It clearly brought someone a lot of joy - and they are the one wearing it, not me. I had just never even conceived would be a thing.
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It clearly brought someone a lot of joy - and they are the one wearing it, not me. I had just never even conceived would be a thing.
10.08.2025 21:59 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I am very much a βdo not yuck someone elseβs yumβ person, providing the think in question doesnβt harm others
But Iβve just seen a crocheted stole andβ¦π±
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Thank you everyone for your suggestions. Iβve joined the Clergy Clutter group, asked our local ordinands group, emailed the diocese admin who looks after ordinands whoβs emailed about one being for sale in the past, emailed my DDO, and checked eBay. Thatβs enough for today!
10.08.2025 20:35 β π 6 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Once again, Merlin is not picking up owl friend. Have flagged the recording. This time is much closer so Iβm not sure why it isnβt being picked up.
10.08.2025 20:32 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I have put a call out into the local ordinands group just in case anyone has anything suitable.
10.08.2025 19:40 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Oh fun!!
10.08.2025 19:13 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I strongly suspect youβre right. Iβve put a request out on the Clergy Clutter Facebook group.
10.08.2025 19:12 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Perfect! Looks glorious!
10.08.2025 19:09 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Sounds like just what you needed :)
10.08.2025 19:08 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Yes, I could manage the length. Whilst Iβm capable of making shirts from scratch, adjusting suiting is next level πΆ
10.08.2025 17:15 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0OK, Iβm going to repost this one more time this weekend for the Sunday Evening crowd. (You could consider it the Evensong collection!) #CofEPeeps
10.08.2025 16:57 β π 5 π 3 π¬ 0 π 1Oh, how annoying!!
10.08.2025 16:40 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Well done! Thatβs a big achievement.
10.08.2025 16:39 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Yes. I might see if Iβm allowed to join the clergy clutter group on FB someone has suggested, incase something suitable turns up there.
10.08.2025 16:38 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I may ask try asking round the local ordinands group to see if anyone elseβs church has one I can borrow though.
10.08.2025 16:36 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Iβm training locally and our benefice doesnβt have any as spares. This one was one the vicar had when she was first ordained.
10.08.2025 16:36 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 2 π 0This is my thinking. I remember last time I had something seriously adjusted that the tailor warned me itβs often easier and cheaper to adjust suiting thatβs too small than too big.
10.08.2025 12:13 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Dragged myself to church this morning, really wasnβt feeling it.
In the end was a lovely service, chaos level 0/10 (rare but welcome π).
Met some people interested partnering with us for eco church. Had a good chat with our retired SSM about the positives of the freedom the role offers you.
How was worship for you this morning? At home, at church, or away?
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Watching videos of police dragging away grannies for holding an anti genocide bit of card, thinking about the time the Met buried reports that one of their officers was a predator, then after he used police ID to kidnap, rape & murder a woman, they then arrested women for holding a vigil for her.
10.08.2025 11:39 β π 668 π 272 π¬ 8 π 6I LOVE THESE!! I haven't seen them in years but they're a real highlight of driving in France and Germany.
10.08.2025 11:58 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0The difficulty I have is I donβt cope well in things that are much too big for me - Iβm small and if stuff it too big I look like a child wearing grown up clothes and it does funny things to my confidence. So getting it right is a worthwhile investment.
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So, Iβve been offered a cassock that approximately three sizes too big. Next step is to take it to the dry cleaners and find out if it will cost more to adjust than to buy my own. It will need taking up by about eight inches, but the shoulders are also very wide, and padded.
10.08.2025 11:57 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 8 π 1Hard agree. To be honest, itβs an old idea rolled out at various points by various members of minority groups. Disabled people. People of colour. You canβt βniceβ yourself into being accepted by a main stream society that denies you exist and have human rights. Respectability politics isnβt equity.
10.08.2025 11:52 β π 26 π 4 π¬ 2 π 1Gluten is delicious and everything but honestly, Iβm done with all the symptoms from eating it again. Alas, 4+ weeks to go π«
09.08.2025 21:29 β π 6 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Itβs maddening when *you* can hear what you suspect is an owl calling, and the Merlin app (which is generally very good) suggests something off the wall because the sound is just out of your phoneβs mic range. Reasonably certain it isnβt a Black Tailed Godwit.
09.08.2025 21:26 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Very true!!
09.08.2025 20:31 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I think Iβve found people are very nervous (understand) to hand anyone else their phone in case itβs taken. I guess it depends on the area youβre in at the time.
Iβm 5β1β and small so I donβt think I was otherwise threatening π
This is a really, really important thing to grasp. Understanding accountability as something other than punishment is probably the single most important key to building a better way of relating:
09.08.2025 14:33 β π 14 π 2 π¬ 2 π 0βEverything that happened and continues to happen on a daily basis originates with a government that calls itself 'Christian'.β (continued)
From Edith Steinβs letter to the pope in 1933 βοΈ