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Jennie Lou

@lemonfeet.bsky.social

Mom, public servant, recovering people pleaser, and lover of equity, diversity, and inclusion. Let's build community together and remember Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr's message and the bravery of those who fought for their rights to be seen at Stonewall.

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Ended up quitting because he was too frustrated. I told him it was okay to walk away if it was too much, the important thing was he tried, and he can come back when he's calmer. So much growth from this little man.

09.09.2025 16:44 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I heard him say to himself aloud, "No, don't rage quit. That's what losers do." And he kept going. He told himself that he was smart and it's okay that he didn't get it right the first time, and I'm so incredibly proud of him for persisting. He still struggled and tried a time or two more but 🧡

09.09.2025 16:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My AuDHD kid is such a perfectionist and being a teice exceptional child means that for many years, things just came easily to him. Now that school is getting harder, he has been struggling with not getting things as easily as they used to. But yesterday he was having a hard time on a video game, 🧡

09.09.2025 16:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Be careful, Colorado friends! I just got this scam text looking like an official text from the DMV! Do not click the link!!

22.07.2025 13:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Just a sweet doggo for the afternoon feels.

11.06.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Further erosion of the separation of church and state and clear bias for one religion. This email went out to VA employees.

23.04.2025 12:30 β€” πŸ‘ 52    πŸ” 22    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 2

Consent! Teach them that they have a right to defend themselves against anyone touching them without permission! Teach them that they MUST ask permission to touch someone else's person!

Thank you for coming to my TEDTalk.

14.04.2025 16:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Mama Bear seethed. He said he would handle it, again. He wasn't privy to it happening this weekend. I'm still angry that this continues to be a thing. She needs to ask him permission to touch him in any way and, in fact, I prefer she not be around him going forward.

Parents! Teach your kids about🧡

14.04.2025 16:30 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

...again. I comforted my Bear, made sure he knew he was heard and asked if he wanted me to talk about it with the adults again and he did. His dad was a grown up about it as I told him this was more than enough and this child, who is nearly 18 needs to keep her hands off my kid. He agreed as this 🧡

14.04.2025 16:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Furthermore, hearing him describe the same behavior by the people he should be able to trust enrages me more. I've spoken out against this multiple times and used the kindest voice I can with his dad (with whom I have a wonderful co-parenting relationship and who agrees). But last night I heard it 🧡

14.04.2025 16:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I get it, he's laughing so it seems like he's having fun or doesn't mean it. He has to get angry or escape for it to stop. This is not bodily autonomy and family members used to do this to me as well when I was little. I hated it and would become enraged when they didn't stop. I feel his aggravation

14.04.2025 16:24 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

And in fact, he's told me multiple times over the years that she tickles him without consent and then he gets made and tries to get away or push her away because she doesn't take him seriously when he tells her to stop, and ultimately he ends up running into something trying to get away. 🧡

14.04.2025 16:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Her kids are significantly older than him. Her youngest is 17. I've often listened as my son describes interactions with this child in particular and he doesn't hate her, but definitely has had a rocky relationship. I've often felt that she treats him as if he's "just" a little kid so has no say 🧡

14.04.2025 16:21 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My kiddo is 9 years old. His dad and I split when he was almost 2 and his dad has been with his current girlfriend for most of that time. I believe they had been friends for a long time before that even. So she and her kids grew up knowing my Bear... 🧡

14.04.2025 16:18 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Got to take the Bear to see the Minecraft Movie today. So much fun and such a handsome movie date I got to have.

06.04.2025 23:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Building community is something that fills my soul. Bear is becoming good friends with another boy from school hool who we discovered lives 2 blocks away on our street. I'm only just getting to know his mom but she bought me a chicken to take care of me today because I'm sick. My heart is full.

31.03.2025 20:49 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I generally dislike small talk, but we all do it habitually, and it usually just gets shrugged off. But lately, it feels even more cringe when someone asks what's new or how I am, and I smile and say, "Everything's good!" Or, "Nothing exciting or new!" The inner voice is screaming otherwise.

27.03.2025 15:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Look s like even those required to defend the law cower and kiss the king.
We are NOT ok.

23.03.2025 12:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1769    πŸ” 443    πŸ’¬ 36    πŸ“Œ 12
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Measles in the U.S.: Latest Maps and Cases As new cases are reported, our maps and illustrations show the spread of the virus and how infections can run through a community.

Measles continues to spread in West Texas and New Mexico, with more than 250 people infected β€” many unvaccinated school-age children. These maps and illustrations show the spread of the virus in the U.S., and how infections can run through a community.

13.03.2025 02:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1451    πŸ” 509    πŸ’¬ 135    πŸ“Œ 63
Speech againt Trump, by french senator, Claude Malhuret. ( English subtitles )
YouTube video by Alain Cazes Speech againt Trump, by french senator, Claude Malhuret. ( English subtitles )

youtu.be/QIK9vbQRwBQ

10.03.2025 15:49 β€” πŸ‘ 573    πŸ” 117    πŸ’¬ 21    πŸ“Œ 12
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What a different world we could have.

09.03.2025 17:06 β€” πŸ‘ 56460    πŸ” 12603    πŸ’¬ 787    πŸ“Œ 551

My socks is all wrong and I'm wearing shoes that are difficult to get on. This sock situation is a delicate balance for people with sensory issues... too tight and you're screwed, too loose, same.
I'm 44 yrs old and I can barely keep it together. Trying to keep that perspective for my 9 yr old.

09.03.2025 16:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Champagne Supernova by Oasis

08.03.2025 13:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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'Ferris Bueller' Clip Explaining Tariff Disaster In 1930 Goes Viral Amid Trump's Tariff War Anyone? Anyone?

Anyone? Bueller?

06.03.2025 21:00 β€” πŸ‘ 3739    πŸ” 602    πŸ’¬ 80    πŸ“Œ 26
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She doesn't make it easy to work but she is super cute!

05.03.2025 20:58 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The only sounds in my house right now are snoring dogs... this feels different.

05.03.2025 19:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Regardless, on my way home I couldn't stop picturing the giant cross and giggling because they have no clue that what they're doing is participating in a magik ritual. If they realized, would they still be so eager to burn the witches?

05.03.2025 15:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

We see a teacher moments after, who i think must be a coach for some sort of sports ball... he has a giant ash cross on his forehead. I'm not sure if my kid ran off to class because he's just becoming more independent or if he was embarrassed that he questioned a teacher's beliefs. 🧡

05.03.2025 15:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I was raised Baptist but did my best to explain from the brain washing I'd received my whole childhood except stating "Christians believe..."

Then as we walked up to the school had just finished telling him about the ashy cross on foreheads. The whole time he said "that doesn't make sense".
🧡

05.03.2025 14:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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