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Stuart Dexter

@northeastender.bsky.social

Cockney diaspora in north east England. Can often be found at gigs. Charity leader and all that. Growing old disgracefully with my wonderful partner in crime. He/him

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What does an autistic person look like? 🧡

23.07.2025 14:47 β€” πŸ‘ 78    πŸ” 10    πŸ’¬ 14    πŸ“Œ 5

This is your regular reminder: patriarchy is not men. Patriarchy is a system of oppressions that privileges male dominance and some women benefit from it.

Feminism is not women or anything a woman does just because she's a woman. Feminism is the destruction of patriarchy.

Feminism is liberation.

01.05.2025 18:15 β€” πŸ‘ 249    πŸ” 88    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 3

Submitted a s75 charge back claim start of December. It took Jaja 6 months to reject my claim as the car was for my daughter not me.

So credit card purchases are only protected if the item is for use by the card holder, not for gifts?

@moneysavingexp.bsky.social

01.05.2025 17:04 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Here's a thing to watch out for:

Bought a rubbish car from an unscrupulous dealer with my Jaja credit card. Dealer said it was fine, mechanic said it wasn't safe to drive.

01.05.2025 17:04 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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RESCHEDULING:
The @pitponyband.bsky.social show at the Cluny is moving to Saturday 24th May, with a message here from the band.

All November tickets remain valid for the new date, and any refunds can be actioned from point of purchase.

25.04.2025 13:35 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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This moment when the penny drops that trying to implement bathroom bans is an impossibility for the former Tory Chief Secretary Simon Clarke is delicious.

25.04.2025 09:36 β€” πŸ‘ 10172    πŸ” 3409    πŸ’¬ 347    πŸ“Œ 771
Asked at this press conference about the rising number of children diagnosed with Send, and what could be done to help them, Farage replied:

It’s a massive problem. I have to say, for my own money, when you get to 18 and you put somebody on a disability register, unemployed, with a high level of benefits, you’re telling people aged 18 that they’re that they’re victims. And if you are told you’re a victim, and you think you’re a victim, you are likely to stay [a victim].
So many of these diagnoses, for Send before 18, for disability register after 18 – so many of these have been conducted on Zoom, with the family GP.

Asked at this press conference about the rising number of children diagnosed with Send, and what could be done to help them, Farage replied: It’s a massive problem. I have to say, for my own money, when you get to 18 and you put somebody on a disability register, unemployed, with a high level of benefits, you’re telling people aged 18 that they’re that they’re victims. And if you are told you’re a victim, and you think you’re a victim, you are likely to stay [a victim]. So many of these diagnoses, for Send before 18, for disability register after 18 – so many of these have been conducted on Zoom, with the family GP.

Being disabled does not make someone β€œa victim”, Nigel Farage. Having state support to go to school does not make someone β€œa victim” either.

These kind of remarks are in many ways why I wrote Who Wants Normal? Disabled young people deserve more than this vile narrative.

24.04.2025 12:31 β€” πŸ‘ 276    πŸ” 79    πŸ’¬ 17    πŸ“Œ 10
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Meta: this time it’s personal Take 2 mins to write to Meta now!

Take 2 mins to demand that Meta stop targeting you with creepy personalised ads and content!

goodlaw.social/gk0i

24.04.2025 13:04 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Farage talking arrant and nasty shit here. You can't get an autism/SEND diagnosis from a GP. People are having to wait years for one. This is just Trump/Kennedy stuff, with a flavour of Badenoch & the right wing UK media

24.04.2025 12:05 β€” πŸ‘ 231    πŸ” 92    πŸ’¬ 22    πŸ“Œ 9

I have created a Starter Pack for British Trans Activism

Let's start organising and making the UK a better place. We've been on the defense for too long

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go.bsky.app/N6Qai5F

22.11.2024 10:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1497    πŸ” 436    πŸ’¬ 97    πŸ“Œ 23

LBC producer: who shall we get to comment on the Pope's death?

I know! Anne Widdecombe!

Class.

21.04.2025 20:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Movie (Never Made)
YouTube video by Silver Mt Zion - Topic Movie (Never Made)

This track has soundtracked some of the darkest moments in my life and some of the most hopeful. 25 years later it still moves me in many, many ways.

youtu.be/Ox26ReMendM?...

17.04.2025 08:58 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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"You know that you're changing lives and doing something good..." - North Tyneside Care Academy Charlotte's Apprenticeship: From leaving college unsure of what to do next, to becoming a full-time member of staff at Key Enterprises, Charlotte’s story shows how the right opportunity can open doors...

So: 5 minutes ago I was watching my 4th child come into the world. And now this has happened. Not quite sure how.

www.northtynesidecareacademy.org.uk/you-know-tha...

