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@turtle4life.bsky.social

Gen X queer disabled polyam autistic parent who identifies as varying levels of tired & alarmed most days. (they/them) Scared but determined to survive.

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Because gf flours don’t have long enough shelf life, commercial gf products have to add more junk and more sugar to cover up the taste. I can’t get past the taste of xanthan gum. and

03.08.2025 14:35 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It must be Ceylon cinnamon though. I have hypersensitive taste buds and Cassia cinnamon tastes awful to me.

03.08.2025 14:27 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m gf too. Bread that tastes good in the AM is difficult but not impossible.

03.08.2025 14:23 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

God I wish we had access to doctors who understood autism. But my offspring and I are adults on Medicaid and there aren’t any doctors who do.

03.08.2025 14:03 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I appreciate this! Thank you.

03.08.2025 05:37 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I had a home gluten free bakery for a time. I wailed in silent despair when potential customers got irate that I wasn’t using GMO-free baking soda. Baking soda has no genetics(G) nor is it organic (O). I was/am a great GF baker, but crap at marketing.

02.08.2025 03:55 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The Peter Pan bus fare from Springfield to Boston is around $30 give or take. Amtrak fare is $100 now? Geez, it was $67 a year ago.

02.08.2025 03:36 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

2. Every Western MA state legislator since forever promises they’ll get that East-West Rail built. They can’t get enough votes. No one from Boston cares about Western Mass.

02.08.2025 03:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

1. There’s a 1957 documentary β€œBuilding the Massachusetts Pike”. I feel it explains why we can’t have nice things.

02.08.2025 03:18 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I wish there was somewhere in my locale where I could try out VR and see how I do. I worry about getting vertigo, like I did while watching my partner play Minecraft. If I felt ok using it, I'd absolutely buy one.

01.08.2025 19:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I pay out of pocket for most of my durable medical equipment. DME long-term rentals is bs. Owning it means I can modify it. I belong to a makerspace. I plan to build my future power wheelchair, so I will be able to modify and repair.

28.07.2025 19:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The 6 As in our neurodivergent family values. Autism. ADHD. Acceptance. Accountability. Autonomy. Advocacy.

28.07.2025 19:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

....and gender.....and sexual orientation.....and also that people can have more than disability. Or have undx'd disabilities but lack access to care.

28.07.2025 19:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Trying so hard not to full out gigglesnort at this while my partner is teaching a class, but yeah, I've noticed Dunkin wrappers in the car....

28.07.2025 19:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Critics claim gender clinics are seeing an excess of trans boys. But new data suggest otherwise Some claim β€˜social contagion’ is driving teenagers who were assigned female at birth to identify as transgender and seek medical care.

Critics claim gender clinics are seeing an excess of trans boys. But new data suggest otherwise

theconversation.com/...

#transgender #trans #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA

28.07.2025 19:01 β€” πŸ‘ 40    πŸ” 11    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 3

I wanted to like Disability Pride month, but it feels like another month of more shallow empty gestures that don't actually do anything for the people they're supposed to be uplifting. Instead I'm going to celebrate by throwing some axes this weekend in Maine (SCA event).

07.07.2025 22:17 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This tragedy was preventable.

07.07.2025 18:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This is adorable

07.07.2025 00:19 β€” πŸ‘ 80    πŸ” 13    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 1

Happily stimming w/ #autisticjoy at discovering an intersection of several of my special interests... I need to know everything about this pretty...

24.06.2025 15:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I participated in the autistic online world in the β€˜90’s & the β€˜00’s. This is a honest depiction of what that world was like then. Glad to see all that get documented. :)

23.06.2025 13:12 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Poly woman really not trying to fuck you An autistic woman who just told you she’s polyamorous has absolutely no interest in banging you, so chill the fuck out, sources have revealed.Β  Sarah Harrow, 27, who currently has two romantic partner...

β€œYou don’t need to look so bloody anxious. I’m not recruiting – and even if I was… no thank you?”

12.06.2025 11:39 β€” πŸ‘ 137    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 2

I'm 58. I think it gets better over time, but I don't think it ever fully goes away. Self parenting & radical acceptance are the tools I use to deal with it.

12.06.2025 12:24 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I used to volunteer at larger conventions. Schedules are mostly firmed up this close to con, but you might get lucky. You should send them a short professional email saying what you can offer them, what your qualifications are, & past experience as a panelist.

10.06.2025 04:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Where we came from, back in Arizona, wellness checks could get queer folks, BIPOC folks, disabled folks arrested or killed. It happened to people we knew. It happened to several autistic friends or friends of friends. I also know the responsibilities of being a mandated reporter.

09.06.2025 21:19 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Myself and my disabled adult offspring are in that category. I have to mask so I can advocate for their needs. I'm not supposed to have any needs of my own....

09.06.2025 19:25 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm glad that ppl remember Mel and all sie stood for. I'll never get over what happened to them.

06.06.2025 20:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Same. Whereas my AuDHD offspring is happy to have all the new PokΓ©mon. I wonder if my Gameboy Advance still works…

04.06.2025 16:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Is your ability to sweat impacted? If so, look for other ways to know when you need to take a break. Do you have a strategy in place for managing electrolytes? Asthma flares can sneak up on us when we are so used to being tired all the time. I do lung check-ins to try to catch them early.

04.06.2025 16:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My dad had a carpet cleaning biz in the early β€˜80’s. We went all over Phoenix. When I worked summers w/ him as a teen, it was my job to find the addresses in the Thomas guide & give him directions. I enjoyed being helpful. πŸ™‚

04.06.2025 04:24 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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