Yeah, I had to stop going to my doctors about 5yrs ago. The copay for each specialist was hundreds of dollars, with insurance. Just couldn't creative finance my way out of it.
07.11.2025 19:52 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0@grief-enduring.bsky.social
Rebuilding from betrayal. Queer. Married. GenX. Mom of kids & cats. Volunteer. Disabled. Mouse. Theatre kid just trying to make sense of middle age. Beautys in the eye of the beholder. The rest of the party is in it's stomach. Support #MutualAid #AltText
Yeah, I had to stop going to my doctors about 5yrs ago. The copay for each specialist was hundreds of dollars, with insurance. Just couldn't creative finance my way out of it.
07.11.2025 19:52 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Read a few days ago that more people are getting their news from Heather Cox Richardson than some large legacy media, and gee, guess who's still on Substack while talking about fascism and Nazis.
Her subscribers got the same swastikas as everyone else, is she leaving? nah.
#SubstackHasANaziProblem
When I was 13 I went to church. During the homily, the priest went on & on that we must sacrifice for the (Catholic) church. If it was btwn putting food on the table & tithing the church, we were to tithe: "god will provide." I walked out & never been back. Now you know why Rs are ok w/ppl starving.
07.11.2025 17:05 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I wish there was a safety net for all of us falling thru the cracks. Those of us that can't get SNAP, but can't afford food. Those of us that can't get med assist, but can't afford to go to docs or afford their meds. We're here too, starving, suffering, & dying. Who's looking out for us? #disability
07.11.2025 16:55 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Our monthly budget is: pay bills, hopefully eat. And that's it.
07.11.2025 16:43 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0I have been in an unending Lupus flare since January. It keeps getting worse. I've dropped 40lbs in the last few months that I wasn't trying & can't afford to lose.
07.11.2025 16:35 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0My apologies.
07.11.2025 16:15 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Unemployment? They consider themselves essential workers whether they actually do any work or not. They get full pay and benefits during the shutdown, even during their 6+ week vacation. They all need to be thrown out for abandonment of duty.
07.11.2025 16:11 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Screenshot of the top of a Bsky feed, with a red circle around the hamburger menu in the top left.
Wondering why no one likes your posts anymore, even among your friends? It's because @jay.bsky.team and team have decided to hide a huge amount of content from all of our feeds by default.
Here's how to turn it off.
First go to the hamburger menu in the upper left corner
my eyes. Same abusive language, same sneer, same glee in her eyes when an insult hit. I'm done. It's not safe w/her in the house so I'll be remaining in my room until the 1st. Still don't know how we'll pay bills in Dec but she's dead to me as of today. No friends & now no family. It has to be me.
07.11.2025 00:50 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 030 day notice. This is after we depleted our savings to convert our upstairs into a living space for her. Today she was having a bad day at work & decided to pick a fight. To which I told her multiple times I wasn't discussing it. So she went for blood. She turned into my mother right in front of
07.11.2025 00:48 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Well, the last member of my family just burned our relationship to an ember. I went NC w/my abusive narc mom after my dad died. My bro & I have never had a relationship. My sister was my best friend. Was. After screwing us by leaving 5mo into what was supposed to be a perm living situation, w/a
07.11.2025 00:46 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0There is way too much brains and beauty in one picture of one family. Share with the rest of us!! π
06.11.2025 21:09 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0If my phone goes, I'll be completely cut off from the rest of the world. That's not an over exaggeration either, I only have contact w/ppl online. No phone & it's me & these 4 walls. I'm so fucking tired. Everything is a fight & I have no fight left.
06.11.2025 20:03 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0My laptop just died.
I'm going to sit here and hysterically laugh/cry. Everything is breaking & there's no way to replace any of it. PC died a few years ago, no more video games for me. Laptop died, that's all my craft stuff. 1/2 my phone screen doesn't work most the time, no $ to replace that.
Oh look! If we compare two different things, they come out with different prices! Fucking genius.
06.11.2025 19:52 β π 1 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0So after being online for a couple of minutes, I can determine something happened in the Oval Office today. That's all I can tell because not a single image posted, even by professional journalists, contains #AltText. So not only do I have no idea who is in the pic but there's NO context #disability
06.11.2025 19:46 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0It might be an incredible picture if it had alt text.
06.11.2025 18:20 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0She lacks the depth and the warmth.
05.11.2025 14:57 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Thank you NYC. I really needed that little glimmer of hope today. While I'm still trapped in the Bible belt, it makes me happy to see other places fighting back. I hope to escape to somewhere safer, but until then, I'm just glad to find something positive somewhere.
05.11.2025 07:25 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0this is a reminder that we dont have to settle for newsom in 2028
05.11.2025 02:44 β π 18623 π 4865 π¬ 224 π 190My SO just played me Katy Perry's bumper sticker song, Roar sung by a band from Austria that sound like a bunch of angry Russians. I'm in love with it.
The band is Russkaja and they describe their music as "Russian turbo polka metal." I'm totally sold.
They also have a cover of Wake Me Up.
The thought of Cuomo actually winning is just so depressing.
04.11.2025 22:39 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Why is it I've only ever seen men wearing those shirts?
04.11.2025 21:33 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0You know the lawyers have to be like, this is what I have endless student loans for? A projectile sandwich.
We are not a serious country.
A total aside, but I love the fact that Tom Hanks still takes the subway.
04.11.2025 21:27 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0thank you for the outpouring of support!
those of us laid off from Teen Vogue yesterday are now sharing our GoFundMe to help us cover our emergency expenses now that we've lost our incomes, as we get back on our feet.
Omg. I think our NFH is being evicted. He's been extra loud and pissy today, but he's brought his trailer to the house three times, hoping he's packing. Owner of the house was over there earlier, too. Oh, please, please let him be gone. I haven't slept well in over a year.
04.11.2025 20:43 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Hi if youβre working for justice and striving for a better world you can do one small but hugely impactful thing: WEAR A MASK WHEN YOU GO TO VOTE
You will protect yourself and you will also protect all the vulnerable people around you who are literally risking their lives to make their voices count
I want to be extremely fucking clear that you donβt get world-class writing and reporting on marginalized communities without HIRING MEMBERS OF THOSE COMMUNITIES TO DO IT
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