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Professor of psychology and psychoanalytic psychotherapist in private practice. Canadian citizen abroad.

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"Industrial bread" is an apt phrase. I had a friend whose mother, emigrating to Canada from Wales, called supermarket bread "UWR": Useless White Rubbish.

08.02.2026 17:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Same for therapy propagandists who ritually call their brand, and theirs alone, 'evidence based'.

08.02.2026 02:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Dear God does it ever. How about having to have a "committee on shared governance" just to co-ordinate all the administrative/procedural nonsense?

07.02.2026 20:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

As an academic subjected to years of unbelievably wasteful meetings, I can totally confirm.

07.02.2026 20:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My Glaswegian grandfather was for a time a butcher so perhaps I come by my carnivorous bloodthirstiness honestly.

07.02.2026 02:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Boneless wings are just chicken nuggets.

07.02.2026 02:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ooh, "tarring" has a venerable vintage if I remember my early American history.

04.02.2026 21:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You look so relaxed--that's great to see! I hope you're enjoying yourself.

04.02.2026 21:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

"Justifiable political invective"? Bit wordy. What else would work?

04.02.2026 19:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes and certain clinicians can actually make psychopaths worse

03.02.2026 00:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Why does that not surprise me?!

02.02.2026 21:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My high-school French teacher, who openly smoked in the classroom in violation of all the rules, and fancied himself an unrepentant soixante-huitard (was he really in Paris for the protests?? he was always a bit evasive...), would say blood-curdling things knowing we'd never repeat them.

02.02.2026 21:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

What Melanie Klein would have called guilt-induced "manic repair."

02.02.2026 00:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This puts me in mind of perhaps my favourite of Adam Phillips's books, *Missing Out*, where he asks us to imagine what it would be like to focus on living the life we have now with its quiet, unshowy quotidian duties & experiences, & without pining for a romanticized version of some other life.

31.01.2026 20:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yeah same. So I've been asking myself this week about how and when to stay off my phone, or whether to delete social media.

30.01.2026 17:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I did a Bangladesh beef curry recently after a friend showed me how and it is so easy and delicious, especially if you serve it with parathas, which I'm now addicted to.

30.01.2026 17:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Carney--as radical as that Bay Street lawyer John Turner circa 1988.

29.01.2026 13:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Needs must!

28.01.2026 22:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I knew Kenney slightly in the late 90s when we were both in Ottawa and even then his disdain for separatists was very real.

28.01.2026 13:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Comtรฉ works equally well I think.

28.01.2026 01:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Recipe you can share?

28.01.2026 01:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sherry, Marsala, or Madeira all work well.

27.01.2026 04:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I vote we import a couple of choirs composed of Welsh miners. There's something about Welsh male singing I find incredibly uplifting.

27.01.2026 02:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes. It's been nearly 13 months of witnessing relentless moral injury and I think mourning and melancholia (inter alia) are the daily results many of us feel.

26.01.2026 22:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Do you put booze in it? What cheese do you use?

26.01.2026 03:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My grandmother taught me at age 12 and like you I remain forever grateful. I am always astonished by people who can't cook or who find it intimidating.

26.01.2026 02:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Exactly! And Freud was publishing about trauma in 1895 ffs.

26.01.2026 02:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

'Activate' is helpful because I now just refuse to use 'trigger' so thanks for this.

I'm also avoiding 'trauma' for the same reasons and so substitute the literal Greek translation of 'wound.'

25.01.2026 23:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Totally correct. SSB was one of the first things I learned to play on the piano and then I turned to other anthems and had a Sesame Street moment: 'one of these things is not like the other!'

25.01.2026 23:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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