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Sarah

@running2staysane.bsky.social

Solo mum of 6, complex needs TA, jnr parkrun director. Run a bit, swim a bit, trying to stay sane whilst navigating SEND system. Neurodivergent family. Norwich #legorunbuddy

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We take the piss. For me the financial insecurity, inability to plan, to envisage any kind of future or literally look beyond surviving the day is crippling.

08.11.2025 07:46 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Who currently cant work as my caring responsibilities & my own health arent allowing it the impact on my well being is huge. I can rationally know that I just cant juggle it all but I WANT to work, I love my job. Not working is hard, & then we are bombarded with messages about being scroungers, that

08.11.2025 07:46 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Yes its this idea that you are lucky to not work, those who feel that away are assuming you have the liberty to thrn do as you please. When actually you see actually busy/overwhelmed managing your health/disability. And doing so with v limited means, often in pain, dealing with MH etc. As an adult

08.11.2025 07:46 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Have just fitted into our crazy household perfectly. Bobbles is THE most laid back daft cat ever & Misty is the boss. Both love cuddles, are crazy & comfort everybody with their fluffy purring. They are so soothing & the best thing ever.

07.11.2025 12:14 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Waits for all the comments about what a bad cat owner you are because your toddler is mauling the cats as people clearly dont get humour 😂 but exactly this. Ours were 8 weeks old when we got them. My youngest is older but has complex needs. He learnt very quickly how to handle them & the kittens

07.11.2025 12:14 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
Bobbles and Misty, two black kittens. Bobbles closest to camera, looking at it, Misty inside a play tunnel on her back they are leaning their heads on each other.

Bobbles and Misty, two black kittens. Bobbles closest to camera, looking at it, Misty inside a play tunnel on her back they are leaning their heads on each other.

Our two kittens turn one this month & they absolutely the BEST thing ever for the whole family. Totally agree.

07.11.2025 11:24 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
Redirecting...

The occuplaytionsl therapist www.facebook.com/share/1DKvuy... did some good stuff on this and adapting it to children. You would have to scroll back, but she detailed her stuff & think posted some links.

07.11.2025 11:15 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Ughhh joys of oral steroids for asthma meaning no sleep. At this point I could cry. And I cant even run to help my mood/mental health because my lungs still dont want to work. This too will pass, at least I have the kittens to keep me company. #norunning #poorlyrunner #asthma #steroids #keepgoing

07.11.2025 04:20 — 👍 6    🔁 0    💬 3    📌 0

Yes! Honestly the political landscape feels very bleak at moment. Dealing with the system as I am feeling like I have another decade of constant battling to help small get an accessible education is scary/exhausting. And I always think what about the families/children who cant advocate.

04.11.2025 12:13 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

In a world that is so much more overwhelming. Its not surprising more children & adults are struggling with it. Making adaptations for that seems logical to me, why wouldnt you want to?

04.11.2025 12:11 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Developed less healthy coping mechanisms but grew up feeling out of place. Also we know so much more about child development so I struggle to understand why we dont want to look at the implications of that on education. Especially when so many are struggling. From sensory perspective we do now live

04.11.2025 12:11 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

World we absolutely make adaptations. I stand up, am near side/back so I can move. Have something to fiddle with, chew gum, use weighted blanket. As a child I was fortunate to live abroad, swam every day, was outside & clearly that supported my sensory needs until high school when actually I then

04.11.2025 12:11 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Brilliant! I have only understood my own sensory issues because of my children & my work. I feel what a lot of schools mean with inclusion is more expecting children to suppress themselves tbh. So many times I hear 'well in the real world they wont be allowed/able. When actually as adult in the real

04.11.2025 12:11 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

It was very emotional, even at home getting them ready I felt tearful & couldn't read all the labels when I was there or I would have cried. Luckily saw a friend there & the volunteers were lovely. Oddly enough didnt see anyone from County Council Education/SEND. I just hope people listen.

