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Ellen Henak

@ehenak.bsky.social

Retired appellate and post-conviction criminal defense lawyer. Former public defender. Is working on playing with her grandkids and sewing.

2,196 Followers  |  767 Following  |  2,698 Posts  |  Joined: 19.07.2023  |  1.9521

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Your job is not to always be there FOR your kid or with your kid because, with luck, there will come a day you cannot be there. Your job is to prepare your kid to miss you but still be ok. Learning not to always be there now is a gift to your kid of the future.

16.02.2026 22:20 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I get that

15.02.2026 18:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Why do I cover my good ear AND my deaf ear when things get too noisy?

15.02.2026 01:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I have wondered too.

15.02.2026 01:54 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

For years, I have called the β€œcreme brΓ»lΓ©e brief” β€œa domestic turkey.” You can give it wings but you can’t make it fly.

14.02.2026 03:10 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The logic is impeccable.

13.02.2026 21:21 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Just realized that, next month, it will be 45 years ago.

13.02.2026 16:44 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A old-classic NYC cheap first date: we took the Staten Island Ferry, wandered around Staten Island for a bit, grabbed a bite, and then took the ferry back.

13.02.2026 16:14 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Vital, vital thread.

12.02.2026 20:21 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

There is no perfect place to see Adventures of Buckaroo Bonzai Across the Eighth Dimension--unless there is a theater that makes it easy for me to walk out.

12.02.2026 02:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Gorgeous!

11.02.2026 15:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

OMG YES!

10.02.2026 14:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Eeewwwww!

09.02.2026 00:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That girl is all about the costumes.

08.02.2026 23:54 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I think there is commentary on our current lives somewhere in here

08.02.2026 14:54 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Littles have a β€œhouse.”
4 yo: Nana, you be a robber.
Me: Ok. (Advancing) I’m coming to steal your meatballs. I’m coming to steal your meatballs.
4 yo: Fall down. I just deaded you.
6 yo: Aw, [4 yo], why’d you do that? We don’t even have any meatballs.

08.02.2026 14:52 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

I have been riding underneath like a bad stunt rider for a bit now

07.02.2026 03:26 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Any music counselor knew this back in the early 70s. (That would be me.) It was how we faked being better at guitar than we really were.

05.02.2026 18:41 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I sure have. Thanks

05.02.2026 18:33 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Pachibel’s Canon in D. Ask @saralegal.bsky.social why

05.02.2026 18:29 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

If the law gets in our way, we’ll cut down the law.

05.02.2026 14:49 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Sir Ian McKellen performing a monologue from Shakespeare’s Sir Thomas More on the Stephen Colbert show. Never have I heard this monologue performed with such a keen sense of prescience. Nor have I ever been in this exact historical moment.TY Sir Ian, for reaching us once again.
#Pinks #ProudBlue

05.02.2026 11:50 β€” πŸ‘ 32092    πŸ” 13797    πŸ’¬ 590    πŸ“Œ 1605

Well, the dad you presented online was a sensible man. I therefore would expect nothing less. Just cookies, indeed!

03.02.2026 17:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

During COVID there was no meaningful statistical difference between Ds and Rs for jail and prison releases. People were left to die by both parties as guards called in sick.

02.02.2026 18:05 β€” πŸ‘ 81    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I needed that laugh

01.02.2026 15:10 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You and me both

01.02.2026 04:08 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Why not just go for First, 60th, etc?

01.02.2026 02:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Then pass the word loudly about the new USPS postmark handling.

01.02.2026 00:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That's the last thing my polling place needs. Only a few elections ago I processed curbside voting for a woman had just had surgery. She sent her niece in to make sure we put her ballot in the right place. She said law enforcement & poll workers used to play tricks & keep her from voting.

31.01.2026 23:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Our village clerk provides doughnuts mid-morning. We also get sub sandwiches for lunch (and cookies.)

31.01.2026 23:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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