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Autistic. Queer. Disabled. Tired.

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I have an odd name on Insta, that might be why? Glad the flowers arrived.

15.11.2025 13:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

How is something that is trying so hard to be interesting so boring?

15.11.2025 10:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
stone carving of three headed figure with fourth head between open legs

stone carving of three headed figure with fourth head between open legs

stone carved figure of sheep?

stone carved figure of sheep?

very old painted panel of death as a skeleton dancing near a woman

very old painted panel of death as a skeleton dancing near a woman

The first is probably the most demonic, I just like the other stone carving, and then the death dancing panel is just amazing

14.11.2025 10:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'm so sorry for your loss, I did try to say on Insta but apparently the app hates me right now. I'm glad you're supported but always shout if you need anything.

13.11.2025 18:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I remember sending quite an official email about a government money related thing to someone whose email address was fatslag69 and it was kinda - go you! but also - do you really want that to be your government known email address

10.11.2025 17:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So possibly be prepared for that, though I doubt it's universal I wouldn't be surprised if it happened to more people than just me so I always try and warn people heading for diagnosis/newly diagnosed.

09.11.2025 16:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I don't I'm afraid, wish I did. When I was diagnosed several years ago I was happy, but I was diagnosed in February and had a minor breakdown in April. I did have other stressors at the time but one thing I found was diagnosis kind of stripped me of all my protections, everything turned up to 11.

09.11.2025 16:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I remember having to get a photo for a Chinese visa application which specified no piercings and yeah, that was a thing. I specifically chose the photo place based on it being 5 mins from my piercer so I went in, got them to take them all out, photo, back 20 minutes later to put 'em all back in.

07.11.2025 21:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

check your 'chat' - might have found it!

06.11.2025 19:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

as someone who saves 99.9999% of all fics read and has done for rather more years than I care to remember if you can remember title/author/really specific searchable detail I could always see if I have it?

06.11.2025 19:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Best kind of dinner in my experience!

04.11.2025 20:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

both were childhood-no-money meals, but they also both work as a side dish - also if you do mash and are getting tired of it I highly recommend adding hummus to mash, really adds a flavour variation to your preference

31.10.2025 18:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

First night of living on my own, turned the heating off last night, went to bed, something reset overnight and woke too early cos it'd turned itself back on. So now the house is toasty and the person who'd appreciate it doesn't live here any more. Grumpy. Going to go back to sleep.

31.10.2025 05:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Oma's German Heaven and Earth (Himmel und Erde) Recipe Himmel und Erde is one of those wonderful German traditional recipes that goes so well as a main dish or a side.

Oh! Also two from my childhood: Himmel und Erde www.quick-german-recipes.com/himmel-und-e.... And oven dish of mash, make dips in it, break an egg into each dip, pour cheese sauce over the top, bake.

31.10.2025 05:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

If you try it report back (if you want!), I'm interested in people's variations because I'm quite an unimaginative cook and I like inspiration!

30.10.2025 21:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Potato pie - it's not a pie - potatoes, cooked already, into a low oven dish and squished so they make the 'crust' of a pie, then fill the rest with beaten egg and whatever other fillings your heart desires. Top with cheese (and/or mix cheese in the eggs). Bake. Slice. Works hot and cold.

30.10.2025 21:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

As far as I am aware they are the UK branch of Autism Speaks, so from my POV - not wonderful. But it's been a while since I looked into this. AS are known for support of wanting to 'cure' autism, and also therapies to make autistic children behave 'normally' even if it causes them pain.

28.10.2025 17:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

All of this thread but especially "vagina compatible bullets."

28.10.2025 11:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

She dared to be herself and got killed for it. And rather than change the world to set that injustice right so she could have safely been herself no other child should be allowed to do such folly as choosing who they are

27.10.2025 12:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 132    ๐Ÿ” 15    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 3

I can't even explain what's unsettling about this place, aside from the oddly blank windows and the fact I can't see the purpose of any of the rooms (except the bathroom, which I do quite like!), none of them seem designed for anything

23.10.2025 18:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I got the frogs one, because frogs! (I did think of the clouds one but I wear mine for work and was worried someone would think I was in my pyjamas - why frogs aren't pyjama-y to my brain is a mystery)

21.10.2025 16:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It doesn't matter if DC female characters have names as long as we can understand who they are to the male hero

16.10.2025 17:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I am now very curious, and at this point I read very little so probably wouldn't be insulted!

14.10.2025 15:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Last night's awakeish time I was trying to remember the terms for the two types of washing machines - I finally got 'toploading' and 'frontloading' and my brain immediately earwormed me which was really confusing until I realised the song it was singing was 'Dancing in the Moonlight'

26.09.2025 06:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh no! hope they sort it real fast and in as bearable manner as possible.

17.09.2025 15:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
six tiles with slightly fantastic creatures

six tiles with slightly fantastic creatures

Was in Birmingham over the weekend and saw these and thought of you/Stede

15.09.2025 20:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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15.09.2025 06:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3918    ๐Ÿ” 1057    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 25    ๐Ÿ“Œ 103

I had that reaction to an off-label migraine prescription and ended up sleeping with several towels under me just in case - I still stayed awake and worried, but it reduced the worry just a little. I think I also got some Tena pants but that might have been something else. (Bodies are a nightmare)

07.09.2025 16:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And by 'flip it' he means 'let him do it because you won't let him do your remaining bathroom'?

04.09.2025 17:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 13    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You Don't Have To Be Mad To Work Here, But The Organisation Is Obliged Under The Equality Act To Make Reasonable Adjustments To Accommodate Your Condition If You Are

01.09.2025 14:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 61    ๐Ÿ” 15    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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