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Helping people build relationships with themselves | Mental Health | Self Care | Therapist in training | they/them https://selfcarebackpack.com/links

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I’ve see so much of this reaction among corporate feminist types and I swear the idea that women should be present at the tables where they decide to exploit people is so viscerally disgusting to me

07.02.2026 13:06 β€” πŸ‘ 278    πŸ” 56    πŸ’¬ 16    πŸ“Œ 1
columbo but mole

columbo but mole

Molumbo

04.02.2026 09:17 β€” πŸ‘ 6548    πŸ” 2062    πŸ’¬ 18    πŸ“Œ 35

I've reread this like 3 times. Freed herself from slavery by running away, *went back a week later bc the slaver was talking shit, set his house on fire, and then escaped again is absolutely incredible queen shit

04.02.2026 13:51 β€” πŸ‘ 3833    πŸ” 1047    πŸ’¬ 35    πŸ“Œ 13

Books are not clutter. Clutter is all the other stuff that gets in the way of having more books.

02.02.2026 19:57 β€” πŸ‘ 425    πŸ” 135    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 6

In Buffy S7, there’s a scene where Willow thinks she’s talking to the ghost of Tara, but realizes with dawning horror that she’s talking to a malevolent entity wearing Tara’s face.

Imagine that kind of mental record scratch, but it’s an ad for Squarespace or something.

01.02.2026 20:20 β€” πŸ‘ 66    πŸ” 15    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My hot take about the β€œstudents cannot read whole novels / watch whole films / etc.” is that they can learn to do it. None of us are born with attention spans suited for long media. It is a learned skill and can be developed with practice.

31.01.2026 15:28 β€” πŸ‘ 1450    πŸ” 399    πŸ’¬ 21    πŸ“Œ 41
Screenshot of Tumblr post by lurker-at-thresholds:

Thinking about a new bit where i start using β€œworkers of the world” as my go-to second person plural pronoun. Like β€œchat”.

Workers of the world what do we think of this. Is it funny.

Workers of the world please like and reblog my post

Screenshot of Tumblr post by lurker-at-thresholds: Thinking about a new bit where i start using β€œworkers of the world” as my go-to second person plural pronoun. Like β€œchat”. Workers of the world what do we think of this. Is it funny. Workers of the world please like and reblog my post

Wake up, workers of the world, a new second-person plural pronoun dropped.

31.01.2026 13:18 β€” πŸ‘ 5485    πŸ” 1473    πŸ’¬ 39    πŸ“Œ 43

Ah I gather from R4 that govt are announcing a programme today where Microsoft and Google offer training to everyone in the country to use their AI tools, which I'm guessing this research was commissioned to justify. Also, great to be in a govt-backed multi-level marketing plan

28.01.2026 07:24 β€” πŸ‘ 114    πŸ” 45    πŸ’¬ 12    πŸ“Œ 8

Makes you wonder just how dangerously invested the UK is into ai stock and companies if they’re pulling a move this desperate lmao

28.01.2026 08:40 β€” πŸ‘ 649    πŸ” 153    πŸ’¬ 29    πŸ“Œ 4
A photo of a book. The title is The Othered Woman: how white feminism harms muslim women, by Shahed Ezaydi. There is also a leaflet from the other explaining how she reverted the rights of the book from Unbound and it's now punished through Pluto Press

A photo of a book. The title is The Othered Woman: how white feminism harms muslim women, by Shahed Ezaydi. There is also a leaflet from the other explaining how she reverted the rights of the book from Unbound and it's now punished through Pluto Press

So glad this book made it through the Unbound nonsense. Can't wait to crack it open!

27.01.2026 10:49 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
what can you do to make future you’s life a little easier or nicer? Your sense of control and efficacy is important in the face of helplessness.

what can you do to make future you’s life a little easier or nicer? Your sense of control and efficacy is important in the face of helplessness.

For some reason, it felt like a good time to put out a (free) newsletter on how to look after yourself when things are terrible:

buttondown.com/SelfCareBack...

26.01.2026 16:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A belief that only through commitment to a sort of misery associated with adulthood (and what they mean is alienation from seeking outcomes that might make life and peace and society worth living with) has been a defeatist project that allowed narcissistic mavericks to look like they have a dream.

26.01.2026 12:39 β€” πŸ‘ 46    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Absolutely.

