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@autisticems.bsky.social

She/her β€’ 27 β€’ Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁒󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 β€’ mad, autistic and non-speaking β€’ Makaton and AAC user🌈

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Could you ask if it can be done another way? Surly that would count as a reasonable adjustment??

03.10.2025 15:13 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

She’s so cute

03.10.2025 15:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I feel like he is being mean and useless on purpose. Why is it so hard to get decent support from professionals??

03.10.2025 15:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

That’s true. I don’t think it can get any worse than this

03.10.2025 14:58 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A screenshot of an email. 

consequences will be that you will no support from next Friday.
There is no other support provider for you. 
As you are aware, l've been looking for support for you to fill the hours (care provider) couldn't do.
Just to confirm, (old care provider) will not pick up your support again.

You should make a plan about how your basic needs will be met when (care provider) stop (they may be flexible by a day or two if we tell them soon).

A screenshot of an email. consequences will be that you will no support from next Friday. There is no other support provider for you. As you are aware, l've been looking for support for you to fill the hours (care provider) couldn't do. Just to confirm, (old care provider) will not pick up your support again. You should make a plan about how your basic needs will be met when (care provider) stop (they may be flexible by a day or two if we tell them soon).

Part of an extremely shitty email from my social worker this morning. I hate him. He’s useless. How can I make my own plan for how my basic needs will be met if I’ve needed help with it my entire life???

03.10.2025 09:45 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I have no idea who his boss is and I’m worried that if I complain about him it’ll make things worse

03.10.2025 09:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I have no idea. He keeps repeating he has no duty of care. He’s awful

03.10.2025 04:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The manager of the new care company came to see me today to tell me they’re going to stop doing my care. I could tell that was going to happen so I’m not surprised. It just means I have no care at all. My social worker does not seem to care and isn’t doing anything about it

02.10.2025 21:33 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I also asked my social worker what would happen with my care after 1pm today and he told me there is no one to help. I’ve had no meds, no food, no care at all. He said it’s not his problem. He keeps saying he has no duty of care. Who does then? Why is it ok to go from lots of support to nothing?

29.09.2025 21:31 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Today has been awful. The student nurse walked out during my appointment and left me alone. I’m meant to be 1-1 when out my house and ended up having a big meltdown. My GP has put in a complaint but I don’t think the student nurse should’ve been put in that situation in the first place

29.09.2025 21:29 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I hope you get some rest and actual bed space to sleep!!

29.09.2025 21:22 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m really dreading today. There’s still no plan for my care. I have an appointment at the GPs later on. Social work is making a student MH nurse take me alone. I’m glad she can support me but she doesn’t know anything about me and she’s a student on placement! Seems a bit unfair on both of us

29.09.2025 06:25 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

That’s horrible. I’m so sorry

29.09.2025 06:04 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It doesn’t make any sense. He is one of the worst social workers I’ve ever had lol

27.09.2025 18:13 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It is!!

26.09.2025 20:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That’s what I thought and everyone else so I think he’s only saying this because he has no clue what he’s doing. Thank you πŸ’œ

26.09.2025 20:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Current care teams manager came to see me to tell me she was sorry it came to this and it wasn’t her decision. She also said my social worker is useless so I’m glad other people can see what he’s like

26.09.2025 17:56 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Lots has been happening.

- Ive been unwell. I had a bad fall too. GP thinks it’s bc of no morning meds.
- New carers still messing up.
- No one has been found to replace current carers so Monday I’ll have no care.
- My social worker told me the council said they don’t have a duty of care for me!!

26.09.2025 17:55 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s awful 😞

26.09.2025 17:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It makes me think that if they are this bad in my house what are they doing in other peoples houses? People that might not be able to say that things are wrong?

22.09.2025 13:53 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Today is the first day in ages that I got my morning meds and the rest of my support but only because one of my normal carers came in to do it in her own time. New carer sat in the kitchen on her phone the whole time which was annoying but what I expected

22.09.2025 13:53 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I hope you both have a relaxing and good time

22.09.2025 12:19 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I wish the mental health system was better. It’s not fair that you’re reaching out for help and getting nothing. Sending lots of hugs ❀️

22.09.2025 11:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

❀️

18.09.2025 20:41 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I don’t understand why an elder care company would take me on in the first place knowing my needs and my age! You’re right that they don’t care, It seems to be all about money. The social care system is a mess

18.09.2025 20:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My social worker is doing nothing. I’ve been emailing him and he’s ignoring all the issues. I had a GP appointment yesterday and she was emailing him about it but he kept saying to her that I’ve basically got to accept them or have nothing. I’m not getting the care I need though

18.09.2025 13:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ve had enough of the new carers getting everything wrong. They are still saying I’m refusing or declining my care which is not true at all they just aren’t communicating with me in the way I need. I’ve had no morning meds for about 6 days now because of this and I feel so unwell

18.09.2025 09:37 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Disabled people deserve more than the bare minimum to survive (not that many even get that)...

They deserve to have enough to try and find their best quality of life, to have support, and whatever they need to manage their health.

They deserve to be and feel safe.

17.09.2025 06:40 β€” πŸ‘ 396    πŸ” 112    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 4

I hope mischief gets better soon. The flowers are lovely

17.09.2025 17:29 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

You do matter and you are important. Services are awful and im so sorry they’re treating you so badly. It really isn’t right or fair

17.09.2025 00:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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