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Fragrance connoisseur, makeup-lover, origami apprentice, PhD physicist, powerlifter, lover of cute things and Monster High Dolls, board-game-geek and intersectional feminist πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈBLMπŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ

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Gee something's really similar about all those mayors in that photo collage...

Is NPR trying to tell us something without having to say it out loud?

14.08.2025 22:14 β€” πŸ‘ 275    πŸ” 75    πŸ’¬ 15    πŸ“Œ 2

8) So yes, gender and social identities matter as much for who we are as biology.

08.05.2025 09:50 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

7) ... (although obviously I have the vast privileges that come with being cisgender, straight, white, not socioeconomically deprived).

08.05.2025 09:49 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

6) In my own experience of identity, gender, shaping my own body as I wanted it, to express my own sense of identity, and being somewhat gender non-conforming - I feel I connect in several key ways with some of the experiences of trans women...

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5) I'm used to being a somewhat isolated outsider. I also don't have children (by choice). And I don't automatically connect to some of the most common experiences of cis women.

08.05.2025 09:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

4) I've worked in engineering and physics my whole career - and I'm a female powerlifter, with an unusually muscular physique for a woman that I built myself (I'm "naturally" of a very skinny slight build).

08.05.2025 09:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

3) Similarly, an athletic muscular woman is ubiquitously mocked for being "a man" or "unfeminine", "undesirable" - her biology does nothing to protect her from being called "a man".

08.05.2025 09:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

2) Their biology is irrelevant there, and can't protect them from rejection by the patriarchy and from being the target of a form of misogyny.

08.05.2025 09:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

1) We all know men can "lose their man-card" in an instant by any number of routes - wearing the "wrong" clothes, expressing certain emotions, even being vegan (apparently) πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ or of course, not being heterosexual.

08.05.2025 09:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Yep. Whilst biology certainly defines some of our experience of gender in this world, so much more of it isn't, but is social.

08.05.2025 09:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Barclays will stop trans women from using female bathrooms β€” the first big move since the UK Supreme Court ruling on the legal definition of β€œwoman” and new EHRC toilet guidance.

3 years ago I exposed the EHRC’s plan to β€œprotect women”. They denied it.

Look where we are now…

#Trans #LGBTQ #EHRC

30.04.2025 15:13 β€” πŸ‘ 220    πŸ” 82    πŸ’¬ 11    πŸ“Œ 12

πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

19.04.2025 10:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is a good resource on Reform UK:

hopenothate.org.uk/wp-content/u...

05.04.2025 23:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

4) Support organisations such as @standuptoracismuk.bsky.social who are fighting the rise of Reform UK (by volunteering, helping deliver leaflets, donating, sharing their posts)

Your thoughts?

05.04.2025 21:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

3) Contact our local MPs to put pressure on them to get our government to make real change for people who badly need it, before it's too late.

05.04.2025 21:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Let me know what you think. I think we must:

1) Vote in these local elections to keep Reform UK out,

2) Raise awareness of the dangers, and the strength of far-right support as indicated by the polls,

05.04.2025 21:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
MRP Poll April 2025

This is an important chance to vote - since Reform UK supporters are motivated and the polls suggest Reform UK will win a lot of seats.

They are a far-right racist party - but a large portion of their supporters are not racist, but desperate and are not seeing a viable alternative.

05.04.2025 21:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Reform UK are well-organised, and well-funded. It would be a huge mistake for us not to take them very seriously.

A month from now, there are local council elections. Reform UK have put forward many candidates even in liberal left-leaning areas.

05.04.2025 21:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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🚨UK friends 🚨 The far-right is *rapidly* gaining ground in the UK. Reform UK, a racist far-right party now *leads* in the polls. In just a couple of years, the UK very foreseeably could have a far-right government.

www.electoralcalculus.co.uk/blogs/ec_vip...

05.04.2025 21:46 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
'Who's that good for?': Maddow connects the dots on Donald Trump's behavior toward Russia
YouTube video by MSNBC 'Who's that good for?': Maddow connects the dots on Donald Trump's behavior toward Russia

This looks very bad. And Rachel Maddow is a VERY brave woman... 😨

youtu.be/Zn9BTALjtLY?...

04.03.2025 01:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

What more to say...😨

24.02.2025 10:04 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It would take whoever is producing this show a matter of seconds to check Portes is correct, and say that in the presenters' ears. This absurd, defensive both-sidesism by the hosts is an abrogation of the BBC's responsibility (again).

02.02.2025 21:11 β€” πŸ‘ 301    πŸ” 73    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 2

Such impactful work πŸ’–πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆ

06.02.2025 10:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Abso-fkn-lutely. Fighting for rights is a choice they can literally put out of their mind, rather than it being inescapable on the daily.

23.01.2025 00:57 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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So Stand Up to Racism just had their post removed from Facebook for pointing out Musk’s Nazi salute.

This is Zuck’s free speech!

22.01.2025 15:55 β€” πŸ‘ 164    πŸ” 76    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 7
Innocent mistake or blatant dog-whistle? : Elon Musk
YouTube video by Femi Innocent mistake or blatant dog-whistle? : Elon Musk

This is a message to everyone defending Elon Musk over his sieg heil at the Trump Inauguration.

TLDR: His Nazi Salute isn't what make him a Nazi, his support for Nazis is. The salute is just a garnish.

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