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Tom Cavnar

@sonusexmachina.com.bsky.social

Father, partner, cat lover, audio nerd, rock climber, novice luthier | he/him

177 Followers  |  89 Following  |  581 Posts  |  Joined: 21.09.2023  |  2.2931

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Fuck I'm so tired.

Tired of working my ass off year after year, in so many contexts, and being continually unappreciated.

Tired of paying taxes to this shithole country so it can oppress people around the world (and at home).

I just want a break from the nonsense, and some peace & fucking quiet.

08.10.2025 03:30 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Thanks, New Yorker

07.10.2025 17:40 β€” πŸ‘ 20515    πŸ” 6398    πŸ’¬ 210    πŸ“Œ 206

A nap would also be very welcome.

06.10.2025 01:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I am desperately in need of social interaction with people who are not A) self-centered animation-obsessed autistic children or B) mostly incoherent aphasic elders suffering from dementia.

I miss feeling a sense of community that extended beyond the a few small corners of the internet.

06.10.2025 01:23 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

If you ever think "I should save this for my kids. They will want it one day".

No. Stop. Bad. No!

If they did not actually say "I want this", they don't want it.

Purge your shit for the good of everyone.

04.10.2025 21:35 β€” πŸ‘ 323    πŸ” 31    πŸ’¬ 24    πŸ“Œ 5
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Federal agents shoot woman on Southwest Side, battle protesters for hours The shooting occurred Saturday in Brighton Park when federal patrols were "rammed by 10 cars," according to a statement from the Department of Homeland Security, an account that has yet to be verified...

chicago.suntimes.com/news/2025/10...

05.10.2025 01:18 β€” πŸ‘ 4750    πŸ” 2482    πŸ’¬ 403    πŸ“Œ 180

Apparently all in a (Satur)day’s work:

Doing laundry, heating up dinner for my MiL, while simultaneously handling work tech support issues via text message for a customer whose sound system was down. Again.

See numerous previous skeets about needing a godsdamned vacation.

05.10.2025 00:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

America's favorite pastime (being useless in the face of evil)

04.10.2025 23:03 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you. Elder care is really difficult, often thankless work.

My partner’s mom cognitive ability has been declining steadily for the last two years, but it hit an inflection point recently and started getting really bad.

04.10.2025 23:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks. I'm trying my best.

Hopefully the situation in our home will improve slightly, soon. (Mother-in-law with Alzheimer's induced dementia is going into memory care in the not distant future.)

04.10.2025 22:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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@govpritzker.illinois.gov

37 and Kedzie, East Garfield, Illinois.

This is assault.

04.10.2025 19:56 β€” πŸ‘ 6999    πŸ” 3370    πŸ’¬ 858    πŸ“Œ 962

White supremacy is not a β€œlegitimate view.”

Vilifying migrants is not β€œreasonable debate.”

Eugenics is not a β€œcontroversial belief.”

Genocide is not a β€œjustified action.”

These are all examples of violent racism. We should recognise this basic fact and reject such politics unapologetically.

09.07.2025 23:05 β€” πŸ‘ 205    πŸ” 86    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

So deeply fucking tired, demoralized, and frustrated.

I need much more (non-working) time to myself.
I need time and energy for fitness and self-care.
I need more actual quality time with my partner.

I am holding out a tiny sliver of hope that these things might see day happen. Maybe soon?

04.10.2025 22:28 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
04.10.2025 09:17 β€” πŸ‘ 2913    πŸ” 1478    πŸ’¬ 18    πŸ“Œ 18
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THE WORLD
album cover by Dragan Bibin
out Dec. 5 on Artoffact Records
pre-order it NOW at Bandcamp

Teaser single "Zebra Tramples Horse Trainer" is out TONIGHT.

seeming.bandcamp.com/album/the-wo...

03.10.2025 04:01 β€” πŸ‘ 37    πŸ” 26    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 8
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πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰

03.10.2025 23:04 β€” πŸ‘ 40    πŸ” 17    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

Good gods, am I glad for the arrival of the weekend!!

The weekend will involve a substantial bit of child/elder care, but at least I (probably?) won't also be doing pro audio tech support for customers over the weekend.

If I'm really lucky, I may be able to fit in some time for luthiery work.

04.10.2025 00:46 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The government is in full shutdown and the Republicans are refusing to call the House back into session.

Want to know why?

