full report… www.northwalessafeguardingboard.wales/wp-content/...

04.11.2025 20:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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From the Child Practice Review (CPR) looking at Neil Foden, the former head teacher and "prolific sex offender who harmed many children".

Will lessons be learned?

04.11.2025 20:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

For the families I work with…

Their children didn’t play when they were little.

They were too hungry, scared, terrified.

They were trying to survive.

I no longer have any doubts about the importance of play.

02.11.2025 10:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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All while charging Local Authorities Β£85,617 per pupil, per year.

01.11.2025 13:01 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

www.20splenty.org/2nd_anniver...

17.10.2025 08:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

In Wales, over a period of 18 months:

β€œ...14 people have not been killed on Welsh roads because of 20mph and 98 will have avoided a hospital visit for a serious injury.”

Proud to live in a country where research and policy override politics.

17.10.2025 08:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Ooooh... new book from Charlie Mackesy out this month. 😍

03.10.2025 11:57 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

There's no parent-blaming here. My youngest chose to stay home and watch TV instead of walking the dog.

But I do worry. Where did all the kids go?

18.09.2025 16:54 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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5pm, after school, on a mild September evening.

This purpose-built facility in our village is empty.

Not a child in sight here, or on the two surrounding playing fields, or in the two nearby playgrounds.

18.09.2025 16:54 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Keep school at school. Keep home at home.

For children with trauma, this is often essential.

17.09.2025 20:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Why do schools do this?

An email goes out asking, β€œAre you nervous about being back in school?” on the same day they’re putting a child into a β€œlunchtime lockdown” for chewing gum (a well-known regulation strategy for children with trauma).

17.09.2025 08:05 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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From an interview with Peter Lamont, author of Radical Thinking.

14.09.2025 08:01 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

All three of my kids were shown graphic videos of Charlie Kirk’s assassination yesterday.

They’re three different ages, in three different education settings (two of which have phone bans), across three local authorities.

One of my kids doesn’t have their own smartphone.

12.09.2025 05:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Would you say that's the primary driver of this increase?

10.09.2025 17:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

UNDERSTANDING behaviour is not EXCUSING behaviour.

πŸ‘‰ Going below surface-level behaviour is not dismissing behaviour

πŸ‘‰ Being radically curious about behaviour is not accepting behaviour

πŸ‘‰ Accepting what drives behaviour is not endorsing behaviour

10.09.2025 17:06 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Therapeutic bath. πŸ› β€οΈβ€πŸ©Ή

09.09.2025 07:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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As our kids return to school, I’m thinking of all those wonderful security blankets in the form of humans who work tirelessly with our kids.

Children with trauma want a better life.

That starts with never feeling that scared again.

08.09.2025 07:09 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Is this sustainable?

From Lana Hempsall in The Spectator.

07.09.2025 07:18 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Tom Bennett: strict rules β€˜dovetail perfectly’ with inclusion The DfE attendance and behaviour ambassador defends his record and tells Tes why he wants to check on teacher-training providers

www.tes.com/magazine/ne...

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