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Food, Travel & Life | Greedy Londoner transplanted to Wales – city girl turned country mouse | Writer, Photographer, Potter & Business Analyst | She/her | Lefty Woke Pro-EU | Free πŸ‡΅πŸ‡Έ & πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡¦ | πŸ’@petedrinks.com | Next trip: back to Malta Writes at kaveyeats.com

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My GP surgery they are all brilliant on perimenopause and menopause, even the old guy who was just about to retire.

15.02.2026 17:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If you can persuade your GP to run an oestradiol test, it's a simple blood one. The trouble is that it does fluctuate. If it happens to catch when it's low they may be willing to discuss peri symptoms but if they happen to catch it when it's higher they may dismiss any possibility of peri completely

15.02.2026 17:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I fucking hope it's not!!!! 😱I'm fully vaccinated too.

15.02.2026 17:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Everything and anything I eat this week is giving me indigestion. Was off work Wednesday-Friday, had on-off migraines but also a bone tired exhaustion and a low grade headache all the time (between migraines). Pete thinks I probably picked up some virus. I wonder if that is affecting my digestion?

15.02.2026 13:40 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

In your 30s, friends who have been there say it's very hard to even get a GP to consider perimenopause as a possible cause, even though it's clearly known by the medical profession to start that early for some women.

15.02.2026 13:31 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Hopefully it's not. Some of the ones that I noticed first include dryer, more fragile skin, thinning hair, itchiness everywhere that's so bad it drives me almost insane, fatigue, migraine auras (rarely had auras with my migraines before end never like these), cold flushes, dairy intolerance...

15.02.2026 13:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

They can test your hormone levels but as these fluctuate in a day let alone a week or month it's not used on its own. It's usually a symptom-based diagnosis. I don't know how old you are but it's not uncommon for peri to start in early 40s or even before that for some women.

15.02.2026 12:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Violets are blue
The sky is grey
It is raining again

15.02.2026 08:56 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Are you peri age yet cuz that was one of the signs when I became. Itchy armpits which became itchy all over my fucking body. Even the soles of my feet.

15.02.2026 08:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Best life advice: be more like Little My πŸ₯°

15.02.2026 06:25 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

So glad you liked xxx

15.02.2026 08:40 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I did eat a lot of them🀣🀣🀣

14.02.2026 18:34 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Me grinning while Pete's pretending to be scared the volcano behind us might blow

Me grinning while Pete's pretending to be scared the volcano behind us might blow

In fairness to Pete I told him we were going to do demon faces for the pic and he humoured me.

I don't think he minded though. He did this one (being scared of the volcano) on his own! 🀣

14.02.2026 18:33 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Hope it was delicious, bet it was

14.02.2026 18:31 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I MEANT SQUASHIES!
Where was my brain? 😱😱😱😱😱

14.02.2026 18:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

One of my favourites

14.02.2026 18:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Always a bonus

14.02.2026 17:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love that stuff, especially cubed and stir fried with XO, since bean sprouts, onions, chilli and loads of XO. Godly. I learned how to make it once but it's effort and I'm very lazy.

14.02.2026 16:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

What if your teeth were naturally flaccid and only got hard when you're hungry?

14.02.2026 15:06 β€” πŸ‘ 35    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 4

I catch clips of him singing on SM and he still sounds INCREDIBLE. It's hard to comprehend how the power and tone of his voice is still so impressive aged 85 years!!!

14.02.2026 16:46 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

🀣

14.02.2026 16:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Couldn't have happened to nicer peop| *cough* cunts. It's actually kind of nice to see bad things happen to bad people for a change, though I do feel bad for their employees and hope they either TUPE to a new owner (who is less cunty) or find new jobs with nice employers.

14.02.2026 16:43 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Phwoooaaar.

14.02.2026 16:40 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That's always something that hits hard. πŸ«‚

14.02.2026 16:40 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yup ❀️

14.02.2026 16:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It totally is! Pays to be a Japanese demon! 🀣

14.02.2026 16:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

🀣😁

14.02.2026 16:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Me and Pete pulling scary faces in front of a scary-face statue of a demon just next to a skate park on the outskirts of Sapporo

Me and Pete pulling scary faces in front of a scary-face statue of a demon just next to a skate park on the outskirts of Sapporo

Just shared the Smashies Love Hearts on Insta and decided to add a picture of us for, er, romance and I picked this one. Figured you might like it too!

14.02.2026 15:27 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm a ketchup girl all the way.
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Though at some point I need to drop calling myself a girl since I'm 54. 🀣

14.02.2026 15:24 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Packet of Smashies love hearts with 3 on top of the open packet

Packet of Smashies love hearts with 3 on top of the open packet

Unopened Packet of Smashies love hearts

Unopened Packet of Smashies love hearts

I have a bit of an obsession with Smashies. Pete's valentine's to me this morning:

14.02.2026 15:18 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

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