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Stylishly & straightforwardly feminine. Geeky, techy sort of woman, 57 (it's probably the estradiol). Ardeni Lakam is my Isabel. Writes, but can't sight read, music. Plays piano a bit. T1D. Single & pan. UK.

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I've not shut up about this for years and now it's here. The exact thing I said would happen if TERFs got the "sex based rights" they've been demanding.

The sex-based right to vote...

11.08.2025 06:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

which film have you seen an unhealthy number of times?

Ok, seriously this time. I have seen this movie more times than I can count and I cry every single time.

10.08.2025 23:50 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Going Nowhere Download and print in PDF or MIDI free sheet music for Violin, Viola, Cello (String Quartet)

I just wish I could play it the way I wrote it but I don't play any string instruments!

musescore.com/user/3480296...

10.08.2025 20:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Lots of geese, mostly greylag and a few egyptian, all facing the same direction while swimming on a lake at Godmanchester Nature Reserve. There are some swans further away. The sky is blue with a tiny solitary cloud hovering above a treeline in the distance. In the foreground is long yellow and green grass.

Lots of geese, mostly greylag and a few egyptian, all facing the same direction while swimming on a lake at Godmanchester Nature Reserve. There are some swans further away. The sky is blue with a tiny solitary cloud hovering above a treeline in the distance. In the foreground is long yellow and green grass.

Geese in battle formation at Godmanchester Nature Reserve last week.

10.08.2025 20:14 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
The tied triplets phrasing from the string quartet piece

The tied triplets phrasing from the string quartet piece

Like this...

10.08.2025 20:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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This is me last week playing a simplified piano version of a few bars from a string quartet I wrote (it's in my timeline somewhere). I really like the phrasing in this. Triplets with tied notes to give a syncopated rhythm. Maybe I could've done the notation differently but this works.

10.08.2025 20:08 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

When did my legs get so thicc? OMG. 😍

10.08.2025 19:57 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Calling out that hypocrisy is the point of my pinned post.

10.08.2025 19:52 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Why are there two Sporks? Was there a transporter anomaly?

10.08.2025 19:22 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I think it was a prank Kubrick was playing on Spielberg but he died before he could stop it being made.

10.08.2025 17:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Which film have you seen an unhealthy number of times?

Pearl Harbor.
A.I. (Artificial Intelligence)

I've seen those movies both once each. That is 100% too many times for anyone to see these movies.

10.08.2025 17:39 β€” πŸ‘ 34    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 3

Telegraph Road - Dire Straits

youtu.be/EX2n2ftbdZU?...

10.08.2025 17:21 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Drop something WOLFYπŸΊπŸΎπŸ–€

"The interface is hot!"
"Well, I do my best"

10.08.2025 16:49 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1
A woman in a blue sundress walking in the woods

A woman in a blue sundress walking in the woods

A woman in a denim jacket walking in the woods

A woman in a denim jacket walking in the woods

Fineshade Woods

10.08.2025 14:27 β€” πŸ‘ 26    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh to build a trans exile community in Turf Island

09.08.2025 07:59 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Their next step is to remove the right to privacy from human rights law. Labour has already started to gather support for this in Europe. This means trans people's protections under human rights law, and legal path to remedy at ECtHR, would largely be removed, since most come under article 8.

09.08.2025 07:15 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

It will be illegal for a service provider to allow a trans woman in a single sex space for women but not illegal for her to be there. Ridiculous!

08.08.2025 18:41 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1
A woman with short blonde hair in a red ditzy sundress and blue denim jacket with black boots and sunglasses standing under a tree by a lake.

A woman with short blonde hair in a red ditzy sundress and blue denim jacket with black boots and sunglasses standing under a tree by a lake.

The Lesser spotted Ardeni in her natural environment.

08.08.2025 16:05 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Can't see screen to correct typos in this bright sunlight.

08.08.2025 13:51 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A woman in a sundress and denim jacket with chunky black boots standing beside a lake with a swan on it. It's bright sunshine and the sky is vibrant blue.

A woman in a sundress and denim jacket with chunky black boots standing beside a lake with a swan on it. It's bright sunshine and the sky is vibrant blue.

Ok that's enough transphobia fire I've day. I'm doing trans joy.

08.08.2025 13:40 β€” πŸ‘ 30    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This is incompetent government in action.

Even if this were available in the UK, teenagers would not be allowed to use this service even if they needed it.

08.08.2025 09:46 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

People should stop thinking about this as a toilets issue. There's always an accessible toilet.

Think communal changing rooms where trans women with vaginas must now undress in front of men. Think women's groups that can no longer lawfully include trans women without also including men.

08.08.2025 09:39 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It's both.

One is about the characteristic of sex the other is about gender reassignment.

Trans men must use the women's because of sex.

Trans men can be excluded from the women's because of gender reassignment.

Service provider must provide a third segregated facility for trans people to use.

08.08.2025 09:27 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Different characteristic at play here. It's sex (birth certificate) that determines which facility a service provider offers to you, and gender reassignment that determines if they should exclude you from that facility.

This ret-con of the Equality Act is Machiavellian in its malevolence.

08.08.2025 09:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That law says a person's sex can be reassigned by undergoing a process to change physiological or other attributes of sex.

08.08.2025 08:38 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

They get away with it because there is an explicit exception for gender reassignment which was intended to mean a trans man could be excluded, in exceptional circumstances, from the men's room if it was proportionate.

Now that exception has been subverted to exclude him from the women's as well.

08.08.2025 08:33 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The subversion of the Act is what causes it to become incoherent and inconsistent. That needs to be highlighted.

It's absurd to have a characteristic of reassigning sex in an act that defines sex as immutable.

The Act would have to be rewritten or repealed to address this.

08.08.2025 08:22 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This was explicitly stated in the Supreme Court ruling and included in the EHRC's interim guidance.

The Equality and Human Rights Commission pushes the view that if "normal" people are "alarmed" by the presence of another person based on their characteristics then that person should be excluded.

08.08.2025 08:16 β€” πŸ‘ 32    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

A GRC is not required to reassign sex for the purposes of the Equality Act, based on the definition of gender reassignment in section 7.

S.7 recognises that trans people sex is reassigned by completing all or part of a process to change physiological or other attributes of sex. No GRC required.

08.08.2025 08:09 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

If "sex" in EA means "sex written on original birth certificate", and section 7 refers to a process to reassign a person's "sex" by undergoing a process to change physiological or other attributes of sex, then completing all or part of that process must reassign sex for the purposes of the Act.

08.08.2025 08:09 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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