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Nico M

@nicom.bsky.social

Ex-canadian now in Netherlands, writer of fiction, gemmologist, lapidary, leatherwork, goldsmith. Collector of hammers. Travel, coffee, bikes, environmental care and good infrastructure, and mayhem.The usual, right?

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Anyone concerned about e-bikes being β€œcheating” needs to ask themselves how much cheating is done by pushing a car’s gas pedal.

23.02.2026 22:35 β€” πŸ‘ 18    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

between a long ago busted knee that sometimes doesn’t like to behave, and the dutch winds, the ebike is the equalizer and i bike more, further, and i don’t need max assist, just a low setting boost.:D

24.02.2026 09:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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E-bike scheme gives 67-year-old joy and a new lease of life Frances King, 67, who lives with osteoporosis, was referred to Cherwell District Council’s Move Together programme to support her in becoming more…

Is riding an e bike cheating?
No, it's just like doing 20 reps at a low weight instead of 10 at a heavy weight in the gym. You get the exercise anyway. AND you might be more likely to get on the bike in the first place.

www.oxfordmail.co.uk/news/2586115...

23.02.2026 13:06 β€” πŸ‘ 737    πŸ” 140    πŸ’¬ 59    πŸ“Œ 12

just deleted duolingo. i had long finished dutch, and honestly it was just a time suck and slowly less and less useful or fun.

23.02.2026 19:53 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Tired, and achy, from 10km walking in Antwerp, endless chocolate, two museums and a festival and a writer meet up.

I am having mild anxiety but it could just be chocolate overdose and flat utter exhaustion.

22.02.2026 19:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Antwerp daytrip.

21.02.2026 19:30 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

ok an hour to do some book editing on vampy erotica romance, and then shower, then pass out for a solid sleep because the weekend of chocolate with writer adventurer bestie here starts.

diamond museum and chocolate museum in antwerp, then chocolate museum in amsterdam, and writer sunday meet up.

20.02.2026 19:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

my bike is my car. coming from a city with next to no cycle infrastructure, i feel so grateful.

( randomly, i’ve been to charlotte! friends live there. nice airport too. downside: maybe the worst case of food poisoning we all ever got. that made for a wild flight home.:D )

20.02.2026 17:01 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

we lived only 3 blocks from the school, 90 seconds bike ride so around age 8 he started biking it solo. now he’s in middle school at 12 and its a 5? min bike ride but the pool for gym was 15. they also biked to summer year end camp 20km with teachers.

its a gradual process.:D

20.02.2026 16:48 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

i’m fortunate in that we do have extensive cycling infrastructure and in school they did comprehensive cycle safety and drivers being also well trained and also cyclists too, its not my fear. its being harassed by roving kids on fatbikes out to stir trouble that i worry

20.02.2026 16:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

mine biked cross the city to a friend’s house and i almost chewed my fingers off with worry. he’s almost 13. But he handled it.

I’ll still worry when he’s 23, i’m sure.

20.02.2026 16:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

week two of not eating mammalian ( no cow, pork), and the hives are vastly reduced and almost non existent.

In a couple weeks I might email my GP and ask if we can test for alpha gal. that would be one major health irk sorted.

Everything else is relatively managed, but the hives we were lost on.

20.02.2026 16:18 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

i don’t miss the baby years. they were fun, but i like the years he can talk back, cook his own breakfast and do his own laundry.

20.02.2026 15:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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i lost him at the playground so next time i put him in a vibrant t shirt to spot him. saw him and went β€œOH FOR….”

I could not have camoflaged him better. :D

20.02.2026 15:17 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The depriver of sleep is now taller than me.:D

20.02.2026 15:11 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The first 6 months i was a zombie, sleep deprived, aching, and i vaguely remember…anything.

It will go by fast. ( and then you stare at your pre teen and go β€œhow did that ALL happen so fast?”)

20.02.2026 15:04 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Is it any wonder? The man has no brains for accountancy, business sense, logic, science, leadership, no wonder he bankrupted so many times and nicked money from charity.

He’s got the fiscal sense of a walnut. And people will still champion him.

19.02.2026 19:18 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

maddeningly, the more i learn the more i have to stop, review, learn. one set of books for learning is great, and explanatory, the other meant for class and instructor use but i don’t have that, and a third ref for sentence structure.

I’ll conquer this yet.

18.02.2026 19:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Dutch reading practice.:D

18.02.2026 19:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I have to consider this rule too. :)

18.02.2026 18:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

its almost as if outsourcing to ai and stakeholder oligarchs isa bad idea.

re last two reposts.

18.02.2026 17:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Tesla Robotaxis Reportedly Crashing at a Rate That's 4x Higher Than Humans The incidents bring the robotaxi service to a total of 14 crashes since launching last summer.

Tesla Robotaxis Reportedly Crashing at a Rate That’s 4x Higher Than Humans. β€œThe incidents bring the robotaxi service to a total of 14 crashes since launching last summer.” Via @gizmodo.com

18.02.2026 17:30 β€” πŸ‘ 123    πŸ” 63    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 7
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for the first few years here, my son rode on a seat on the back of my bike. our conversations and giggles and singing were so much fun.:D

18.02.2026 15:48 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So this all feels like a hormone driven reverse puberty joke my brain is pulling on me. Id like the hot flashes. You can solve that with a popsicle or iced latte.

But no. I get jerk version of perimenopause. Fucking. Hell.

18.02.2026 13:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The anxiety in perimenopause is esp frustrating since i am in no way β€œ anxious”. I stared down dignitaries and secret service in high security events. For work. I worked at airport security ( security clearance documentation) on 9/11. I am not β€œ anxious. β€œ. Aliens could land. Im cool as a cucumber.

18.02.2026 13:49 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

anx spiked a bit but this time its dental, appt thurs.

solved with a unique combo of a small dose of benzo, a 1100m swim, and a double espresso.

eh. whatever works, right?

Also, i’m so over this winter weather like holy fuck make it STOP.

18.02.2026 13:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

man at the rate my teeth randomly break now, regrow teeth, you say?

all of it is awesome.:D but teeth…..

18.02.2026 13:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

( in toronto.)

16.02.2026 16:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Winters with my son when he was in a stroller we were frequently housebound due to uncleared sidewalks, access points, bus stops.

16.02.2026 16:06 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

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