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Intersex, woman, deep fried neurons

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It's frustrating. I want to say "trans women are women and you have no right to exclude them", but then, because they tied their safety and identity to their anti-trans hatred, they hear "fuck your safety and identity!"

I find the conversation much more productive by re-separating those conditions.

03.02.2026 14:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

For sure! I see it as a hybrid.

"I'm disgusted by trans people" (unfair) tied to "I'm afraid of sexual assault" (fair) expressed as "Keep them out of my bathroom!"

I try to affirm their safety need, while drawing a hard line on trans exclusion. Tends to reduce identity damage + outrage.

03.02.2026 14:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Falkner's entire personality is hating trans people.

Other GC people have different reasons for the position they hold. Some of them more understandable to me than others.

But I can only reasonably discern Falkner's behaviour as that of a massive bellend with no capacity for self-reflection.

03.02.2026 05:43 β€” πŸ‘ 18    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

So tired of being sick I decided to pay to get my whole genome sequenced so I can at least see if there's anything weird there.

Maybe I'm double intersex, who knows.

30.01.2026 14:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Wish our flag was sick as fuck like the trans flag though

Onion ring on cheese lookin

30.01.2026 14:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Mr Politician sir, I know you are a fellow millennial but please do not vaguebook, I want to understand what this post means

29.01.2026 01:44 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Good perspective.

I don't want a world where the least vulnerable kids are able to bypass the restrictions, and the most vulnerable, who are apparently the target of this policy to protect, are unable to, cutting off resources they could've used to be safe.

27.01.2026 22:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I've been insanely guarded about being intersex for most of my life. It's only the last few months I've actually started talking in more open settings. People have been so kind and respectful, especially in advocacy spaces.

I feel less afraid, and more like I'm me. It's strange.

27.01.2026 22:26 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Also just to be completely clear, as I unwittingly push to the far-left side of the bioessentialist horseshoe -

Binary and non-binary transgender people are valid. Intersex people exist despite the cultural erasure.

27.01.2026 01:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I will die on this hill.

You can sex somebody's gonads, chromosomes, primary, secondary and hormonal characteristics. Those traits are part of a system that morph in complex ways over a lifetime.

Gender identity is also a sex trait, part of the same system. It cannot be overruled by other traits.

27.01.2026 01:52 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Sex is a system of traits, not a singular classification. It is something you HAVE, not something you ARE.

No sex trait can be used to classify somebody's identity, except one - their gender identity.

27.01.2026 01:46 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Honestly, if they shopped for advice that gave them the idea this was not a GDPR violation, they should consider finding a lawyer that isn't a fucking hack.

25.01.2026 22:15 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Not sure what a plotting spreadsheet is.

Is that when you just want to Excel at writing?

24.01.2026 00:54 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Next year -

Video team: "Right, so we've got a great idea for our next video"
Zack: "Just as long as you don't make me do any more exercise on video again, haha."
Video team: "..."
Zack: "Seriously?"
Video team: "Hear us out, so you know how you're RUNNING for Prime Minister?"
Zack: "Fuck off."

23.01.2026 22:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

CAUTION:

Do not attempt unless experienced. He was a level 2 TERF. Level 4 TERFs like Helen Joyce learn just enough biology to attack intersex people with their sex chromosomes / gonads.

To succeed, you will need to argue that their sex categories are as rigid as their hate boner for trans people.

23.01.2026 20:14 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A TERF was attacking my trans friends because 'biological sex'. I don't like being a 'gotcha', but this was an exception. I forced him through a talk on genetics, steroidogenesis, and my resultant genitals. I asked him to classify my 'biological sex'. He classified me as a 'complex argument'.

Lmao

23.01.2026 20:07 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

OH! No, not at all. It was incredible, actually. I learned so much. Especially - there's a lot less bigotry than I thought, and a lot more fear of repercussion for personal consequences of visible allyship.

The 'man' horse is because it was a very hard day for me emotionally!

23.01.2026 15:01 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Went to Parliament to help represent trans and intersex people

My experience, summarised in the attached image

22.01.2026 19:47 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

We should redirect TERFs anger towards intersex baby mutilation.

Then they're no longer abusing people electing to undergo corrective treatment that makes them happy. They could instead get to help fix the ACTUAL issue they claim to care about.

20.01.2026 23:31 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Y'all should watch 'The Secret of Me'. It's an excellent intersex documentary.

20.01.2026 23:05 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The UK and USA are doing great at cutting migration.

Think about it - If we continue turning our own countries into third-world nightmares, then migrants will have to leave for a better life.

Checkmate, liberals.

19.01.2026 23:27 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Going to parliament in a couple weeks.

Gotta put on a smile and positive attitude all day to convince law makers that human rights might have some small value to British society and could be slightly more defended.

I just wish I could make them see how devastating this all is for people I love.

16.01.2026 22:17 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It's weird. The TERFs treat the exceptions for single-sex spaces as though they're positively constructed. But they're exceptions to equality. Not meant to stand forever. Just until society chills on the sexism that makes us unequal in the first place.

But 'sex-based rights' is just worse sexism.

15.01.2026 15:27 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I want all my friends to continue living, knowing that we're going to fix all the pain, and live together in a much nicer world together.

13.01.2026 17:32 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The right wing are going with "leftists don't like this because they're revolting against Islam!" like they've exposed hypocrisy... Even though we're happy about this?

Whether oppression happens in a predominantly Muslim or Christian culture, leftists feel the same thing - it needs to be torn down.

13.01.2026 11:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It's been nearly 20 years since I was forced into Tavistock to get healthcare access. It was hell back then.

I just can't believe that our medicine and psychology knowledge has gotten so much stronger, but somehow, these kids are going through an even worse hell.

These kids deserve to be happy.

09.01.2026 07:56 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Curiously - how does this follow?

First, I see:

"Within the Equality Act, trans people are the 'biological sex' of their birth."

Then there's:

"Cis women can be discriminated against because of religious belief."

But I don't quite see how the latter flows from the former?

04.01.2026 11:39 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Good argument.

The EHRC's letters to Scottish Government opposing gender recognition reform had the same 'oh no the equality act' argument.

Interesting since the SC judgment deleted that issue, the EHRC kept pushing even further, rather than 'turning down the heat on the toxic debate'.

02.01.2026 16:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Thanks you for all of the hard work from yourself and GLP in the last year.

As an incentive for your 2026 resolutions: if you win back trans rights, I will personally deliver to you the gift of an _Unreasonable_ amount of Maoams.

Happy New Year <3

01.01.2026 23:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

How would this framework view the experience of somebody like David Reimer?

31.12.2025 00:44 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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