This is me talking to my husband most evenings.
20.02.2026 21:03 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0@kcmpls.bsky.social
Minneapolis. Gen X mom to a preschooler. Government IT employee. She/her.
This is me talking to my husband most evenings.
20.02.2026 21:03 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I love this and am 100% making a playlist this weekend too. My only hope is that I'm too late by the time I finish it Sunday.
20.02.2026 17:35 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0We started with just allowing everything for her age. But if you choose custom settings, or something like that, it gives you different groups of creators based on topic and you can choose which ones to allow. Then we subscribed to some more channels we like, and that is all she sees.
19.02.2026 20:21 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0We've had to block a bunch of stuff. We also changed her settings to only allow certain groups of creators. We were getting a lot of religious stuff I didn't want her to see, along with families who just exploited their kids for the $$, so we changed how we had it set up.
19.02.2026 20:16 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I have a pre-K 5 year old. I would be fine with "crap" but also I say "shit" in front of my kid way too much and she's been saying it sometimes for over a year, so I'd be really happy if she picked up "crap." I also know LOTS of parents who would not be ok with it. So I don't think you are a prude.
19.02.2026 20:07 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Between them stealing license plates and using mostly rental cars, we will probably never know.
19.02.2026 19:00 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I had a former boss who was basically this! High cholesterol even though he ate a vegan diet and ran 3+ miles every day. Not sufficiently controlled with medication. Had a heart attack even though he was one of the healthiest people I know. Maybe he is a marvel mutant and no one told him?
19.02.2026 16:31 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Mustards. Tabasco Chipotle hot sauce. Marmalade. Green curry.
19.02.2026 15:47 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0And my first day at MNIT I was handed the 3 year roadmap to get off of MAXIS. Obviously that didnβt happen.
19.02.2026 03:29 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0We overlapped at DHS, I remember you from 444 Lafayette. I did 5 at Hennepin, and almost 20 now at the State. Moving to MNIT saved me, I would not still be at DHS.
19.02.2026 03:27 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 2 π 0I have an original MAXIS coffee mug from the 1989 rollout, though I didnβt start at the county until 2001. I do miss county work some days. Or maybe I just miss my 20sβ¦
19.02.2026 03:21 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Itβs been a day. To top it off, my kid stole my towel and clothes while I was in the shower. My strong desire for a second bathroom just changed to a second bathroom with a lock on the door.
19.02.2026 03:07 β π 9 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Yes, we are still reviewing our options, but Super Summer is looking promising. Minneapolis Gymnastics has availability too, we had already signed her up for two weeks there. We really wanted to keep her at the park where she has been doing preschool for the last two yeas for most of the summer
19.02.2026 01:23 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0And there are YMCA day camps for Kindergartens still open, but Iβm not ready to put my 5 year old on a bus by herself yet and am absolutely not driving to Lakeville.
19.02.2026 01:21 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Minneapolis Parks is what we missed today. Iβve learned Minneapolis Schools Super Summer is Sunday, so we may be trying that.
19.02.2026 01:19 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0After crying in the bathroom I walked into my managers office and told him what happened. βBut itβs Februaryβ he says. Like yes, but most are in January. Itβs just bonkers.
19.02.2026 01:18 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 2 π 0Iβm still reeling from missing summer camp sign up. My kidβs bestieβs parents also missed it so we are strategizing together. Having someone in the same boat and a beer helps things.
19.02.2026 00:09 β π 6 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0That was a terrible commute. Left half hour early and couldnβt get home before my husband had to leave for work. So he took the kid to work, I met them here, and now me and the kid are eating burgers and I got a lovely dunkel style beer.
19.02.2026 00:08 β π 8 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0oh fuck. I fucked up. I had summer camp registration on my calendar for tomorrow. It is today. They are all full. We have no backup plan. I'm going to go cry in the bathroom now.
18.02.2026 19:14 β π 5 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Whatβs bonkers to me is that sports betting is NOT legal in Minnesota. How do we have ads for a thing that is not legal to do? Can I just run a cocaine ad? Or murder for hire?
18.02.2026 02:49 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I do think they may be fucking with us. Or what? Spying via our WiFi? Seems that would be easier by car? Watching vulnerable people? But sometimes they donβt stop over houses for more than a half minute. Mapping something?
18.02.2026 01:57 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Agreed, I really want to know what they are doing!!! My neighborhood drone chat (lol, I canβt believe this is where we are) has a lot of theories. Theyβve been mapping them and have figured out a standard route.
18.02.2026 01:31 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Wasnβt home for the drone show tonight, but saw a few as we left tumbling class at Lake Hiawatha. Tried to intercept two of them by car and got close before they raced off across the golf course.
18.02.2026 01:09 β π 9 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0Capsule wouldn't deliver my med because there were supply chain issues so they decided they just wouldn't deliver it.
17.02.2026 19:08 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I have a few co-workers dealing with that and it is bonkers how much it costs. I don't understand how anyone pays for it.
17.02.2026 19:07 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I know, but we already have a lot of those expenses. We are paying for camp for this summer. She's in expensive tennis lessons already. We put away money for college monthly now. Piano may be the next big one, but maybe ukulele is good enough?
17.02.2026 18:59 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I'm hoping for a few years reprieve. She's too young for travelling sports and as of now we don't need before/after school care. There is talk of a piano though...
17.02.2026 18:56 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Maybe unpopular among the urbanists, but I am 100% in favor of pharmacy drive-throughs. I don't want to be in line with contagious people. I especially don't want immune compromised people in line with contagious people. All other drive-throughs can be banned.
17.02.2026 18:54 β π 18 π 4 π¬ 3 π 0I think I just signed up and paid for the last session of expensive swim school for my kid ever. Really looking forward to not having to pay for swim school OR preschool next year.
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