Itโs telling people that they need to change because they are currently unlovable, and expecting them to somehow love themselves more in response to that feedback.
05.12.2025 16:09 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0@someonelizz.bsky.social
Queer fiction, linguistics, ephemera. Penhallow/Trevelyan stan. ๐ณ๏ธโ๐ she/her Header by @ThreatNotation on Twitter
Itโs telling people that they need to change because they are currently unlovable, and expecting them to somehow love themselves more in response to that feedback.
05.12.2025 16:09 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Angels in America: Part I
Angels in America: More Life
When my friend found out how long it is and that it has two main parts (Millennium Approaches + Perestroika), she asked if it was a โWicked situationโ
04.12.2025 18:11 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0My greatest accomplishment this year is convincing my friends to watch Angels in America (the HBO adaptation)
04.12.2025 18:10 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Iโve seen college writing instructors say that they only provide detailed feedback upon request (and itโs rarely requested), because most students donโt read detailed feedback if you give it, they just look at the grade.
02.12.2025 07:03 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0similarly, if you check out a niche book from the library, you should get matched with everyone else who also checked it out. @ whoever checked out the French translation of Angels in America, we should be friends and/or possibly get married
02.12.2025 01:26 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0this post brought to you by me getting outbid on the Tony Kushner postcard in The Common auction :(
I think whoever outbid me should have an enemies-to-lovers romance with me. at the very least we should be friends
dating app where you get matched with people who bid on the same item you did in an auction. a) they obviously share some interests with you, and b) if you end up marrying each other, you can co-own the desired items
02.12.2025 01:19 โ ๐ 9 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Iโm very excited for this book, and itโs currently Read Now on NetGalley, so get on that!
02.12.2025 01:08 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Yes I know LOTR does it and it feels weird to me there too
30.11.2025 06:43 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Honestly Iโm fine with that because the word โSeptemberโ (for example) just makes me think of my job and dentist appointments and rent and taxes. For me, itโs a little too real for second-world fantasy.
30.11.2025 06:42 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 2 ๐ 0As a kid, I used to go to a small zoo that had an aviary w/ a floor to ceiling window. I discovered that if I flapped my arms like wings & hopped from side to side, a raven in the aviary would flap its wings & hop along with me, mirroring my movements through the window. Thatโs my favorite bird.
29.11.2025 07:24 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I got a whole linguistics degree and I could have just done weed instead
28.11.2025 01:56 โ ๐ 7 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0In that case, seems kind of baffling that San Diego isnโt in the top 10?
25.11.2025 20:41 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Iโve tagged books set in the early 2000s as โhistorical fictionโ on Goodreads and Iโm not sorry
25.11.2025 19:15 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0And the majority of medical school students in the U.S. are women!
25.11.2025 03:49 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0My wrath is as fearsome as my countenance is splendid, Charlie Brown
24.11.2025 19:22 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I like how this implies, โYou might *think* you want tuberculosis on your penis, I know it sounds fun, but thatโs a popular misconception.โ
24.11.2025 19:03 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I do not love standardized tests, but when people say we should eliminate the SAT because rich kids have an advantage, I always wonder which aspects of education they think rich kids do NOT have an advantage at
20.11.2025 19:37 โ ๐ 5 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Three headlines, from three different news outlets, which mention Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez by name while referring to her partner as โher boyfriendโ and โAlexandria Ocasio-Cortezโs Fiancรฉโ
Or when a headline mentions a famous man by name but leaves his non-famous wife unnamed. They do in fact do the same thing with famous women who have non-famous male partners.
15.11.2025 20:59 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Same thing when people see a headline referring to an unnamed โgrandmotherโ and say โThey would never say this about a man!โ Yes they would. Which you would know if you bothered to run a search on news articles with โgrandfatherโ in the headline.
15.11.2025 20:52 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0There is no shortage of instances of actual sexism, we donโt need to invent imaginary ones!
15.11.2025 20:50 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0BlueSky post reading, in part, โnever heard anyone say โmale foundersโ and prefer entrepreneurs or CEOs โwho are womenโ over โfemale founders.โโ
I see so many posts that say โI never see people say this about women!โ but if you spend 30 seconds and run a search on the phrase โmale foundersโ you will see that it is not rare.
15.11.2025 20:49 โ ๐ 6 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 4 ๐ 0obviously him too but I donโt think anyone was in any danger of thinking that we would welcome him into the fold
15.11.2025 09:12 โ ๐ 5 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0the bisexual community preemptively repudiates bill clinton, like, just in case
15.11.2025 05:35 โ ๐ 65 ๐ 8 ๐ฌ 2 ๐ 2We each brought out a wrapped package, and she got a funny look and said โI think we mightโve gotten each other the same thing.โ I said I didnโt think so because they werenโt quite the same size. Turned out one of us bought the hardcover and one of us bought the paperback.
15.11.2025 05:24 โ ๐ 5 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0My best friend and I unwittingly got each other the same book for our birthdays (which are within a few days of each other). It was Hyperbole and a Half by Allie Brosh.
15.11.2025 05:21 โ ๐ 6 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 2 ๐ 0I think they *want* it to be true that AI is bad for the environment, bc they hate AI for other reasons and they think environmental concerns are a trump card in arguments. If you invented a type of AI that was good for the environment, theyโd just be mad at you for taking away their trump card.
14.11.2025 18:36 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Iโm reminded of Californiaโs Prop 8 in 2008, where all the economic analysis suggested that keeping gay marriage would be good for the economy bc people spend a lot of money on weddings, but voters voted to ban gay marriage anyway. People like oppressing outgroups more than they like having money.
12.11.2025 17:52 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0singing โLincoln in the Bardoโ to the tune of โMichael in the Bathroomโ from Be More Chill
12.11.2025 05:55 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 1