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@finnattentive.bsky.social

Late diagnosed #ADHD #Autistic #AuDHD • Raising ADHD & autism acceptance • Cardiac arrest survivor 2020, defibrillator implant, Cardiac sarcoidosis • Ulcerative colitis • MCAS suspicion • Happy Finn 😉 • She/her 📍 Tampere, Finland

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Thanks, I've never watched this show.

11.08.2025 18:06 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

It's really sad and worrying that this, I fear, is our new normal.

11.08.2025 18:04 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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FMI: July was exceptionally warm, especially in Finnish Lapland Studies have indicated that Finland's climate is warming significantly faster than the global average.

"Finland also set a heatwave record last month, with at least one weather station in the country recording temperatures above 30 degrees Celsius for 22 consecutive days."

It was a certified record in Finland.

yle.fi/a/74-20176284

11.08.2025 17:47 — 👍 3    🔁 3    💬 1    📌 0

Worth being aware.
#HSP #Autism

11.08.2025 17:53 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
daytime view of tampere city centre from high above. tammerkoski rapids with surrounding buildings, hämeensilta bridge over the rapids and näsinneula observation tower in the back. it's summer and the sun is shining.

daytime view of tampere city centre from high above. tammerkoski rapids with surrounding buildings, hämeensilta bridge over the rapids and näsinneula observation tower in the back. it's summer and the sun is shining.

nighttime view of tampere city centre from high above. it's very dark. tammerkoski rapids with surrounding buildings, hämeensilta bridge over the rapids and näsinneula observation tower in the back, lit up in violet. it's summer.

nighttime view of tampere city centre from high above. it's very dark. tammerkoski rapids with surrounding buildings, hämeensilta bridge over the rapids and näsinneula observation tower in the back, lit up in violet. it's summer.

Tampere day & night ❤️
#Tampere #Finland

09.08.2025 17:58 — 👍 15    🔁 2    💬 3    📌 0

Really annoying wanting to repost images, but loads, if not most of them, are lacking the ALT text.

People do realise that adding it not only helps people, but it helps with their own engagement and reach, too, yeah?

Lots of important stuff is being shared. Let's include everyone, eh. #ALTtext

11.08.2025 14:20 — 👍 7    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0
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09.08.2025 20:22 — 👍 62    🔁 16    💬 2    📌 4

All the best for the surgery! ✨️ And sorry about you losing your dog ❤️

11.08.2025 08:49 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Meltdowns aren’t “bad behavior".

They’re a nervous system alarm.

If you treat the alarm as the problem, you miss the fire.

10.08.2025 11:48 — 👍 120    🔁 18    💬 5    📌 0

Same. (Apart from I'm a Finn and I don't live there anymore.) I find it unpractical. I need to be in charge of how I'm covered.

11.08.2025 08:28 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

That's a big no from me.

10.08.2025 22:59 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Nope.

10.08.2025 22:12 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I had a yellow Lumia, don't remember which model. Still got it in the drawer. 😊

10.08.2025 22:08 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Yes, it's never as simple as A or B. Need more information!

10.08.2025 10:18 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Just before your post I saw this on my feed.

bsky.app/profile/swor...

10.08.2025 09:09 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Me trying to fill any questionnaire at all. The questions always feel too vague, making it impossible to know which answer to choose. #Autism

09.08.2025 23:16 — 👍 23    🔁 0    💬 6    📌 0

The “struggle” you’re describing is SO common among Autistic people - nearly universal in my experience

“B-but - if they mean THIS specific thing than my answer is A

If they mean THAT other thing, well, then that’s different!

I can’t pick. I need more info.”

11.12.2024 04:11 — 👍 44    🔁 8    💬 6    📌 1

As long as social media stays fun for you x

09.08.2025 22:17 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

another year later and I believe it more now than ever

If you can’t think of a single reason to get diagnosed besides the fact that you “need to know”

You know already, my love

It is you who will tell me about your beautiful brain and I’ll compare it to the list in the DSM / big book of problems

09.08.2025 19:45 — 👍 21    🔁 2    💬 2    📌 1

Friends, there are plenty of things RFK Jr. says and does that are worthy of contempt.

I am not on board with the “addict”, “junkie”, “heroin freak” narrative.

There are plenty of people in recovery who never go on to be sociopathic frauds, and they are worthy of our love and support.

09.08.2025 14:44 — 👍 581    🔁 92    💬 65    📌 15
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Welcome Pack - Reframing Autism

My favorite might be the folks at Reframing Autism & their ‘welcome pack’

(adorable name. Welcome to being Autistic! You’ve been here all along.)

05.07.2025 02:10 — 👍 2    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

A bit annoyed I didn't turn off all the lights in the hotel room at night for the pic. But I was tipsy, so this is what I've got. 😅

09.08.2025 18:27 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
daytime view of tampere city centre from high above. tammerkoski rapids with surrounding buildings, hämeensilta bridge over the rapids and näsinneula observation tower in the back. it's summer and the sun is shining.

daytime view of tampere city centre from high above. tammerkoski rapids with surrounding buildings, hämeensilta bridge over the rapids and näsinneula observation tower in the back. it's summer and the sun is shining.

nighttime view of tampere city centre from high above. it's very dark. tammerkoski rapids with surrounding buildings, hämeensilta bridge over the rapids and näsinneula observation tower in the back, lit up in violet. it's summer.

nighttime view of tampere city centre from high above. it's very dark. tammerkoski rapids with surrounding buildings, hämeensilta bridge over the rapids and näsinneula observation tower in the back, lit up in violet. it's summer.

Tampere day & night ❤️
#Tampere #Finland

09.08.2025 17:58 — 👍 15    🔁 2    💬 3    📌 0

I love Janine's instant ADHD like enthusiasm for things.

09.08.2025 09:55 — 👍 2    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 0

Watching Abbott atm and yes. (Sweet, funny show, btw.) #AbbottElementary

09.08.2025 09:53 — 👍 8    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

This is not a safe person. Please encourage other workers to block him here and on X so he can't profit off association with our community, or use that to target inexperienced workers. He's been called out numerous times for inappropriate behavior on X and uses being ND to run cover every time.

31.07.2025 07:24 — 👍 28    🔁 8    💬 1    📌 0
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On this day a year ago. Taylor Swift Vienna 💔 These videos still make me cry, it was so moving to experience. We spent hours there. The next day even more people gathered in the city centre. My youngest is a huge fan, so at least she got to be with ofter Swifties 🩷

#TSVienna #TSErasTour #Swifties

08.08.2025 15:29 — 👍 5    🔁 2    💬 2    📌 0

That's quite a coincidence! 🤗 We were there for ~5h, and I took many videos. So you may be in one. 😊 We also went to the gathering in the city centre the next day. After that it was home. All the Swifties were lovely. 🩷

08.08.2025 18:04 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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On this day a year ago. Taylor Swift Vienna 💔 These videos still make me cry, it was so moving to experience. We spent hours there. The next day even more people gathered in the city centre. My youngest is a huge fan, so at least she got to be with ofter Swifties 🩷

#TSVienna #TSErasTour #Swifties

08.08.2025 15:29 — 👍 5    🔁 2    💬 2    📌 0

5 days ago 😀

06.08.2025 19:06 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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