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English teacher, former HOD, in the state sector. Probably fulfilling many associated stereotypes.

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Exquisite glass filled with roses in 1640, by Jacob van Hulsdonck. His day is today.

05.08.2025 13:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 99    ๐Ÿ” 21    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Went on a walk today which involved a climb of about 1200ft.

Phone thinks I have done "0 floors". Phone can fuck off.

05.08.2025 16:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I mean, Disney doesn't appeal to me as any kind of prospect, let alone one with students!

05.08.2025 16:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Beating a guy with his arm in a sling was really poor from India, very disrespectful, a tear rolls down the face of the beautiful game.

04.08.2025 10:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 45    ๐Ÿ” 6    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Being on holiday in the UK, having a slow morning and watching a bit of Lorraine/Good Morning is such a fun brief insight into a world I don't inhabit at all.

04.08.2025 08:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Songs in the key of life!!!

Also, Blue.

04.08.2025 08:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My uncle lived in a seaside town and when he died we had to stay in one of these before his funeral. It added a very odd atmosphere to the stay.

03.08.2025 20:16 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We're lying in a hotel room listening.

I've had to delay meeting up with our friend.

03.08.2025 16:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Meant to add in *averagely attractive

03.08.2025 08:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Obviously this is one example but my competent, attractive friend got divorced and went on the apps for the first time and he was INUNDATED.

03.08.2025 08:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Membership FAQ | National Education Union Everything you need to know about becoming a member of the NEU.

I think it depends. The NEU (my union) say they can't.

neu.org.uk/join-neu/mem...

02.08.2025 21:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Is it not also based on what are the assumed responses to rejection? Women are rejected and sit at home, sad but men are rejected and become (greater) threats to society?

02.08.2025 20:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 14    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And if you aren't a member of a union yet*, join a fucking union.

*but you can be

02.08.2025 20:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Things that are infinitely nicer if someone's made them for you: toast, cocktails, bacon sandwiches.

Things that are nicer if you've made them: basic pasta with your choice of cheese and butter, batch-cooked lunches for the week, salads.

02.08.2025 17:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You *might* have some, in certain circles, if you're Northern.

02.08.2025 17:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And yet, in my mind, most 'hobbies' are traditionally male - diy, photography (as you said), excessively fancy cooking, cars.

I wonder what changed?

02.08.2025 17:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Graphic designer surely higher nowadays?

(Inbetween 1 and 2 for me - public sector so only 1 TV and holidays in Wales for us)

02.08.2025 16:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Like many, I'm a fan of holiday-appropriate reading.

So for a week in a countryside cottage: James Rebanks' English Pastoral and Sylvia Townsend Warner's The Corner that Held Them.

02.08.2025 16:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Did this in Estonia. It was snowing heavily.

When leaving the wider airport area, we (my partner) drove up the wrong side of the road...

02.08.2025 07:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This is where we should remember the 'could you win a fight with insert wild animal here' poll.

01.08.2025 18:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes! We have discovered this on road trips. So many bangers.

01.08.2025 15:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Further thinking - people who leave out MM are always people who only watched a couple of eps of S1 and think it's all style over substance.

01.08.2025 08:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Supplementary q - should Wolf Hall (and others) be in a separate list as they are adaptations of preexisting work?

In WH's case particularly, Mantel had done so much of the groundwork there.

01.08.2025 08:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I think what you say about competition is very relevant but I also feel it's v much built into wider life alongside wealth - who is the healthiest? Fittest? Best cook?

Your comment on dating inboxes rings v true.

My now husband opened with a q about my top 3 vicars in Jane Austen.

01.08.2025 08:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 47    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 4    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's one of those that you can do a full rematch or just dip into an ep (or 5) and it still works perfectly.

It's also a) funny and b) not about crime.

01.08.2025 07:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

'Shall we go to Paris, darling?'

'Er, we went last year...'

'...'

31.07.2025 20:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Not quite as bad but my 'Your next watch' is nearly always things that I've already watched.

31.07.2025 20:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

We bought a dvd player and are building up a dvd collection from Cex and would def recommend!

31.07.2025 20:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

As an occasional Toast customer, agree with the point about creating a lifestyle vibe to buy into. Their dresses are like lots of things in Cos - worth trying on. Lots of people also size down for a more fitted shape (and want a below the knee length).

31.07.2025 19:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Burglar Bill was the fave in our house.

"I'll 'ave that!"

31.07.2025 18:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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