Justin Hancock

A whopping £75 discount if you book by the end of December!

British socialists have become too used to making excuses for the flaws and shortcomings of our leaders. Look at this. This is the standard. We deserve this every bit as much as New York does.

Yeah I've gone right off it

Absolutely shocking pronunciation of 'Reims' just now by Amol Rajan on University Challenge

RSE often gets stuck in unhelpful binaries of: healthy / unhealthy; mind / body; nature / nurture; risk / pleasure; sex negative / sex positive In this course we will learn how to overcoming these binaries by making RSE 'a becoming' (and why that's important) A 10 module 5 / 6 training course covering: culture and RSE, 'the self', gender, sexuality, relationships, consent, sex, the sex we see, bodies, and fantasy / desire All facilitated by me, Justin Hancock, with over 25 years experience For more details, or to book your place email me (or DM me) justin at bishtraining dot com 2nd, 3rd, 9th, 10th, 16th, 17th March 2026 (Mondays and Tuesdays) 10am – 4.30pm UK time. Via Zoom. £750 Book before 31st December for a 10% discount

RSE often gets stuck in unhelpful binaries of: healthy / unhealthy; mind / body; nature / nurture; risk / pleasure; sex negative / sex positive

In this course we will learn how to overcoming these binaries by
making RSE 'a becoming' (and why that's important)

We can’t be a success or a failure because these states don’t exist on their own and they aren’t fixed either. So instead of No Nut November, it might be Fewer Nuts November. And yes, that’s a lot less fun sounding, but it’s more helpful.

To see yourself as a success or a failure fixes you in a mindset where you are one thing or another. It’s okay to be in the middle and someone who just keeps correcting themselves and adjusting course. Also remember that we are always changing and our ‘selves’ are always in a state of becoming....

Tips for No Nut November Learn more about No Nut November, how you can do it without being a dick, and some tips on how to get through a long long month!

My problem with abstinence models like #NoNutNovember is that as soon as you nut, that’s it, game over. If you are wanting to cut down how much you masturbate or if you are wanting to have a better relationship it and you then I don’t think it helps. #NNN

www.bishuk.com/sex/tips-for...

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Dr Eddie 'Fitz' Fitzpatrick saying "most patients tend to need more than just the one session" Cracker Season 3 Episode 6

No. Best £50 I've ever spent.

"I was a bit skeptical tbh, but one session was able to shift my mindset completely."

"I feel that I have benefited so much from our session! I left it feeling so moved, and with much more confidence about listening to my own body and wants and leaning in to that."
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justinhancock.co.uk#coaching

Also Cracker is really good and still stands up

Subtext is, I'm never going to make any money doing something genuinely useful (but I'll keep trying anyway)

Dr Eddie 'Fitz' Fitzpatrick saying "most patients tend to need more than just the one session" Cracker Season 3 Episode 6

No. Best £50 I've ever spent.

"I was a bit skeptical tbh, but one session was able to shift my mindset completely."

"I feel that I have benefited so much from our session! I left it feeling so moved, and with much more confidence about listening to my own body and wants and leaning in to that."
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justinhancock.co.uk#coaching

Understandable!

I love that show!

Support Thousands of young people visit here everyday to get answers about sex and relationships. Be a part of BISH and help keep this vital resource free and available for everyone. Over the years I’ve had a...

This is all entirely self/crowd funded. Please get involved if you can

www.bishuk.com/support/

Look, I said don't fight me on this! 😂

(thank you for your kind words 😊)

Tips for No Nut November Learn more about No Nut November, how you can do it without being a dick, and some tips on how to get through a long long month!

It's been November for 36 hours and I've forgotten to post this. I'm so sorry #NNN folk. Here I critique the assumptions and motivations of NNN (often v v bad) but also (crucially) give lots of very good advice about how to do it (or something else). #NoNut

www.bishuk.com/sex/tips-for...

That's v helpful, thanks

Interesting. So another well funded platform which relies on free labour to generate funding

2024 Net assets without donor restrictions: Support and revenue: Contributions of cash and other financial assets: $168,212,977. Contributions of nonfinancial assets and services: $263,476. Foreign currency losses ($300,907). Other income, net: $5,629,773. Investment income, net: $5,096,842. Release of net assets with donor restrictions: $6,481,350. Total support and revenue: $185,383,511. Operating expenses: Salaries and benefits: $106,793,960. Awards and grants: $26,820,080. Internet hosting: $3,116,445. In-kind service expenses: $263,476. Donation processing expenses: $7,547,718. Professional service expenses: $13,090,040. Other operating expenses: $10,798,140. Travel and conferences: $5,824,979. Depreciation and amortization: $4,216,271. Total operating expenses: $178,471,109.

if you want 58% of your donation to be spent on salaries and benefits, sure, go ahead. but the lights are not going to go off any time soon when the Wikimedia Foundation has $82m in pure cash and their internet hosting costs are $3m a year. they spend almost twice that on travel and conferences

Oh that's what that is! Very good!

Elon Musk’s Grokipedia is a major own goal Humans might be highly imperfect and biased but they are still better than AI at getting to the truth

If you have it, you should probably chip in a couple of quid to Wikipedia.

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Ask Justin: Opening Back Up to Sub Bottom Dynamic Stream Ask Justin: Opening Back Up to Sub Bottom Dynamic by Culture Sex Relationships on desktop and mobile. Play over 320 million tracks for free on SoundCloud.

Gosh, this one is popular for some reason. 55 minutes of advice, with solution focused (SFBT) prompts on how to deal with trauma, that you might find helpful.

m.soundcloud.com/culturesexre...

Ask Justin: Opening Back Up to Sub Bottom Dynamic Stream Ask Justin: Opening Back Up to Sub Bottom Dynamic by Culture Sex Relationships on desktop and mobile. Play over 320 million tracks for free on SoundCloud.

Gosh, this one is popular for some reason. 55 minutes of advice, with solution focused (SFBT) prompts on how to deal with trauma, that you might find helpful.

m.soundcloud.com/culturesexre...

New podcast (for adults) is out now. My advice for someone wanting to get back into sub/bottom dynamic after a big sexual trauma. You can see all of them here, get extra shows and resources at the Patreon, or listen wherever you get your podcasts. *****

soundcloud.com/culturesexre...

"The answer to this is to turn a weapon into a tool.... If every time we pick our phone up we will learn something, or connect with someone, or do something helpful, or to have a genuine belly laugh, or find something truly beautiful then it’s a tool."

www.bishuk.com/relationship...

Spotify and Netflix perfected the business of distraction — and now we’re paying the price Music and film open us up to new ways of seeing the world — but the streaming giants offer lonely visions of culture

"These companies are in the business of distraction. They benefit when their subscribers consume what they’re fed uncritically."

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The News Agents • @newsagents... • 25m "Nigel Farage doesn't want to be in the burqa chat. He doesn't want to be in the racist chat, he wants to make the party appear more mainstream. "But it is very helpful for him, and for the party, to have somebody that is pushing at the door of racism" www.thenewsagents.co.uk/article/is-r...

Nigel Farage is an always was a cats paw for the British press, who specifically recruited him to push at the door of racism. Without them and their years of active, self-interested promotion, he is still just some dickhead addressing Rotary clubs.

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