"Industrial bread" is an apt phrase. I had a friend whose mother, emigrating to Canada from Wales, called supermarket bread "UWR": Useless White Rubbish.
08.02.2026 17:07 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0@adamdeville.bsky.social
Professor of psychology and psychoanalytic psychotherapist in private practice. Canadian citizen abroad.
"Industrial bread" is an apt phrase. I had a friend whose mother, emigrating to Canada from Wales, called supermarket bread "UWR": Useless White Rubbish.
08.02.2026 17:07 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Same for therapy propagandists who ritually call their brand, and theirs alone, 'evidence based'.
08.02.2026 02:23 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Dear God does it ever. How about having to have a "committee on shared governance" just to co-ordinate all the administrative/procedural nonsense?
07.02.2026 20:04 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0As an academic subjected to years of unbelievably wasteful meetings, I can totally confirm.
07.02.2026 20:03 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0My Glaswegian grandfather was for a time a butcher so perhaps I come by my carnivorous bloodthirstiness honestly.
07.02.2026 02:48 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Boneless wings are just chicken nuggets.
07.02.2026 02:09 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Ooh, "tarring" has a venerable vintage if I remember my early American history.
04.02.2026 21:58 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0You look so relaxed--that's great to see! I hope you're enjoying yourself.
04.02.2026 21:55 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0"Justifiable political invective"? Bit wordy. What else would work?
04.02.2026 19:01 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Yes and certain clinicians can actually make psychopaths worse
03.02.2026 00:04 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Why does that not surprise me?!
02.02.2026 21:50 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0My high-school French teacher, who openly smoked in the classroom in violation of all the rules, and fancied himself an unrepentant soixante-huitard (was he really in Paris for the protests?? he was always a bit evasive...), would say blood-curdling things knowing we'd never repeat them.
02.02.2026 21:46 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0What Melanie Klein would have called guilt-induced "manic repair."
02.02.2026 00:43 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0This puts me in mind of perhaps my favourite of Adam Phillips's books, *Missing Out*, where he asks us to imagine what it would be like to focus on living the life we have now with its quiet, unshowy quotidian duties & experiences, & without pining for a romanticized version of some other life.
31.01.2026 20:14 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Yeah same. So I've been asking myself this week about how and when to stay off my phone, or whether to delete social media.
30.01.2026 17:40 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I did a Bangladesh beef curry recently after a friend showed me how and it is so easy and delicious, especially if you serve it with parathas, which I'm now addicted to.
30.01.2026 17:38 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Carney--as radical as that Bay Street lawyer John Turner circa 1988.
29.01.2026 13:02 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Needs must!
28.01.2026 22:26 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I knew Kenney slightly in the late 90s when we were both in Ottawa and even then his disdain for separatists was very real.
28.01.2026 13:51 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Comtรฉ works equally well I think.
28.01.2026 01:44 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Recipe you can share?
28.01.2026 01:38 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Sherry, Marsala, or Madeira all work well.
27.01.2026 04:31 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0I vote we import a couple of choirs composed of Welsh miners. There's something about Welsh male singing I find incredibly uplifting.
27.01.2026 02:42 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Yes. It's been nearly 13 months of witnessing relentless moral injury and I think mourning and melancholia (inter alia) are the daily results many of us feel.
26.01.2026 22:41 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Do you put booze in it? What cheese do you use?
26.01.2026 03:18 โ ๐ 6 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0My grandmother taught me at age 12 and like you I remain forever grateful. I am always astonished by people who can't cook or who find it intimidating.
26.01.2026 02:48 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Exactly! And Freud was publishing about trauma in 1895 ffs.
26.01.2026 02:42 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0'Activate' is helpful because I now just refuse to use 'trigger' so thanks for this.
I'm also avoiding 'trauma' for the same reasons and so substitute the literal Greek translation of 'wound.'
Totally correct. SSB was one of the first things I learned to play on the piano and then I turned to other anthems and had a Sesame Street moment: 'one of these things is not like the other!'
25.01.2026 23:37 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0