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Knitter, singer, reader, rider of bikes in Hfx, NS. Mum to Pebble & Rex (not their real names.) ๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿšฒ๐Ÿ‡จ๐Ÿ‡ฆ (she/her) Reluctant urbanist (I love cities; I just wanna enjoy my life, not fight for it!)

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Flabbergasted is right. This should have been an urgent, next-day-fixed kind of thing. Iโ€™m sure itโ€™s fiddly and a pain, but this isnโ€™t a minor issue, and people WILL get hurt, or worse.

29.10.2025 19:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yep. Itโ€™s this weird, twisted idea that their unimpeded drive is more important than whether someone else continues breathing. Are other people REAL to you?

When I get annoyed while driving, I repeat to myself โ€œThere is nowhere I need to go that is more important than someone elseโ€™s life.โ€

29.10.2025 19:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Normal human reaction to someone nearly being struck by a vehicle: Thatโ€™s scary and terrible! I hope theyโ€™re okay. How could that happen?

Carbrain reaction: I hope that person who was nearly killed has insurance in case they *checks notes* scratch my car.

Sorry, WHAT?

29.10.2025 19:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I think thatโ€™s fair โ€” it is bizarre how poorly set up it is. But I am indignant that theyโ€™d assume the worst of the cyclist instead of approaching with curiosity as to how something could go so obviously wrong. I hate to ride around people with that perspective about someone being nearly killed.

29.10.2025 19:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 8    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

(Not to mention this light design is indeed murderous.)

29.10.2025 19:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yeah, the comments on that one are W I L D.

โ€œTHIS is why they should be licensed and insured!โ€

Really? Because they follow the rules of the road as designed? This is not the scofflaw example you think it is, Carbrain.

As always, it is terrifying to realize we share the road with these folks.

29.10.2025 19:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Really hoping to not get hit by a car this Halloween...

If you are considering driving on Halloween, DON'T. Stay home.

If you are going out on Halloween, BRING A FLASHLIGHT!

29.10.2025 18:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 36    ๐Ÿ” 4    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yep, very this.

28.10.2025 18:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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a woman in a white sweater says oh please in orange letters Alt: An older white woman with curly white hair (Betty White as Rose in The Golden Girls) sits back in her chair and folds her arms, tossing her head and rolling her eyes. Text: โ€œOh pleaseโ€

At least the women are aglow, smiling, and graceful.

28.10.2025 18:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is the best Halloween safety messaging Iโ€™ve seen in years!:

27.10.2025 22:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 31    ๐Ÿ” 6    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yeah, thatโ€™s definitely worth mentioning!

I keep activities restricted to followers, and use the privacy controls around my home and other sensitive locations. Itโ€™s not perfect, but I do like that the data can take into account trips like these, and not just weekend warrior road bike trips.

27.10.2025 15:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Always a mystery, usually resolved in the most disappointing ways. ๐Ÿ˜‚

27.10.2025 13:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A 6yo white girl is mid-swing on a playground jungle gym on a sunny Fall day. She is wearing her brown hair in two braids and has a purple and blue fleece hoodie and dark leggings, Converse All Stars on her feet.

A 6yo white girl is mid-swing on a playground jungle gym on a sunny Fall day. She is wearing her brown hair in two braids and has a purple and blue fleece hoodie and dark leggings, Converse All Stars on her feet.

Pebble, this weekend: Mom, if you were me youโ€™d be spectacular!

27.10.2025 13:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes! I filled out the request form for one some time ago (a month?) but havenโ€™t heard anything back. Might be because Iโ€™m Kingโ€™s staff, not Dal (some facilities/services are shared but not all), or perhaps because I was asking about a large cargo bike and thatโ€™s hard to accommodate.

27.10.2025 13:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I usually get the sound, but today I didnโ€™t. In our classroom today there was one person who got the sound two times, a few minutes after the rest of the class. ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ

27.10.2025 12:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Noticed this morning that Strava has added โ€œwith kidโ€ to the tags! (I canโ€™t find it right now but I had grumbled on here when they added โ€œwith petโ€ but no โ€œwith kid.โ€ Grumble withdrawn!)

