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@ratherastory.bsky.social

Queer Canadian Quaker. Former Montrealer living in Ottawa. No chill. Prepping for Tuesday, because saving the world is unglamorous. She/her. I like my angels the way I like my coffee: COVERED IN BEEEEEEES!

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Logistics are awful, but it all does seem to shake out in the end. You got this!

11.02.2026 23:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

OH, AND!

This is not to say you will be perfect. You will make lots of mistakes, and that is fine too! The important part is not NOT making mistakes, but how you deal with the aftermath of your mistakes. As long as your kid knows you love and support them, that is 99% of it.

11.02.2026 21:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

FWIW my mother raised me while dealing with likely C-PTSD and an undiagnosed anxiety disorder and very likely autism/other neurospiciness (she's a WWII refugee among other things) and she did JUST FINE. You will be fine too, and so will the tadpole. ❀️

11.02.2026 21:41 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

"We'd fire no guns, shed no teeeeeeeears!"

But honestly, no, I am not surprised. Canadian content got SWAMPED by US content with the advent of widespread internet access and no cancon laws to regulate that shit. Alas.

11.02.2026 02:07 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The ski jumping this year has had two separate scandals involving men's crotches (one more valid than the other). It is WILD out there!

11.02.2026 01:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Well, shit.

06.02.2026 14:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

*siiiiiigh*

03.02.2026 17:52 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Our PM just bragged about cutting taxes at Davos! Isn't he great! Isn't giving tax breaks to the rich so much better than providing robust social services to all? SO COOL.

03.02.2026 17:48 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Cutting jobs in the public service is the ONLY way Canada can balance the books, didn't you know? There certainly are no other options (like maybe not subsidizing oil companies and other corporations for no return on investment at all). Nope. No options whatsoever. OH WELL. πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

03.02.2026 16:33 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

That is deeply unsettling. 😬

03.02.2026 16:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Chronically online fistbump!

29.01.2026 02:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Honestly it just needs an Ea Nasir reference slid in there somehow to make it complete. 😜

29.01.2026 01:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Okay! I did wonder! πŸ˜‚

25.01.2026 18:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

There have been a lot more than "two so far." It just so happens that those two are white, and that's why they're making headlines. ICE has killed a lot of people that no one ever bothers mentioning.

25.01.2026 18:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That's weird, I thought New Jersey was right near New York? Is snow truly rare there?

25.01.2026 18:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Margaret Fell.

25.01.2026 16:07 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My cozy activity was getting up at 4am and driving an hour to work in -26 C weather. 😝

Luckily where I am isn't getting a ton of snow or ice so far, just very cold temps, and we're (mostly) equipped for that.

25.01.2026 14:03 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

What do they think their slogan means? Are they thinking of martyrdom? Something else? I'm not following their reasoning at all.

25.01.2026 12:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm glad you are still here with us. ❀️

24.01.2026 16:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank YOU for sharing your stories!

18.01.2026 13:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Or Anne is NOT a mutant but PASSIONATELY defends her new mutant friends because she understands what it’s like to be ~different.

18.01.2026 06:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I would definitely read that fic.

18.01.2026 04:44 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Fun fact: I learned the word "deliquesce" from reading Black River Orchard and now find reasons to work it into my everyday speech because it's such a great word. So, thank you! I love your writing. ❀️

18.01.2026 03:01 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

As far as I can tell they got married in 2009 and are still together (that last part is a little more hazy), and "Peter Pan" is now in his seventies.

I don't know exactly why I went looking, but it was reassuring to see that the whimsy lives on in that corner of the internet. 😊

18.01.2026 00:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I remembered that he'd found his Tinkerbell, and I wondered if they'd stayed together after all these years. I went hunting and, one Google search later, the website still exists! It has been updated to keep up with tech, but it's fundamentally the same.

18.01.2026 00:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I randomly remembered a website my friends showed me about 25 years ago when I was at university, about a dude who spent his life cosplaying/living as Peter Pan and looking for a "Tinkerbell" to be his girlfriend (interestingly, not Wendy).

18.01.2026 00:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Convincing myself to use the treadmill at work when I'm five days into my night shifts feels especially heroic. Just saying.

17.01.2026 08:55 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

We need to get those numbers up, folks. These are rookie numbers! We can do better!

17.01.2026 06:25 β€” πŸ‘ 656    πŸ” 165    πŸ’¬ 49    πŸ“Œ 8

You have to block them immediately. The full nuclear. They are only here to make folks angry, and that can’t happen if we lock them out.

16.01.2026 23:59 β€” πŸ‘ 5942    πŸ” 3407    πŸ’¬ 158    πŸ“Œ 90

Delightful, really!

15.01.2026 10:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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