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@sndesireecha.bsky.social

lightning + foam /she.hers/ bylines: Autostraddle; Rest for Resistance; The Rumpus; The Butter; The Nervous Breakdown; AlterNet.

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i've been job-hunting since February.
i had a temp gig from May-June.
since then, no leads.
i can't force a job to hire me and i can't force housing to house me.
we live in capitalism. it's not king.
but mutual aid and community care matter.
please, please help.

thank you.

02.08.2025 14:33 — 👍 1    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0
email received from potential employer received morning of 7 Aug 2025. email states they chose another candidate, and apologizes for delayed response. original application date is 9 June 2025.

email received from potential employer received morning of 7 Aug 2025. email states they chose another candidate, and apologizes for delayed response. original application date is 9 June 2025.

job-hunting: apply for job in early June; get email rejection in early August. rinse, repeat.

07.08.2025 15:39 — 👍 0    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
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Please share, it makes a difference

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09.08.2025 18:10 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Donate to Help First Gen Immigrant Get Documents, Survive Homelessness, organized by Sam Dylan Finch Dear community, The story of what my friend has endured i… Sam Dylan Finch needs your support for Help First Gen Immigrant Get Documents, Survive Homelessness

Since Feb l've been applying to remote, accessible jobs, only 1 interview offer. Even reached out to random animal sanctuaries asking if they'll do a work exchange to let me stay on their property (since I'm an unknown entity to them, l of course got no response)

gofund.me/acce3720

09.08.2025 18:10 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Hello, may I ask for some encouragement to keep on living? Right now I see no reason, no future, and no way to access care that would help me move forward

09.08.2025 18:07 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0
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A Tweet from Gabrielle Peters AT mssinenomine, dated 10 May 2025, series of three, reads:

“The impact of constantly trying to control the fight, flight or freeze that poverty evokes is way under-discussed.”

“I mention this in my chapter but didn't have room to discuss it as much as I would have liked. A longstanding myth about poor people has been that the problem lies in lack of
'impulse control' and desire for 'immediate gratification.' Very eugenics. Very wrong.”

“Whatever 'difference' may exist is an *effect* of poverty, not a cause.”

A Tweet from Gabrielle Peters AT mssinenomine, dated 10 May 2025, series of three, reads: “The impact of constantly trying to control the fight, flight or freeze that poverty evokes is way under-discussed.” “I mention this in my chapter but didn't have room to discuss it as much as I would have liked. A longstanding myth about poor people has been that the problem lies in lack of 'impulse control' and desire for 'immediate gratification.' Very eugenics. Very wrong.” “Whatever 'difference' may exist is an *effect* of poverty, not a cause.”

“The impact of constantly trying to control the fight, flight or freeze that poverty evokes is way under-discussed.”

—Gabrielle Peters, 10 May 2025
@mssinenomine.bsky.social

08.08.2025 01:20 — 👍 0    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

it really does feel like i don't deserve to be alive if i can't afford housing or even a used car to live in.

it feels terrifying, bleak, and familiar.
please remember who you are, and please look out for each other.

06.08.2025 00:09 — 👍 2    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 1

“Rights without resources are a lie.”

08.08.2025 01:38 — 👍 0    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

hello, friends. if you could boost this, i would deeply appreciate it.

Esmé & i will be homeless & on the street by 9/1; despite my best efforts i can’t find consistent work. i do not own a car nor do i have any in-person friends, support, or help.

please boost & share. 🩵

28.07.2025 02:49 — 👍 7    🔁 10    💬 0    📌 4

Please help out Désirée if you can. Every little bit helps.

06.08.2025 02:17 — 👍 2    🔁 3    💬 1    📌 0

Housing is a human right. Please support them and show them your humanity. Follow. Boost. Donate. Don't let it drop. 💕💸 #HelpSky #MutualAid #MutualAidBoost

06.08.2025 02:10 — 👍 1    🔁 3    💬 2    📌 0
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i know that used cars sell quickly & that i have obstacles in looking at used cars at all. but i am hopeful.
i really want to say that i at least have a safer car to live in.

if you can boost & share, it would mean everything.
thank you.

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07.08.2025 15:41 — 👍 0    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

Help Desiree and her adorable little dog if you can! 💖

08.08.2025 21:17 — 👍 0    🔁 1    💬 2    📌 0

friends,

we will be homeless and on the street at the end of August.
we're currently fundraising for a reliable used car to get to a Medicaid-safer state and to be closer to in-person friends.
we're also fundraising for a Certificate of Citizenship.

please share! mutual aid makes a difference

02.08.2025 00:17 — 👍 2    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 0

this dog and her guardian will be homeless in September. help her at least have a decent used car to live in before that happens. GoFundMe link below

