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Late-diagnosed (48yr) neurodivergent. Fascinated by ‘unmasking’, the intersection of neurodivergence with generational trauma, and the double empathy problem (also fungi, geopolitics, etymology, puns, photography & PC strategy games) #autistic #adhd

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When what was broken learns its rest,
I will look up again
And find the stars unchanged,
And myself made lighter for the waiting.

12.10.2025 21:39 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Still, the stars do not withdraw
They burn for all,
Even those who cannot lift
Their eyes just yet.

12.10.2025 21:35 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Hi. It's me. 2 weeks later. This is done. 58 frames over 3 seconds, *50* layers in the final image. WOO. This was a long edit, felt like ACTUAL work so unless I get it again with the actual sunset I doubt I'll be editing more like this. Psyched for the final piece tho! 🪶

28.09.2025 04:49 — 👍 2495    🔁 566    💬 53    📌 18

Perhaps I didn’t write that clearly. I wasn’t stating that all narcissists are abusive. However, some are, and in those cases, autistics like me make great targets.

15.09.2025 05:33 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Graphene has the required properties at a microscopic scale, however, we can’t produce it at the lengths required for it to work in this application.

21.08.2025 13:48 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I know! Those pesky excuses just keep getting in the way. Maybe if we ignore them they’ll just disappear. After all, it’s what politicians do.

21.08.2025 13:44 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Building a colony on mars is more feasible

21.08.2025 13:36 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

And that’s before we have to over engineer it to account for fatigue and environmental degradation: oxidation, UV, thermal cycling, wind loads and impacts etc.

21.08.2025 13:34 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 3    📌 0

Even our best macroscopic fibers have a tensile strength short of what’s needed by about an order of magnitude.

And it’s even harder in practice - the above assumes they can be made over the entire length with zero flaws.

21.08.2025 13:31 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

If only it was that easy. The tether has to be so thick that it would tear itself apart unless made of an ultra-strong, ultra-light material. The required strength-to-weight ratio is many times higher than any bulk material humanity can currently produce.

21.08.2025 13:27 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I wonder if ogre meant back then what it means now.

20.08.2025 17:11 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Thanks, interesting. So nothing to do with Hungary. Likely a play on ‘Logres’, (ancient name for England and Wales) and Latin ‘orcus’. Seems first written record of ogre in French predates by about 250 years the Italian orco.

20.08.2025 16:59 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Thank you

20.08.2025 16:36 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Nations will have no choice but to tax the big companies and redistribute. The alternative is an uprising.

20.08.2025 08:52 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Historically, industrialists like Henry Ford raised worker wages so that workers could afford the cars they built. That era is long gone. Now that the jobs are going too…

20.08.2025 08:50 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

From the photo, it looks like it doesn’t have gills on the underside (although it’s hard to see clearly). I thought all Amanitas have gills?

20.08.2025 06:59 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

There’s an old saying: all mushrooms are edible; but you’ll eat the deadly poisonous ones only once.

20.08.2025 06:49 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Please be VERY careful about foraging. Only eating those mushrooms that you 100% ID as being safe to eat. Ask an expert if unsure.

20.08.2025 06:48 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Cut off the stem and then place the cap face down on a sheet of paper (ideally half black / half white). Cover it with a glass bowl and leave overnight. You should be able to see any spores on the paper the next day.

20.08.2025 06:46 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Although I’ve heard arguments that it was a blend, with the French supposedly taking the Italian orco and combining it with hongrois in a play on words to derive ogre.

19.08.2025 20:16 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Given ‘ogre’ didn’t show up in the french language until the late 17th century, it’s more likely it was borrowed from the Italian.

19.08.2025 20:11 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

Or it was borrowed from ‘orco’ the Italian word (which was derived from Orcus) meaning a man-eating monster or demon

19.08.2025 20:09 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

That sounds (and the photo looks) very much like Pleated Inkcap (also known as Japanese Parasol).

19.08.2025 19:32 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

Please *don’t* risk eating them in case the ID is wrong, False Parasol is poisonous. Also, some deadly mushrooms have a white spore print.

19.08.2025 19:29 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

The second one is either False Parasol or the real Parasol. Although the stem seems short so likely to be the False Parasol.

You can differentiate by taking a spore print - the false parasol has a green spore print and the other has a white one.

19.08.2025 19:28 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0

If they’re Japanese Parasol, they don’t last very long. An added clue would be seeing them collapsed the next day or even that evening.

19.08.2025 19:13 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Yup, and some more: awkwardly, awkwardest, awkwardish, awkwardness…

19.08.2025 18:03 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Hard to say from this angle.

Did you get a look underneath - gills, pores, or smooth?

Also roughly how big across was the cap?

Finally, where did you find it (I can’t tell from the photo) - wood chips, compost, grass, or forest floor?

That might help me narrow it down.

19.08.2025 17:18 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Hadn’t even considered that point. It’s a good one.

19.08.2025 15:15 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Interestingly, xenophobia may not be a constant. There’s evidence to suggest it varies dependent on resource scarcity, threat perception and stability / instability. Could explain why nationalist do so well during challenging periods.

19.08.2025 11:52 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

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