17.04.2025 08:28 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

so I do absolutely, entirely agree with this but it also does feel like the logical endpoint of treating university as "a thing you have to do for three years otherwise you won't get a job" - if you're not making a case for why a uni education is useful, don't expect people to actually respect it

15.04.2025 08:26 β€” πŸ‘ 685    πŸ” 114    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 12

What a stunning clip!

07.04.2025 19:42 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
The image is a screenshot of a tweet from Bearly Politics (@i_ratus
). The tweet reads: β€œβ€˜Yes, you’re wearing a suit, BUT DID YOU EVEN SAY THANK YOU?!’” Below the tweet, there is an image of three individuals in a formal setting, with two of them seated on ornate yellow chairs and gesturing with their hands. A penguin is standing on one of the chairs, dressed in a small suit. The background includes a fireplace, a flag, and other decorative elements, suggesting a formal or official room.

The image is a screenshot of a tweet from Bearly Politics (@i_ratus ). The tweet reads: β€œβ€˜Yes, you’re wearing a suit, BUT DID YOU EVEN SAY THANK YOU?!’” Below the tweet, there is an image of three individuals in a formal setting, with two of them seated on ornate yellow chairs and gesturing with their hands. A penguin is standing on one of the chairs, dressed in a small suit. The background includes a fireplace, a flag, and other decorative elements, suggesting a formal or official room.

We have a winner!

06.04.2025 14:01 β€” πŸ‘ 12317    πŸ” 2068    πŸ’¬ 232    πŸ“Œ 70
Iggy Pop! Live in San Fran
YouTube video by CafyokeKareoke Iggy Pop! Live in San Fran

Clem's drumming in this Iggy performance is phenomenal. During the intro it's as if man and drums are one - he looks like he's having the time of his life.

youtu.be/yHqqrbgJbuw?...

07.04.2025 17:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Gloria - Beam Me Up (Live on KEXP)
YouTube video by KEXP Gloria - Beam Me Up (Live on KEXP)

The sun is shining. Time for 'Beam Me Up'.

youtu.be/xEF-0Teil44?...

07.04.2025 10:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

How come I've only just discovered Sara Parkman? It's wonderful!!!

06.04.2025 14:33 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Gail Myerscough | Surface Pattern Designer & Illustrator | Manchester Surface Pattern Design & Illustration by Manchester based designer Gail Myerscough. Contemporary design meets mid century style. Contact for art licensing, commissions & collaboration enquiries.

My designs get lots of publicity in magazines and online and it looks like I’m doing really well.
The reality is that it’s bloody hard work being self employed and it’s not getting any easier.

Have a look at what I do and repost. Thanks.
gailmyerscough.co.uk

30.03.2025 08:29 β€” πŸ‘ 143    πŸ” 125    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 4

A certain 'end of football trophy drought' celebration has scuppered our plans to revisit our wedding venue, so we're celebrating a year of married bliss by going to the scene of our first date for a meal - which was several months after we met and was aided by 'eat out to help out'.

29.03.2025 16:35 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

That's 2 tickets for the Fugazi film booked. Looking forward to this one 😁

29.03.2025 16:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Wow. Have we regressed 400 years and started persecuting Quakers again?

29.03.2025 11:18 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Watched Adolescence. It is good and brilliantly acted. I don't think that the 1 shot thing helped the overall story, though. It's obviously very clever and meticulously planned and added extra tension to the first 2 episodes but meant that the resolution was awkward and convoluted.

Still good tho

29.03.2025 11:15 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

100%

29.03.2025 10:56 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Statement by Starmer on showing adolescence

Statement by Starmer on showing adolescence

You know what I’d call for if I was prime minister - more funding of youth clubs , extracurricular activities, and mental health support - but showing a film looks like concern while costing very little

28.03.2025 12:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1248    πŸ” 249    πŸ’¬ 77    πŸ“Œ 30

πŸ“£ Clive Lewis: β€œThis is about the maintenance of a model that was never built to serve the public. But here’s the irony. The greed of the water industry has cracked open the doorβ€”and through itβ€”we glimpse an opportunity. An opportunity to shatter the myth of water privatisation’s inevitability.” πŸ‘

28.03.2025 12:26 β€” πŸ‘ 97    πŸ” 42    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 2

This old tweet made the front page of reddit, or so I hear.

25.03.2025 17:50 β€” πŸ‘ 3105    πŸ” 557    πŸ’¬ 25    πŸ“Œ 4

Well, the new @prolapseband.bsky.social is a bit good.

28.03.2025 10:54 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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So, somehow, this was a whole year ago! We had an absolutely perfect day and we are absolutely perfect together.

28.03.2025 08:09 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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