Because let me be very clear:
When men mock other men for standing against misogyny (or racism, or transphobia, or any other bigotry)
They are βpunishingβ you FOR SUCCEEDING AT MEETING THE STANDARDS OF MASCULINITY YOU ALL CLAIM TO HOLD
@flamespook.bsky.social
Because let me be very clear:
When men mock other men for standing against misogyny (or racism, or transphobia, or any other bigotry)
They are βpunishingβ you FOR SUCCEEDING AT MEETING THE STANDARDS OF MASCULINITY YOU ALL CLAIM TO HOLD
Except not REALLY. Youβre still not likely to get raped or murdered by an intimate partner (assuming youβre straight). Youβre still not at the same risk of violence.
Youβre worried that you might get treated with contempt by other men. That you might be excluded.
I need men who come into my threads to tell me about how patriarchy punishes men for not living up to the standards of patriarchal masculinity to understand that the punishment youβre so terrified of
is literally being treated like a woman.
Reaching out to my disability community here, does anyone have expertise on how federal student loan discharge for disability works? Would love to ask some questions.
26.02.2026 20:59 β π 23 π 18 π¬ 5 π 0And I think itβs important to note that this position is always, always harmful to the vulnerable group in question. Conflating activists with the thing theyβre acting against is designed to hurt them. Itβs designed to encourage dismissal of a rights movement. Weβve seen this playbook 50 times.
27.02.2026 00:30 β π 134 π 13 π¬ 2 π 0But anyway, the fact that there is such market demand for OBGYNs that recognize that most OBGYN procedures are painful and traumatic and actually are willing to provide pain and stress management and yet most most refuse just shows you
most doctors prefer torturing women to making money
People would rather spread misinformation scaring the fuck out of disabled people than delete a post β we're just so fucked.
26.02.2026 19:54 β π 80 π 29 π¬ 0 π 0I get asked how I've correctly predicted this sequence of events. It isn't bc I'm smarter than my public health colleagues. It's simply bc I understand the Trump regime's goal - eugenics, systematic, large scale killing of disabled people.
Whereas far too many in PH refuse to believe it.
It is almost impossible to learn ANYTHING about the state of womenβs healthcare and not immediately be radicalized and furious.
Increasingly, there *are* better options⦠if you can pay for them.
A thread about healthcare I have paid for:
In years of poor matching, flu vaccines give about that same % protection from transmission, the difference is that flu is seasonal. So in six months, if your protection is waning, flu probably isnβt at high circulation any more. Covid isnβt seasonal. A yearly vax is an insufficient strategy.
26.02.2026 08:09 β π 58 π 6 π¬ 1 π 0So many of ADHD's core symptoms are related to our struggles with inhibition control.
Distraction, oversharing, interrupting, emotional volatility, even fidgeting can be a result of our impulses being faster than our inhibition can keep up with
In an overlooked decision this week, the Supreme Court ruled that the post office can refuse to deliver your mail, which is KIND OF SIGNIFICANT if you choose to mail your ballot.
To do this work, the anti-democracy wing turned to their favorite βblack friend,β Clarence Thomas.
If you ever happen to get bored and want to look into this more, it would be greatly appreciated. It's just not urgent. But it's scary! I very much don't want surgery again until I find actual pain control for it. Prior surgeries have been rough
26.02.2026 00:59 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0If youβre watching Casey Means talk about vaccines in her confirmation hearing and would rather watch her do literally anything else, we suggest watching her βenjoyβ a liver smoothie in our piece from last year on the MAHA movement. Then sheβll bring up vaccines again. Sorry. youtu.be/3lzfH86avIc
25.02.2026 18:09 β π 634 π 151 π¬ 9 π 5itβs wild how many people there are who believe things like βthere is no ethical way to consume meat but there is an ethical way to abuse womenβ
25.02.2026 21:04 β π 47 π 10 π¬ 2 π 0Protect your peace tonight. Read about OSHA violations in a chocolate factory instead.
25.02.2026 02:24 β π 65 π 14 π¬ 2 π 1Holy shiiiiit I missed this, the OTC version hasn't hit the shelves yet but does anyone who follows me have access to a drug ordering system and can you tell me if my pharmacy can order it yet?
25.02.2026 07:27 β π 69 π 7 π¬ 10 π 2And if you don't use Skratch, they're AMAZING. rwrd.io/ref_LJXUHM6?c gets you $10 off a first order and me $10 in points to subsidize friends! They're excellent hydration, they don't use artificial sweeteners, and they keep me aliiiiiive
24.02.2026 22:52 β π 34 π 6 π¬ 3 π 0Alert: if you use the Skratch raspberry limeade caffeinated electrolytes, tomorrow is the last day to buy them. I was not expecting to have to do that large a stock replenish, sigh.
24.02.2026 22:52 β π 46 π 11 π¬ 8 π 0And yet. Transfusion centers refuse to have mask mandates or require the staff to wear them. Does anyone want to explain to me the math on giving cancer patients covid?
24.02.2026 22:24 β π 120 π 37 π¬ 4 π 1I claim this curse in the name of autism π
24.02.2026 04:09 β π 58 π 8 π¬ 1 π 0It's usually the nurses who will stay with you and hold your hand. When hospital bosses want to increase the number of patients each nurse is responsible for, they're really trying to take that away from us. That's why I try to walk the picket line when my nurses are striking over patient ratios.
24.02.2026 06:54 β π 112 π 20 π¬ 2 π 0Seeing Christina Applegate go on Kimmel while sick & joke about Covid shows how badly public health messaging has failed
She lives with MS, strongly linked to prior EBV infection, an example of how viruses can trigger autoimmune disease
Covid can cause similar health issues & worsen existing ones
Thanks!
24.02.2026 21:44 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Thanks for the offer, nothing coming up soon though. I *am* interested in whatever central NJ info you may have, saw on another thread that someone asked for
24.02.2026 21:28 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0(Thanks again!) Researched some of these meds today, and the joke is on me! Intermediate Metabolizer, CYP3A4 is reduced, so Suzetrigine, Fentanyl, and Buprenorphine may not help me much either. Boo
24.02.2026 20:06 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0TEN BABY PUFFS OF DRYER LINT
24.02.2026 15:32 β π 186 π 31 π¬ 7 π 1Here, I explain the problems with basing the economy on the fictional powers the Supreme Court has given to itself and how the fights between Neil Gorsuch and Brett Kavanaugh led to the awful JJ Abrams Rise of Skywalker. Kinda.
My latest in @thenation.com
www.thenation.com/article/poli...
I get the fun kind of loopy from tramadol, but no pain relief, hah
24.02.2026 02:40 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0The world: if you wear a pony tail rapists will sense it and materialize out of dark allies to drag you away
Also the world: jeez stop being so hysterical, why do you act like youβre always under attack?