Do you have somewhere I can talk to you privately and tell you?
22.01.2024 05:41 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0@autistictruth.bsky.social
27. Autistic, ADHD, ambulatory wheelchair user, disabled advocate, volunteer in NHS services. Disability rights and making the world a safe place
Do you have somewhere I can talk to you privately and tell you?
22.01.2024 05:41 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0She literally turned over 100 people against me and caused me to be dogpiled and targeted. All because she didnβt tell me I triggered her. Instead of telling me so I could apologise she blocked me and wrote a post about me turning people against me making out I am dangerous
21.01.2024 05:07 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I wrote a post about it. The name starts with H and have over 12k followers
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My brain hurts. I donβt understand
21.01.2024 03:23 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0And I canβt afford taxis either and I need my wheelchair and itβs hard doing shopping wit a wheelchair and getting a taxi. Itβs so much easier with my own car and less hassle as Iβd have to get wheel chair out of my car, into a taxi, then back into a taxi and then back into my car
19.01.2024 23:33 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Iβm an ambulatory wheelchair user so my car has a hoist and electric wheelchair. The care company said if I donβt get the insurance then Iβll have to use carers cars but they arenβt adapted. I also have to pay Β£13 admin charge each time and mileage if I go in their cars
19.01.2024 23:32 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0What am I supposed to do? The care agency says carers canβt come in my car even though Iβm the driver as I need business insurance. But insurance says I donβt and I just need business insurance on my policy if Iβm using the car for business purposes which Iβm not.
19.01.2024 23:31 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0The way the autistic community has treated me is DISGUSTING. Especially threats Iβve received telling me who I can and canβt follow and if I donβt listen then Iβll be targeted and mass unfollowed.
19.01.2024 22:54 β π 2 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0people need to understand that by posting about others especially with 10k+ followersβ¦ you need to be aware the power you have to cause dog piling and severe bullying, threats and targeting. All over miscommunication and misunderstandings which is common in autistic people
19.01.2024 22:55 β π 2 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0the ableism in expecting every autistic person has the ability to know that what they say could trigger someone isnβt okay. The way we are expecting Autistic people to all have the same communication abilities and level of awareness and understanding is ABLEIST.
19.01.2024 22:56 β π 1 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0If the Autistic community continues this behaviour targeting people like what happened to me and 5 other then itβs not going to be long before you push someone to their death. Dogpiling and isolating someone by turning everyone against them could lead to someone taking their life
19.01.2024 22:56 β π 1 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0Also itβs DISGUSTING behaviour that people in the Autistic community are blindly listening to one side of a story before targeting someone. Screenshots that donβt provide the true context is not proof either. People need to get into the habit of finding out both sides.
19.01.2024 22:56 β π 1 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0The hypocrisy in the Autistic community and the one rule for them another for everyone else. And targeting people so severely is toxic. I can seriously understand now why Neurotypicals for YEARS have said ActuallyAutistic community is a cult. After what Iβve witnessed happen to me and others.
19.01.2024 22:58 β π 0 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0The hypocrisy in the Autistic community and the one rule for them another for everyone else. And targeting people so severely is toxic. I can seriously understand now why Neurotypicals for YEARS have said ActuallyAutistic community is a cult. After what Iβve witnessed happen to me and others.
19.01.2024 22:58 β π 0 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0The same group were interacting with a troll account set up to bully and target another autistic person. And when called out about it didnβt take action. But then when a troll account of one of them was created they all said how wrong it was and rallied together to mass report it
19.01.2024 22:58 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0this same group in the autistic community doing all this are accusing another autistic person of dr shopping and claiming they arenβt autistic but yet when one of them is accused of not being autistic they all speak out about how wrong it is to say that. Itβs hypocritical
19.01.2024 22:57 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Because you could easily be targeting an innocent autistic person over miscommunication of getting wires crossed with another person.
19.01.2024 22:57 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Also itβs DISGUSTING behaviour that people in the Autistic community are blindly listening to one side of a story before targeting someone. Screenshots that donβt provide the true context is not proof either. People need to get into the habit of finding out both sides.
19.01.2024 22:56 β π 1 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0If the Autistic community continues this behaviour targeting people like what happened to me and 5 other then itβs not going to be long before you push someone to their death. Dogpiling and isolating someone by turning everyone against them could lead to someone taking their life
19.01.2024 22:56 β π 1 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0the ableism in expecting every autistic person has the ability to know that what they say could trigger someone isnβt okay. The way we are expecting Autistic people to all have the same communication abilities and level of awareness and understanding is ABLEIST.
19.01.2024 22:56 β π 1 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0people need to understand that by posting about others especially with 10k+ followersβ¦ you need to be aware the power you have to cause dog piling and severe bullying, threats and targeting. All over miscommunication and misunderstandings which is common in autistic people
19.01.2024 22:55 β π 2 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0blocking them after they asked for advice and posting about them but not informing that person you wanted to be paid for the advice isnβt okay. As they may have been happy to pay. Itβs an assumption that youβve made that they expected free advice
19.01.2024 22:55 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0This behaviour needs to stop. Calling autistic people out over miscommunication issues and not telling them what the issue is. Iβm talking about situations similar to mine.
19.01.2024 22:55 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I heard from 5 other Autistic people who approached me saying this same person did the same to them what happened to me. One of these Autistic people expressed that they tried taking their life due to the shunning and the severe dog piling.
19.01.2024 22:55 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0The way the autistic community has treated me is DISGUSTING. Especially threats Iβve received telling me who I can and canβt follow and if I donβt listen then Iβll be targeted and mass unfollowed.
19.01.2024 22:54 β π 2 π 1 π¬ 1 π 0Failing to take into account that Iβm not a low support needs autistic person and I donβt have that level of awareness when Iβm having conversations and I do have communication difficulties. people made up conspiracy theories that I was behind a troll account targeting this person. (I wasnβt)
19.01.2024 22:53 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0It wouldβve been different if they contacted me privately and was willing to discuss the situation rather than demand an apology after what they did to me. People spread around that I shouldβve known that what I said could trigger someone.
19.01.2024 22:52 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Then this person said I blocked them when they demanded an apology but failed to tell them this was AFTER they blocked and posted about me. They used a second account to evade my block. Not once did this person approach me maturely privately to resolve the situation.
19.01.2024 22:52 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Screenshot of post on X saying βLet's talk about high control communities & the tools they use to keep their community members locked in & suppressed. 1. Emotional manipulation & abuse (shaming and scaring) 2. Psychological manipulation & abuse (lies & half truths) 3. Shunning (cancelling) Untrained Left.β With an image below saying βyouβre sure itβs not a cult?β
This happened to me recently. Someone didnβt tell me I triggered them so I could apologise. Instead I was blocked and posted about. Many blindly believed them. They turned over 100 people against me/ caused me to be dogpiled and targeted. People spread lies that I maliciously triggered this person.
19.01.2024 22:51 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0first the care agency said nobody could push me in my wheelchair due to health/ safety so I saved up got a bigger car, electric wheelchair, wheelchair hoist. now a year later theyβre telling me carers cannot travel in my car unless I get business insurance
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