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Denise Ruttan

@teawhilewriting.bsky.social

Reader, photographer, occasional writer, legal assistant. Movies, vinyl, sci fi, gaming, comics, knitting, sewing, sports. Queer. She/they Links: https://teawhilewriting.carrd.co

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Agree completely. The defenses I've seen of him by filmbros are revolting

06.12.2025 07:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Looking for more live music to attend makes me realize just how many bands there are out there that I have never heard of

06.12.2025 07:22 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The 1977 cut of Star Wars will return to theaters in 2027 Greedo never stood a chance.

About time.

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06.12.2025 07:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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PodCastle 920: Auguries - PodCastle Auguries By Jennifer R. Donohue Β  She screamed the first time, so loud that the old man who lived in the next apartment arrived at her door with surprising speed, cardigan thrown hastily over his…

I was one of the fiction editors at GAMUT, and I loved this story from when I first saw it in the submissions pile: "Auguries" by Jennifer R. Donohue is now reprinted at Podcastle, narrated by Heather Thomas.
podcastle.org/2025/12/02/p...

06.12.2025 07:13 β€” πŸ‘ 19    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
Screenshot from Pluribus

Screenshot from Pluribus

πŸ“Ί: Pluribus, S1, E6 "HDP"

"Don't call me son. You're not my mother. My mother's a bitch"

The Soylent Green plot thickens

#tvsky

06.12.2025 07:04 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm going to mute Heated Rivalry now. I'm getting really tired of people saying that romance can only be spicy to be valid and queer people deserve to get laid in media too... I'm a romance fan and demisexual and give me sexual tension filled yearning any day instead

And yes smut should exist!

06.12.2025 06:49 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Even after Me Too, great male filmmakers like Tarantino who are abusive toward women get a pass because people separate the art from the artist. "But his films are bangers" and "that's just what people do for publicity, act like assholes"

06.12.2025 05:52 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Verdict. It was absolutely fantastic. I hope to see her live in Portland in January

06.12.2025 05:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Deep purple pansy petals with a yellow eye.

Deep purple pansy petals with a yellow eye.

Something beautiful for this day: Pansy, Yakima, Washington (December 2025). #flowers

06.12.2025 04:38 β€” πŸ‘ 123    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

So... Netflix is going to own DC, Harry Potter, Mortal Kombat, and whatever other Warner Bros franchises you can think of, on top of HBO Max.

...I give it five years before Netflix sells Warner and they're back on the market again.

05.12.2025 09:27 β€” πŸ‘ 638    πŸ” 66    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 11

Welcome to the cool kids

06.12.2025 05:13 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love the convenience of streaming, but for any movie or show that I really love, I want to own a physical copy. The quality often better, and it is much less likely to disappear suddenly if a license expires or a company merges out of business. And disks often have cool extras.

05.12.2025 17:27 β€” πŸ‘ 786    πŸ” 89    πŸ’¬ 57    πŸ“Œ 11
Record and record player: Suzanne Vega, Flying With Angels

Record and record player: Suzanne Vega, Flying With Angels

Time to put down my phone, have some wine and crank up Suzanne Vega's new album #nowspinning #fridaymusic #vinyl

06.12.2025 05:01 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
Letterboxed recent activity: Shelby Oaks, If I Had Legs I'd Kick You, Anniversary

Letterboxed recent activity: Shelby Oaks, If I Had Legs I'd Kick You, Anniversary

Another week of movies! Kind of a mixed bag this week #LetterboxdFriday #LastFourWatched

06.12.2025 04:46 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yeah, their version was lots of texting, macho ribbing, and then slamming each other against a wall when they were alone, I was like how did you get from point A to point B, you seemed like you were just friends with a fun rivalry πŸ˜†

06.12.2025 04:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yeah, I think that's what made it seem like less of a romance to me. True romance fans will tell you that all sex scenes are necessary. But the sex was so excessive that it made Shane and Ilya feel like just a hookup, I had a hard time seeing their emotional depth

06.12.2025 04:07 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ“Ί: Shelby Oaks (2025). I don't know why this film got panned so hard on Rotten Tomatoes. It's not great but it's doing some intriguing things with found footage, a favorite horror trope of mine #filmsky #horrormovies #currentlywatching

06.12.2025 03:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

There is so much sex! It's like a five pepper spice level πŸ˜…

06.12.2025 03:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

There's one (1) film scene that makes me cry every time I see it and its Paul Dano screaming in Little Miss Sunshine.

If the Medium's Biggest Hack is calling you out, take it as a compliment

05.12.2025 02:59 β€” πŸ‘ 48    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 1

I have now caught up on Heated Rivalry. I have mixed feelings about the books but I like the show overall. Two things I like the best: The characters are big on enthusiastic consent and it did capture how tough it is to be closeted in a macho world. It kind of put it through a het romance lens

06.12.2025 03:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Records: Brandi Carlisle and Suzanne Vega

Records: Brandi Carlisle and Suzanne Vega

I went on a new record buying spree because #vinyl collecting is a dangerous hobby. I need to switch to used record stores for a bit but there is just something about popping a brand new album from its case and being the first person to hear it. I've been loving folk lately too! These came today

06.12.2025 02:52 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m seeing this on a tv in the break room at work, I want to leave work sick for I end up throwing a tv out the window in anger. I don’t have to be specific for you to know who and what I’m talking about.

05.12.2025 17:38 β€” πŸ‘ 34    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

Heated Rivalry does remind me of my journey through queer fic. When I was first questioning my gender identity I read a lot of MM. But I couldn't relate to a lot of it. Then I switched to sapphic, and since so much of it is ownvoices rep, I saw myself more in their flexibility with gender roles

06.12.2025 02:39 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I really loved this one! The ending sold it for me

06.12.2025 02:32 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yeah, I get bored of Bsky because no one talks to you here, but I'd rather not be back in that toxic soup just for constant access. I feel like any promotion gets drowned out by drama. I do miss some of the people though

06.12.2025 02:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
The scene is a beach with some shore ice and then some slushie ice on an overcast day

The scene is a beach with some shore ice and then some slushie ice on an overcast day

More ice building here on the northwest corner of Lake Michigan. #906Life #MyMichigan

05.12.2025 13:39 β€” πŸ‘ 124    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 1

Hopefully not driving yourself πŸ˜…πŸ€—

06.12.2025 02:22 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Also I must say, if you're a straight stan of Heated Rivalry and you challenge a queer person critiquing it, you're not much of an ally and that's the whole problem I have with MM as a genre these days. Too many people exploit the rep

06.12.2025 02:13 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My brain explodes in demisexual

06.12.2025 02:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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