Because we have secured the final vote on releasing the Epstein Files and they don’t want it out.

Call GOP and tell them to swear in @adelitaforcongress.bsky.social.

03.10.2025 19:51 β€” πŸ‘ 19498    πŸ” 5647    πŸ’¬ 413    πŸ“Œ 188
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I’m told ICE attacked usβ€”despite us being off the street, courtesy of the state policeβ€”to create a spectacle because Kristi Noem was present today. Here’s some footage of her and her team on the roof of Broadview. Everything is content creation to these fascists.

03.10.2025 15:26 β€” πŸ‘ 1904    πŸ” 882    πŸ’¬ 52    πŸ“Œ 56

BREAKING: Our client Mario Guevara, an Emmy-winning journalist detained by ICE in retaliation for livestreaming law enforcement activity, will be deported tomorrow to El Salvador.

Mario and his family are being punished for his reporting. This cruelty is meant to stifle our free press.

02.10.2025 22:42 β€” πŸ‘ 32294    πŸ” 15546    πŸ’¬ 655    πŸ“Œ 736

ICE stands for "Institute of Cleansing Ethnicities"

Call it what it fucking is. What's being done right now is, actually, without any level of exaggeration, ethnic cleansing.

02.10.2025 23:32 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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ICEBlock Owner After Apple Removes App: β€˜We Are Determined to Fight This’ Apple removed ICEBlock reportedly after direct pressure from Department of Justice officials. β€œI am incredibly disappointed by Apple's actions today. Capitulating to an authoritarian regime is never t...

so the US government just forced a tech company to delete an app it doesn’t like, which is totally normal stuff

www.404media.co/iceblock-own...

03.10.2025 02:38 β€” πŸ‘ 16639    πŸ” 7085    πŸ’¬ 765    πŸ“Œ 464

did a bot conduct this survey

03.10.2025 02:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1101    πŸ” 76    πŸ’¬ 59    πŸ“Œ 2

[Interior, FBI Crime Lab, Scully & Mulder look over The Grinch's corpse in the autopsy room]

Scully: Odd, his heart appears to have been 3 sizes larger than normal, but there's stretch marks on his aorta, as if it grew suddenly. What could've done this?

Mulder: Not what, who. Cindy Lou Who.

12.07.2025 05:33 β€” πŸ‘ 482    πŸ” 64    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

On a happier note, I just had a 20-minute-long back yard lightsaber battle with my 8-yr-old son, and that sort of fulfilled some needs, I think?

I should probably do more play-fighting/rapier sparring. But I'm not gonna go whole hog & join SCA, and HEMA's probably a bit too intense for me.

03.10.2025 03:46 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Ik this too shall pass but, holy fck

02.10.2025 18:58 β€” πŸ‘ 245    πŸ” 28    πŸ’¬ 19    πŸ“Œ 4

I keep writing and deleting angry skeets.

I am out of spoons, out of fucks, and out of patience.

I am deeply lonely, and extremely weary of constantly meeting other people's needs and wants day after day, while almost never getting to take care of my own needs or wants.

03.10.2025 02:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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ICE agents raid South Shore apartments; Trump says Chicago could become military training ground ICE agents raided a South Shore apartment building overnight as the city braces for a possible military deployment.

β€œABC7 spoke to Pertissue Fisher, a woman who lives in the building. She said ICE agents took everyone in the building, including her, and asked questions later….’They was bringing the kids down, too, had them zip tied to each other.’”

It can’t happen here, you say. But it is happening.

02.10.2025 02:10 β€” πŸ‘ 3319    πŸ” 2098    πŸ’¬ 136    πŸ“Œ 329

We need a bigger national spotlight on this building raid, fam. Agents dropped from helicopters onto the roof. Citizens and non-citizens alike were dragged from their homes in the night. People who weren't kidnapped during the raid had their belongings seized after the fact. This is madness.

02.10.2025 16:23 β€” πŸ‘ 8767    πŸ” 5543    πŸ’¬ 233    πŸ“Œ 221
Jane Goodall with monarch butterfly scarf

Jane Goodall with monarch butterfly scarf

β€œIt actually doesn’t take much to be considered a difficult woman. That’s why there are so many of us.”
― Jane Goodall

πŸ’™ RIP to a real one. My childhood hero

02.10.2025 02:56 β€” πŸ‘ 32638    πŸ” 6877    πŸ’¬ 481    πŸ“Œ 322

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