04.11.2025 10:15 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

That I dont really like Prince Caspian. We just finished Varjak Paw The Outlaw & looking for a decent series but not sure small will like Narnia pace wise. But if we read them then we can then watch the BBC productions afterwards, which I love.

04.11.2025 09:08 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Are you reading them in publication order or chronological order. I read them in chronological order, though was debating skipping Magicians Nephew to begin with with small. He will get the concept of 'wrong' order because Star Wars.. & I dont likd Magicians Nephew as much. But you have reminded me

04.11.2025 09:08 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Ha yes, we got boy/girl siblings & the boy is the soppiest. Right from tiny he has let us carry him around like a baby. Lays in our arms with belly up all dopey. His sister wont allow that,she has to sit on our shoulder like a parrot. We do joke that she got all the brains though he is so daft.

04.11.2025 08:58 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
Picture of numerous pairs of chikdrens shoes on the steps of county hall norfolk. ##everypairtellsastory  in silent protest and raising the childrens voices for those failed by SEND education system in England. Picture is shoes on the steps all with a tag attached telling a childs story.

Picture of numerous pairs of chikdrens shoes on the steps of county hall norfolk. ##everypairtellsastory in silent protest and raising the childrens voices for those failed by SEND education system in England. Picture is shoes on the steps all with a tag attached telling a childs story.

Dropped off shoes on behalf of small, & also some friends as part of the sharing of childrens voices and the harm being caused because of lack of appropriate support & provision. #everypairtellsastory #SEND #TheSendSanctury #letuslearntoo #Norfolk #norfolkcountycouncil #countyhall

03.11.2025 14:10 — 👍 5    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
End of run smug selfie after an easy 8 miles. Love runs like that. I am wearing jellyfish tikiboo shorts a navy running t shirt and high vis vest l. I have a head torch on but its turned off as it was light when I got home at 6:50am.

End of run smug selfie after an easy 8 miles. Love runs like that. I am wearing jellyfish tikiboo shorts a navy running t shirt and high vis vest l. I have a head torch on but its turned off as it was light when I got home at 6:50am.

Legorunbuddy and legorunkitten with a bike wheel on dining room table after putting it back together. Misty kitten is investigating the wheel too.

Legorunbuddy and legorunkitten with a bike wheel on dining room table after putting it back together. Misty kitten is investigating the wheel too.

Super smug with an easy 8 miles this morning. A run where I could have just kept going but ran out of time. Especially as I then had to fix a puncture so M can cycle to school. #running2keepthecrazyaway #legorunbuddy #running #morningmiles #keepgoing

03.11.2025 07:38 — 👍 13    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
Little mushrooms at junior parkrun. Nestled in the grass on a drizzly morning.

Little mushrooms at junior parkrun. Nestled in the grass on a drizzly morning.

Legorunbuddy and legorunkitten on a red wooden swing at the marshes. Behind fields, trees and blue sky. It was REALLY windy and my friend had to hold the swing still and shelter the lego figures so they didnt blow off.

Legorunbuddy and legorunkitten on a red wooden swing at the marshes. Behind fields, trees and blue sky. It was REALLY windy and my friend had to hold the swing still and shelter the lego figures so they didnt blow off.

Selfie with the cows

Selfie with the cows

Fungus from junior parkrun RD duties this morning & pics from yesterday's run. On with a new month, counting down to 1000 miles for the year. #running2keepthecrazyaway #legorunbuddy #running #runwithfriends #November #keepgoing

02.11.2025 22:09 — 👍 10    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
My cooker turned on pasta baje cooking inside, with my swim kit hanging on thr outsidd to dry so I can wear it again tomorrow.  Bikini, swim shoes and gloves.

My cooker turned on pasta baje cooking inside, with my swim kit hanging on thr outsidd to dry so I can wear it again tomorrow. Bikini, swim shoes and gloves.

