Mike Strong - Men’s Confidence & Dating Coach

other forms of challenges & emotional stress is key to embodying your most magnetic, most attractive, healthy masculine self.

It’s key to living a full, Strong Life

You probably don’t look at soreness from working out as this terrible thing to be avoided, and fostering a positive relationship to tension - fear, discomfort, judgement & rejection, disappointment, and… ⬇️

Try to take on this mentality a little more this week as you face rejection from women (or the potential for it) - whether it’s walking and approaching women or on dates - and as you work on your confidence, connection skills, and overall personal development.

Why intelligent men stay single!

3 Reasons You Can’t Keep Women Around

Start noticing if you have this Nice Guy Syndrome tendency to overemphasize or push your words - I was did this a lot myself - and send this to a friend who might appreciate some men’s dating advice that hits deeper.

#menscoach #coldapproach #niceguysfinishlast #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen

If you’re familiar with embodiment and/or my Magnetic Masculine Presence framework, the second, relaxed examples in the video represent Grounded Confidence, a little Primal S*xual Magnetism, and Authentic Expression, too, because they’re more real vs performative.

The little things in your delivery and presence make a WORLD of difference in your dating life and beyond:

-how attractive you are to women
-how grounded, confident, and masculine you feel as a man overall
-how other men respect and relate to you
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If you’re familiar with embodiment and/or my Magnetic Masculine Presence framework, the second, relaxed examples in the video represent Grounded Confidence, a little Primal S*xual Magnetism, and Authentic Expression, too, because they’re more real vs performative.

Start noticing if you have this Nice Guy Syndrome tendency to overemphasize or push your words - I was did this a lot myself - and send this to a friend who might appreciate some men’s dating advice that hits deeper.

#menscoach #coldapproach #niceguysfinishlast #datingtipsformen #datingcoachformen

If you’re familiar with embodiment and/or my Magnetic Masculine Presence framework, the second, relaxed examples in the video represent Grounded Confidence, a little Primal S*xual Magnetism, and Authentic Expression, too, because they’re more real vs performative

Your imperfections become ASSETS to your attractiveness when you own them. Most dating advice tells you to “work around” your looks, height, weight, disability, awkwardness. Don’t do that. Own it! #datingformen #mensdatingcoach #confidentmen #limitingbeliefscoach #confidenceiseverything

Do regularly break eye contact but let tension build a little!

Send this to a friend who’s looking to up his dating game and follow me for more insights on embodying your innate Magnetic Masculine Presence​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

The eyes are where a lot of that happens, so don’t be so quick to break eye contact any time there’s tension. Darting away from eye contact is submissive…

…and holding it a little longer than comfortable (with the other keys in mind!) is where sparks can fly.

3️⃣ Are you breaking eye contact as soon as there’s any tension? Tension is what creates chemistry with a woman. It’s sexual tension.

Then focus on enjoying that moment with her as end to itself, regardless of the outcome.

If you’re nervous, that’s ok. Don’t try to hide or deny it. Embrace your nerves - even if just a tiny bit - as a sense of being more alive - like skydiving or a roller coaster with the beautiful woman in front of you.

2️⃣ Are you ENJOYING her, the eye contact, and the connection? Can you let yourself be turned on by what you like about the woman in front of you as you look into her eyes?

Or is it all fear, worrying about what she’s thinking, and trying to hide your nerves?

1️⃣ Are you present, looking INTO her - feeling a connection with her through the eyes and getting a sense for her emotions and feelings?

…Or are you just looking AT her eyes but your mind is somewhere else, ie thinking about what to say next or how to get her to like you?

But it’s more than just looking at her eyes. It’s one powerful expression of what I call Magnetic Masculine Presence - the embodied confidence that naturally attracts women.

3 overlooked fundamentals to help bring out that presence inside you and get sparks flying with women:

Eye contact is key to emotional connection with people - especially with dating and sparking chemistry with women…vs just a friendly / friend zone connection. 🧵⬇️

…is the confidence and enjoying the moment without attachment.

Stop letting weak energy convince you that being bold is beta.

It takes practice and being willing to be a beginner and suck at first, too.

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The difference between compliments that work and make you very attractive to women - often sparking attraction and chemistry instantly - and the same words falling flat or routinely getting bad reactions or friend zoning…

Going from hopelessly lonely to dating success despite my disability and being a short king, I learned it’s mostly about what’s going on under the hood of what you say to women…vs the content itself.

Now, if you’re hesitant, apologetic, or have a high degree of attachment to her liking you or not rejecting you, those are examples of weak energy that make many men think being direct or complimenting women too early is “beta.”

…is the confidence and enjoying the moment without attachment. Stop letting weak energy convince you that being bold is beta.

It takes practice and being willing to be a beginner and suck at first, too.

Send this to a friend!

The difference between compliments that work and make you very attractive to women - often sparking attraction and chemistry instantly - and the same words falling flat or routinely getting bad reactions or friend zoning…

Going from hopelessly lonely to dating success despite my disability and being a short king, I learned it’s mostly about what’s going on under the hood of what you say to women…vs the content itself.

💾 Save this thread to remind yourself daily so you start remembering it in the moment.
Send this to a friend who needs to hear it.
#datingtips #authenticity #masculinity #confidence​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

This shift was a total game-changer in my own dating life.

When you compliment from authentic attraction instead of seeking approval, women respond completely differently.

They feel appreciated, not like they’re being put on a pedestal.