27.10.2025 12:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 14    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Beat me to it! ๐Ÿ˜‚

27.10.2025 11:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Great! If you want closer, there are racks (staples, I think?) outside the Killam Library and the Student Union Building, which are probably plenty secure with a good lock, but more public.

Bonus of parking at Kingโ€™s is youโ€™re just steps away from @kingsbookstore.bsky.social ๐Ÿ˜‡

27.10.2025 11:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A map of the buildings and pathways near the intersection of Oxford St and Castine Way in Halifax, NS. There is a red star drawn over the spot the poster mentions.

A map of the buildings and pathways near the intersection of Oxford St and Castine Way in Halifax, NS. There is a red star drawn over the spot the poster mentions.

This isnโ€™t Dal campus, but right next door: The nook outside the NAB at Kingโ€™s has lots of bike parking (weird racks, tho) and IME seems to be very secure. Itโ€™s out of view if driving by, but lots of eyes on it from passersby.

27.10.2025 11:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

โ€œIf you live in a 15 minute city but your barista canโ€™t afford to live there too, you donโ€™t live in a 15 minute city, you live in a theme park.โ€œ

26.10.2025 06:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1948    ๐Ÿ” 487    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 17    ๐Ÿ“Œ 11
Groups of young children in casual attire ride bicycles along dedicated cycling infrastructure in a variety of cities in the Netherlands.

Groups of young children in casual attire ride bicycles along dedicated cycling infrastructure in a variety of cities in the Netherlands.

Groups of young children in casual attire ride bicycles along dedicated cycling infrastructure in a variety of cities in the Netherlands.

Groups of young children in casual attire ride bicycles along dedicated cycling infrastructure in a variety of cities in the Netherlands.

Groups of young children in casual attire ride bicycles along dedicated cycling infrastructure in a variety of cities in the Netherlands.

Groups of young children in casual attire ride bicycles along dedicated cycling infrastructure in a variety of cities in the Netherlands.

Groups of young children in casual attire ride bicycles along dedicated cycling infrastructure in a variety of cities in the Netherlands.

Groups of young children in casual attire ride bicycles along dedicated cycling infrastructure in a variety of cities in the Netherlands.

โ€œKids make mistakes. Kids get distracted. It's our responsibility when designing cities to think, what is that child's experience and how do I ensure what I'm doing will have a positive impact. as opposed to putting the burden on their caregiver to ensure they're safe.โ€

biketalk.org/2025/10/2541...

24.10.2025 14:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 120    ๐Ÿ” 39    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

Somehow both unsurprising and unbelievable.

21.10.2025 14:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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a man in a leather jacket and tie is saying cool cool cool cool cool cool cool Alt: A white man with short brown hair (Jake Peralta from Brooklyn 99) is wearing a black leather jacket and a bag over his shoulder. Heโ€™s looking around nervously in a confined space. Text: Cool, cool, cool, cool, cool, cool, cool, cool.
21.10.2025 12:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Wooo! #oneofus

21.10.2025 12:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So judgy.

21.10.2025 12:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

A coworker of mine lives in the area and went through just before this crash. She saw some of the emergency responders on their way. Incredibly tragic and sobering. No dry eyes here.

21.10.2025 12:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It is galling to me that we all have to engage in this trust exercise and a (growing?) number of folks are not even a little bit trustworthy!

21.10.2025 12:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Last turn before our driveway last night: I took the lane, signaled a left, and just as I was about the begin my turn a black SUV overtook me on the left.

In our car on Sat we were waiting to turn left at Bayers & Romans and someone passed us ON THE RIGHT to make a left turn IN FRONT OF US.

Wtf!

21.10.2025 11:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 9    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is so perfect. Yay!

20.10.2025 12:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Haha, I tried to think of a name that belonged to very few people these days. ๐Ÿ’€

20.10.2025 01:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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