I’m disappointed to see so many MPs who support Trans+ History Week backing a social media ban.

We need to be much more considered in our solution.

And I’d encourage them to read this piece to develop that understanding more.

24.01.2026 09:55 β€” πŸ‘ 106    πŸ” 36    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Annoyed that this is the poem of the decade

19.01.2026 10:22 β€” πŸ‘ 353    πŸ” 83    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1

This. It's OK if your writing doesn't save lives. It's OK if your writing only saves you.

16.01.2026 18:51 β€” πŸ‘ 283    πŸ” 99    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 1

i love when everyone insane online converges on an event & decides it's a posting holiday

13.01.2026 16:13 β€” πŸ‘ 51    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

The reporting on this stuff is always very vague - what’s on the screens (there is a brief mention of this)? What would the child be doing instead? What other environmental factors might improve/impede vocabulary? Why is there a conflation with a social media ban for teenagers in this article?

13.01.2026 12:18 β€” πŸ‘ 49    πŸ” 10    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

do you guys hear that bell tolling? wonder who it’s for. it’s so loud lmao

10.01.2026 15:30 β€” πŸ‘ 4245    πŸ” 851    πŸ’¬ 80    πŸ“Œ 19
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The Cardiff Lions do an annual Drag Rugby charity match for children’s charities and it’s as beautiful as you imagined

10.01.2026 19:45 β€” πŸ‘ 4121    πŸ” 1507    πŸ’¬ 69    πŸ“Œ 197

THE OPEN ACKNOWLEDGEMENT OF GRIEF IS A POLITICAL ACT.

08.01.2026 22:55 β€” πŸ‘ 1683    πŸ” 467    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 10

So the zealots whose entire conception of "feminism" is defending the legitimacy of 'woman' as mother and womb are buying into nationalist, reactionary politics?

The story here is actually how shit most people's definition of "left-leaning" is.

04.01.2026 11:29 β€” πŸ‘ 266    πŸ” 46    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 0

Read this thread. I don't know what to say, other than we can't live like this anymore.

04.01.2026 03:02 β€” πŸ‘ 540    πŸ” 160    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

is there some way I can quickly unlearn all of history so as to feel better about recent events

03.01.2026 17:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1922    πŸ” 275    πŸ’¬ 64    πŸ“Œ 20

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH

03.01.2026 10:47 β€” πŸ‘ 279    πŸ” 119    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 2

I cannot emphasize enough that the attempts to anthropomorphize an algorithm is a fundamental act of journalistic malpractice and an intentional act to shield the people responsible for this. It's fucking shameful.

02.01.2026 17:03 β€” πŸ‘ 7602    πŸ” 2412    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 35

the extremely capable, performing better than a human, and close to achieving conscientiousness AI systems, y'all

02.01.2026 19:44 β€” πŸ‘ 138    πŸ” 38    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 2

One more reset bro one more reset

02.01.2026 11:29 β€” πŸ‘ 418    πŸ” 53    πŸ’¬ 17    πŸ“Œ 0

It has been a truly upsetting revelation how many people who I thought cared about disinformation, advocating for science, etc just flipped in 0.002 microseconds after a tech company programmed a chatbot to tell them how great their questions are

01.01.2026 07:27 β€” πŸ‘ 347    πŸ” 77    πŸ’¬ 7    πŸ“Œ 10

which political views? which ones specifically

31.12.2025 17:03 β€” πŸ‘ 2224    πŸ” 259    πŸ’¬ 41    πŸ“Œ 3
i am running into a new year
By Lucille Clifton

i am running into a new year
and the old years blow back
like a wind
that i catch in my hair
like strong fingers like
all my old promises and
it will be hard to let go
of what i said to myself
about myself
when i was sixteen and
twenty-six and thirty-six
even thirty-six but
i am running into a new year
and i beg what i love and
i leave to forgive me

i am running into a new year By Lucille Clifton i am running into a new year and the old years blow back like a wind that i catch in my hair like strong fingers like all my old promises and it will be hard to let go of what i said to myself about myself when i was sixteen and twenty-six and thirty-six even thirty-six but i am running into a new year and i beg what i love and i leave to forgive me

Always worth a post

31.12.2025 17:08 β€” πŸ‘ 547    πŸ” 209    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 6

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