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The Autistic Adoptee

@theautisticadoptee.bsky.social

53 years old. Discovered I was autistic when I was 49 and have been on a journey of learning and healing ever since.

15 Followers  |  30 Following  |  65 Posts  |  Joined: 13.03.2025  |  1.7199

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Episode 23: 20250928 - TAA Ep.23 - Would Autism Be A Disability In A World Built For Us
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Episode 23: Would Autism Be A Disability In A World Built For Us

This episode is a response to a post by one of my favorite Autistic content creators: @sensorystories.bsky.social.

#TheAutisticAdoptee
#Autism
#ActuallyAutistic
#Disability
#Trauma
#PTSD

youtu.be/YR4n1ibJzhk

09.10.2025 16:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Episode 22: Tylenol, Trump, & RFK Jr.
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Episode 22: Tylenol, Trump, & RFK Jr.

My reaction to the last nine months of the Trump administration and RFK Jr.'s assault on Autism.

#TheAutisticAdoptee
#Autism
#ActuallyAutistic
#DonaldTrump
#RFKJr
#Tylenol

youtu.be/BW6BUE9Z8ag

30.09.2025 01:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Picture of a blue-skinned engineer from the movie Prometheus. 

Text over the picture reads: "shits wild yo I just boofed this Tylenol and got the full spectrum"

Picture of a blue-skinned engineer from the movie Prometheus. Text over the picture reads: "shits wild yo I just boofed this Tylenol and got the full spectrum"

Yeah… it's this stupid…

Tylenol doesn't cause autism.

24.09.2025 23:19 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Please stop calling me Autistic. That is a slur.

I am a Tylenol-American!

(to be clear this is satire; I'm autistic as fuck, proud of it, and Tylenol didn't have dick to do with it)

24.09.2025 23:12 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Episode 21: Why Our Autism Was Missed In Childhood
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Episode 21: Why Our Autism Was Missed In Childhood

This episode discusses the reasons why late-diagnosed Autistic adults were either undiagnosed or misdiagnosed as children.

#TheAutisticAdoptee
#Autism
#ActuallyAutistic
#LateDiagnosis
#RFKJr

youtu.be/goDj9NqhvM8

15.09.2025 04:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Episode 20: Lockpicking - A Special Interest & Stim
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Episode 20: Lockpicking - A Special Interest & Stim

This episode is about about my lockpicking special interest, and a demonstration of picking 12 locks in under 6 minutes.

#TheAutisticAdoptee
#Autism
#ActuallyAutistic
#SpecialInterest
#Stimming
#Lockpicking
#Locksport

youtu.be/PJRmOABlDKs

11.09.2025 21:23 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A purple background with black bubble letters that read : Autistic people are at a significantly higher risk of suicide than neurotypical people!
Autistic adults are 9x more likely to die by suicide
Autistic women are especially vulnerable

A purple background with black bubble letters that read : Autistic people are at a significantly higher risk of suicide than neurotypical people! Autistic adults are 9x more likely to die by suicide Autistic women are especially vulnerable

♾️Autism & Suicide ♾️
Autistic adults are 9x more likely to die by suicide
Autistic women are especially vulnerable, Black autistic women INCLUDED

10.09.2025 14:25 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

This is the damned truth.

10.09.2025 18:13 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My life in a nutshell.

10.09.2025 18:13 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is a hard topic, but absolutely an essential one.

10.09.2025 18:10 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is absolutely the truth.

10.09.2025 18:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Episode 2: Autism Self Diagnosis
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It is absolutely legit and valid and the only route available for some people.

The second video on my channel was on this subject.

youtu.be/NXdVjmOurN4

10.09.2025 18:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Episode 19: One Of My Special Interests & Stims
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Episode 19: One Of My Special Interests & Stims

In this episode, I talk about my speedcubing special interest, and give a demonstration of speed solving a Rubik's cube.

#TheAutisticAdoptee
#Autism
#ActuallyAutistic
#SpecialInterest
#Stimming
#Speedcubing
#RubiksCube

youtu.be/9jAbrqb6PuI

08.09.2025 20:27 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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For autistic people, sensory issues and trouble with transitions are real.

07.09.2025 01:13 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I feel this so hard…

07.09.2025 01:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Episode 18: My Top 4 Autistic Communication Pitfalls
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Episode 18: My Top 4 Autistic Communication Pitfalls

In this episode we are going to explore the 4 communication pitfalls that I've experienced the most as an Autistic adult.

#TheAutisticAdoptee
#Autism
#ActuallyAutistic
#Communication
#InfoDumping
#Oversharing

youtu.be/gLpVgscTTig

07.09.2025 00:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Episode 17: Autistic Internal Meltdowns
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Episode 17: Autistic Internal Meltdowns

I thought that I didn't have meltdowns. I was wrong. In this episode, we talk about internal meltdowns and why Autistic adults internalize their meltdowns.

#TheAutisticAdoptee
#Autism
#ActuallyAutistic
#Meltdowns
#InternalMeltdowns

youtu.be/frQ5jvpXpY8

05.09.2025 15:05 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Episode 16: The Importance Of Autistic Stimming
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Episode 16: The Importance Of Autistic Stimming

In this episode, we delve deeper into stimming and try to gain a better understanding into the what and the why of stimming.

#TheAutisticAdoptee
#Autism
#ActuallyAutistic
#Stimming
#HandFlapping

youtu.be/qOk0R5AWVW4

03.09.2025 13:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Being Black & autistic means your pain is dismissed, your needs are ignored & your meltdowns are criminalized. Intersectionality isn’t just theory… it’s lived in every diagnosis & every missed opportunity ✨

27.08.2025 16:34 β€” πŸ‘ 32    πŸ” 12    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Truth.

28.08.2025 13:27 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is eugenics.

28.08.2025 13:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Autistic behaviors like stimming, no eye contact ( I struggle with that so bad ) or not following instructions aren’t threats they are traits πŸ‘ŒπŸ½ but how society interprets them depends on race! For white autistic people they are seen as symptoms but Black autistic people they are seen as defiance

28.08.2025 12:17 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Misreading autism as aggression gets Black people hurt 😞 a meltdown isn’t a threat, stimming isn’t defiance but for Black autistic people, these can trigger restraint, arrest or worse MURDER we need to protect Black autistic lives ♾️

28.08.2025 12:54 β€” πŸ‘ 115    πŸ” 33    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
Episode 15: Skills Regression In Autistic Adults
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Episode 15: Skills Regression In Autistic Adults

In this episode, I talk through how Skills Regression has affected me as an Autistic adult.

#TheAutisticAdoptee
#Autism
#ActuallyAutistic
#SkillsRegression
#DevelopmentalRegression

youtu.be/VVbRwvc2OYI?...

28.08.2025 02:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Episode 14: Autistic Meltdowns
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Episode 14: Autistic Meltdowns

Autistic meltdowns are often confused for or conflated with mental breakdowns and/or tantrums. In this episode, we explore the differences between the three.

#TheAutisticAdoptee
#Autism
#ActuallyAutistic
#Meltdown
#Breakdown
#Tantrums

youtu.be/5iVfYhM_v-E

31.07.2025 13:28 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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