Tell me your a wild swimmers without saying you are a wild swimmer. As I swam this morning and want to swim tomorrow, drying my bikini, swim shoes & gloves whilst also cooking dinner 🤣 #wildswim #swimtounwind #winterswimming #notputtingheatingonyet

31.10.2025 18:28 — 👍 6    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Yes I was going to use a hot glue gun. This is kind of what I thought but its definitely going to be one of those things that takes longer & is far more fiddly than you think! Thank you.

31.10.2025 18:01 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Ok I shall check how many, i definitely have different sizes. In my head I had already thought it is one if those things that 'looks' quite simple but is probably not. I was going to use glue gun but some people suggest attaching with twisted wire? I think glue gun and tinsel to cover imperfections?

31.10.2025 14:47 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I have a box of baubles and am old wire coat hanger and the intention to do this....

31.10.2025 14:23 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
Garmin stats for month of October. 183.1 km or 113 miles.

Garmin stats for month of October. 183.1 km or 113 miles.

Picture of the river looking over to the bridge. Its a bit overcast, there are leaves floating in the water.

Picture of the river looking over to the bridge. Its a bit overcast, there are leaves floating in the water.

Managed 113 miles for October. And ended the month with a river swim at 7:30am. Cold but still jumping in. #wildswim ##swimtounwind #running ##keepgoing #dailyjoy

31.10.2025 09:57 — 👍 17    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 0
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Yes thats what I will do. This is what my council say re the passes. I am not sure how legal it is to have a policy that states this. Also its very dated, aspergers 🙄 my child has complex motor, verbal tics & is pda as well & at times the demand of walking means he cant. Its not a wont, its a cant.

31.10.2025 09:54 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
Legorunbuddy and legorunkitten at my meeting spot except I didnt meet my friend today as we couldn't get timings to work. They are stood on railings of a pedestrian crossing. Its still dark and road is damp.

Legorunbuddy and legorunkitten at my meeting spot except I didnt meet my friend today as we couldn't get timings to work. They are stood on railings of a pedestrian crossing. Its still dark and road is damp.

End of my run. Morning light, bare trees to thd left, road stretching out in front and cloudy sky.

End of my run. Morning light, bare trees to thd left, road stretching out in front and cloudy sky.

Same road as last nights run, ten hours later. Still dark when I go out but nice to finish in the light, for a few weeks at least. Now to go jump in a river! #running2keepthecrazyaway #legorunbuddy #running #morningmiles #keepgoing

31.10.2025 06:49 — 👍 18    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

I was looking into disability bus passes as was told my child might be eligible. However my County Council have a policy that says autusm doesn't count. Child has other disabilities as well but I suspect we will get a no. Its on my list, but already battling re EHCP & social care support...

30.10.2025 21:38 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Mine took about 90 days, tbh I was pleased with that as when I sent it in they said it could take 140 days (20 week) so when I got the award letter I wasnt expecting it. Then had to report to UC & request back payment of carers allowance etc. Its all a nightmare to navigate.

30.10.2025 15:29 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
Misty and Bobbles. Misty is in the tunnel and leaning her head out. Bobbles had been trying to get in, but she put her head on top of him and was not letting him. They snuggled together like that. The cats are both black and the tunnel is green, red, blue, pink and has yellow piping.

Misty and Bobbles. Misty is in the tunnel and leaning her head out. Bobbles had been trying to get in, but she put her head on top of him and was not letting him. They snuggled together like that. The cats are both black and the tunnel is green, red, blue, pink and has yellow piping.

Legorunbuddy sat on the new postbox box topper. Knitted  pumpkins in different colours and pipe cleaner spiders. Behind you can see trees.

Legorunbuddy sat on the new postbox box topper. Knitted pumpkins in different colours and pipe cleaner spiders. Behind you can see trees.

Short and sweet 2 mile run this morning. Tricky morning has left me feeling wobbly, but look at my babies 😍 cant believe the kittens will be one in November! Legorunbuddy exploring the new postbox topper at the end of my run. #running2keepthecrazyaway #legorunbuddy #running #keepgoing

30.10.2025 15:18 — 👍 7    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

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