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Carrie

@kevstanley.bsky.social

#actuallyautistic, interested in autistic community despite being a would-be hermit. Ex-benefits advisor, still a bit sweary about the DWP. Settled Romany. She/her.

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This is theatre rather than film/TV (and also, Iโ€™m old). But Colin Firth in the west end stage production of Another Country in maybe 1983? He was astoundingly good.

05.08.2025 09:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

In these godawful times (personally, nationally, globally), I am finding solace in tennis, gay pirates, my weird cat and expensive ice cream (thanks the lord it (the ice cream, that is) only comes in smallish tubs)).

02.07.2025 20:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Black Boys on Mopeds. She skewered English racism (and more) in a few short lines.

02.07.2025 20:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Donโ€™t quote me on this - my ability to recognise people (up to and including my own family) is neurodivergently shocking - but the second pic looks like Idris.

02.07.2025 20:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m so sad his run is done. Heโ€™s been glorious, even if the writing hasnโ€™t. I wanted more.

01.06.2025 06:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A white cat, front paws stretched, asleep in the sun on a colourful quilt.

A white cat, front paws stretched, asleep in the sun on a colourful quilt.

#caturday

31.05.2025 06:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thatโ€™s a fabulous diklo!

24.05.2025 06:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™ve enjoyed his 2nd series more than the 1st. Heโ€™s such a great actor though - with the right scripts his run could be outstanding.

23.05.2025 13:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Color Taste Texture: Recipes for Picky Eaters, Those with Food Aversion, and Anyone Who's Ever Cringed at Food a book by Matthew Broberg-Moffitt. This product has no description

Itโ€™s also available here: uk.bookshop.org/p/books/colo... - I always order via uk.bookshop.org if ordering books online - great way to support local book shops!

20.05.2025 06:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is so often overlooked. The psychological (and financial) damage done by the THREAT of reforms/cuts is devastating.

14.05.2025 11:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I've just been discharged from hospital, and almost everyone, from the team serving meals to the consultant, were immigrants, doing a brilliant job in an incredibly hard environment.

12.05.2025 12:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m not much of a romantic really (single crone with cat here). But I canโ€™t help thinking about Mariam now that Amadou is gone. All those years working and living and loving together.

(This thought brought to you by my Spotify playlist bringing me โ€œJe pense ร  toiโ€.)

11.05.2025 12:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

3/4 days in a completely autistic environment, listening to passionate autistic speakers, meeting autists from all walks of life, with all manner of interests and experiences. Being able to take time out from the schedule without judgment. If that sounds tempting, Autscape might just be for you.

11.05.2025 09:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€ฆ.. But the NHS, struggling as it is with cruel underfunding and neglect, still does an astonishing job.

11.05.2025 08:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Home from hospital day today, all being well. Iโ€™ve had excellent, diligent care, almost all from overseas staff. Hospitals are not great places to be an autistic in-patient, & I canโ€™t wait to get back to my quiet routine at home (not to mention the cat)โ€ฆ.

11.05.2025 08:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Medium boobs here (though I bizarrely fall into their fuller bust bracket). I do have one of their fuller bust bras and itโ€™s 99% great but thereโ€™s an annoying little (not removable afaik) clasp to convert it to a racerback which always catches in my hair, & that is a nope for me @emmachittenden.com

10.05.2025 20:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I love Boody stuff too, and havenโ€™t noticed any deterioration on multiple washes, so it may well be a blend thing. Their bra/crop tops are brilliant from a (my, anyway) sensory perspective.

10.05.2025 20:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I'd use something like this - with the right planning, it could be great for pubs and punters.

10.05.2025 11:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My favourite was a colleague in an autism charity explaining to me about my triad of impairments. Here to โ€œsupportโ€ autistic people. Apparently.

10.05.2025 09:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m lucky enough to live a stoneโ€™s throw (almost, but not quite, literally) away from a lovely little bookshop (sister shop to @hungerfordbookshop.bsky.social) and I ordered from there as I always do. Indie bookshops are such a treasure.

10.05.2025 05:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hey you know how he was Robert yesterday morning and now he's Leo?

It's that easy to respect someone's chosen name.

09.05.2025 17:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 121    ๐Ÿ” 33    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

Oh thanks, me too now ;)

09.05.2025 07:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I hope so!

01.05.2025 10:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m really sorry to be missing you in Hungerford this evening - had planned to be there, but the stars have not aligned. The bookโ€™s next up on my reading list though - canโ€™t wait. Happy publication day!

01.05.2025 09:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Itโ€™s on the south west coast path - this is just past Golden Cap heading towards Lyme Regis/Charmouth. Itโ€™s absolutely gorgeous - one of my favourite places. The St Gabriels thatโ€™s signposted is a tiny ancient ruined chapel where cows sometimes graze.

12.04.2025 08:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A sunny view across green hills to a curved shoreline. In the foreground, a weathered wooden signpost and a wooden gate and fence.

A sunny view across green hills to a curved shoreline. In the foreground, a weathered wooden signpost and a wooden gate and fence.

12.04.2025 08:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Nick Drakeโ€™s Time of No Reply

12.04.2025 07:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My god, Reunion. I mean, it had me at Matthew Gurney signing sorry *in blood* on the series โ€œposterโ€. It tackles abuse, isolation, injustice, the ripple effect of trauma. Deaf writer & so many Deaf cast members. And at the centre of it Gurney, who is just a phenomenal actor. More of this please BBC.

09.04.2025 20:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

TCP and coal tar soap for me. Pretty sure our van and later house were held together by those two magics.

08.04.2025 18:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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08.04.2025 10:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 104    ๐Ÿ” 76    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 6    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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