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Happy Halloween from Toffee Faye, AKA Tiny Criminal.

#dogsky

It’s my manniversary! I’ve been on #HRT for 2 years already. It’s been one hell of a ride, but I’m so thankful I finally took that step.

FR<>EN #translators, it’s time to vent. What words are the worst to #translate? I’m thinking of things like valoriser, structurant, and dynamique in #French and insight and escalate in #English. Rant away!

#translate #xl8

Spotted at my local #library. Ouch.

Unexpected obstacle to my #transition: this little gremlin doing her best to glue herself to the leg I need to inject.

Congrats!!! The relief must be incredible.

I’m sorry, that sounds rough. Would you accept photos of a tiny criminal named Toffee Faye?

Congrats! I’m a trans guy who’s been doing weekly shots for almost 2 years, and I can tell you it becomes routine fast. It can help to create a little ritual around it: putting on a corny playlist or favourite show, doing nail/skincare, lighting a nice candle, using silly bandages when needed, etc.

Toffee Faye, ma petite criminelle

You’ve got this! I know it feels kind of like jumping into the void, but for now, it’s one concrete action. Just one. That’s doable.

Wow, congrats! What’s your language pair?

Could be. As someone else said there are lots of baby steps you can take, anyway. Binding, packers, haircut/wigs, clothing (including underwear), “Starbucks names,” online alts. Take what makes you feel good, leave the rest. And if it turns out you’re just cis and GNC? Cool, now you know.

It allowed me to repress til I was in my 30s. Once my egg cracked though, I found there was a bunch of subtle dysphoria I’d mistaken for other things. It was really eye opening.

Not saying that’ll be your experience, just that it’s normal. Worth exploring if you aren’t happy as you are.

Would it feel good to approach femininity “as a man”? Not uncommon for NB/trans ppl to want to engage with their AGAB “from the other side.”

And FWIW I started from a very similar place, with v little obvious dysphoria and an overall “meh” attitude to my AGAB. 🧵

What does the 'bunk' in 'debunk' mean?

Win for this week: I found out the other day that I don’t have cancer! Only took 2 months of chasing down doctors to finally learn my biopsy results…

For anyone who needs any of these:

Take your meds.

Hydrate, you precocious, mobile houseplant.

You’re doing your best and that’s more than enough.

You should be so proud of how far you’ve made it and all you’ve accomplished.

Stop letting the unrealistic standards online get you down.

Take care

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Lexicomane [LEK-sih-koh-mayn]
(n.)
A lover of dictionaries; one who enjoys looking up words.

Used in a sentence:
“I used that dating app for sapiosexuals where I found a fellow lexicomane to take to the library as a first date.”
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We adopted/foster failed Oscar when he was around 17 and got almost exactly 3 years with him. He was a very special old guy.

In hot weather like this, remember to keep an eye on your freelancers. Move them to a shaded spot, indoors if possible, away from ‘people’. Distract them with a computer or some unrealistic deadline. Do check on them, by email, but don’t forget to set yours to out of office in case they reply 🙏

Back in Cocagne, my happy place.

This is ridiculous I love it

Next time I'm having a rough day I may very well cope by getting this very stupid sticker design printed.

Travelling today. I haven’t legally changed my name yet, so I’ve been “ma’amed” 3 times before 6:15 AM. Bleh.

The Oxford comma (also known as the ‘serial comma’) is the comma that separates the second to last item in a list from a final item that is introduced by ‘and’ or ‘or.’

It is optional...but be aware that not using the serial comma can result in some ambiguity.

Well, humans become furries. Non-humans become skinnies.

Funny: my DM made it canon that when my Shifter bites someone, they become a furry.

Special: Instead of Inspiration, we get stickers. Fill in one row on the card and you get a small bonus (like one-time advantage/imposed disadvantage), fill in all 3 and you take an extra proficiency.

I did too, and just accepted it (albeit not at all happily) until I saw this.

Congrats!!! That’s huge!!!

tomb = toom
womb = woom
bomb = boom (eventually)