26.06.2025 00:27 — 👍 9    🔁 9    💬 0    📌 0
"Care is complicated, gendered, misused.
It is often mobilized to enact violence, not assuage it, yet I cannot surrender it.
I want acts and accounts of care as shared and distributed risk, as mass refusals of the unbearable life, as total rejections of the dead future."
—Christina Sharpe, "Ordinary Notes"

"Care is complicated, gendered, misused. It is often mobilized to enact violence, not assuage it, yet I cannot surrender it. I want acts and accounts of care as shared and distributed risk, as mass refusals of the unbearable life, as total rejections of the dead future." —Christina Sharpe, "Ordinary Notes"

"Care is complicated, gendered, misused.
... I want acts and accounts of care as shared and distributed risk, as mass refusals of the unbearable life, as total rejections of the dead future."
—Christina Sharpe, "Ordinary Notes" @hystericalblkns.bsky.social

16.07.2025 03:40 — 👍 26    🔁 9    💬 0    📌 0

in truth, there are as many reasons for being homeless as there are people experiencing it. it's not all mental health, substance use disorders, or whatever the flavor of the month may be.

some of us are alone in the world. some of us are survivors of violence. listen to people.

27.07.2025 01:14 — 👍 12    🔁 8    💬 0    📌 0

i hope this becomes nation-wide legislation backed by action and funding to help the most vulnerable and their companion animal family

08.08.2025 21:19 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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08.08.2025 21:18 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

a used car offers safety and transport to a Medicaid-friendlier state. i will be on the street with a dog at month's end.

used cars sell quickly and private sellers cost less than a used car dealer. found an ideal one but need to fundraise at least $3K to afford it. i feel hopeful. please hope us.

07.08.2025 15:20 — 👍 1    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0
A small white and black dog with big ears and a fluffy tail that curls over her lower back stands on a cement stoop and looks up at the camera. she has an underbite and a row of cute white teeth visible.

A small white and black dog with big ears and a fluffy tail that curls over her lower back stands on a cement stoop and looks up at the camera. she has an underbite and a row of cute white teeth visible.

the last donation was 2 weeks ago. i'm less than 3 weeks away from being out on the street and unsheltered homeless with an ESA dog and no car to leave or live in.

i live off of $300/mo that will cover car insurance.

please help us. please help.

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gofund.me/8a943c53

06.08.2025 00:14 — 👍 3    🔁 4    💬 1    📌 1

Since Feb I've been applying to remote, accessible jobs, only 1 interview offer. Even reached out to random animal sanctuaries asking if they'll do a work exchange to let me stay on their property (since I'm an unknown entity to them, I of course got no response)

Please share, it makes a difference

08.08.2025 21:09 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

The wildest thing about this era is watching so many institutions say out loud yeah, we’re done committing ourselves to excellence, we’re going to specialize in the coddling of mediocre white men

08.08.2025 04:00 — 👍 9236    🔁 2188    💬 168    📌 87
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Cirrus uncinus cloud - Wikipedia

Mare's tail

It's called mare's tail

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07.08.2025 23:32 — 👍 7    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 0
Esmé the dog on a human medical exam table. we’ve raised $600 / $6,000 for citizenship docs and a used car to live in with my dog.

created by a kind friend in Nov 2024, i've only met 24% of the GFM goal. the $2.7K doesn't reflect available funds. 
please share, & give if you’re able. thank you 🪷

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gofund.me/ec5c2ddb

mutual aid saves lives

Esmé the dog on a human medical exam table. we’ve raised $600 / $6,000 for citizenship docs and a used car to live in with my dog. created by a kind friend in Nov 2024, i've only met 24% of the GFM goal. the $2.7K doesn't reflect available funds. please share, & give if you’re able. thank you 🪷 V SNDesiree C $SNDesiree gofund.me/ec5c2ddb mutual aid saves lives

we’ve raised $600 / $6,000 for citizenship docs and a used car to live in with my dog. thank you 🪷

since Nov 2024, i've only met 24% of the GFM goal. the $2.7K doesn't reflect available funds.
please share, & give if you’re able.
mutual aid saves lives.

V SNDesiree
C $SNDesiree
gofund.me/ec5c2ddb

05.08.2025 00:15 — 👍 1    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 0

i won't make it living on the street.

i won't survive it.

after i stopped living in my car in fall 2021, i knew i would not survive another bout of living in a car.

this time i have not even a car to live in.

we can apply for jobs, Medicaid, food stamps, and still be locked out of survival

06.08.2025 02:10 — 👍 1    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0

there is no justice in the human world.

08.08.2025 04:51 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
A smol white and black dog stands on a kitchen floor and licks doggy toothpaste from her blue doggo toothbrush

A smol white and black dog stands on a kitchen floor and licks doggy toothpaste from her blue doggo toothbrush

goodnight, humans.

love,
Esmé

08.08.2025 03:15 — 👍 1    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

Be the land mine buried under the sand an investor will walk on

07.08.2025 18:50 — 👍 128    🔁 14    💬 2    📌 0

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