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random thoughts on bikes, cities, and parenting little kids. Get your flu shot St Paul, MN

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Started our staff meeting this week reflecting on the murder of Alex Pretti and then many of us shared the work we are doing to contribute to mutual aid. Database will just corroborate that I guess??

28.01.2026 02:48 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

100%

27.01.2026 19:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Can we add an SOS under this ?

26.01.2026 20:52 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Daycare was closed and it was too cold to be outside with a toddler. Watched a live feed from home and talked to kids about the right to protest ✊

24.01.2026 03:02 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Yes of course, sorry wasn’t clear. Extra baggage for being attached to Southern Baptist convention is maybe what I meant? I have extra negative view of that group

20.01.2026 18:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A note that church is southern Baptist not evangelical. Those of us who grew up in the world , small differences
I live near by, debating a protest outside on Sunday AM

20.01.2026 18:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Will start brainstorming my protest sign I guess

20.01.2026 03:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Is this been announced? Or just your theory? Live in the neighborhood and want to be ready

20.01.2026 03:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ve connected a lot of people to social networks that normally do not engage in activism. I think it has woken up a lot of the white people to fight a bit harder for what we have in MN. Hope it lasts

17.01.2026 17:59 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Starting the day in a federal occupation and way too hot to deal with fucking PBM rep reading me names of other medications my kid could try, like she knows fuck all about treating kids with asthma.

16.01.2026 15:18 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Spending my morning on phone with insurance, doc, pharmacy trying to get fucking PBM to cover the asthma med my kid needs. Generic in stock, that isn't covered. Name brand, out of stock, covered. Risking asthma attack and possible hospital to honor their agreement with some drug company.

16.01.2026 15:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Above all, I want everyone who led us to this point to be held accountable in such a way that it is CENTURIES before someone thinks to try it again.

14.01.2026 16:11 β€” πŸ‘ 902    πŸ” 114    πŸ’¬ 14    πŸ“Œ 3

The message from the White House this morning is that, once again, it falls on ordinary American citizens to remain calm and professional when dealing with the heavily armed agents of the government because they are very emotional and might fly off into a murderous rage at the slightest insult.

11.01.2026 15:19 β€” πŸ‘ 24696    πŸ” 7338    πŸ’¬ 769    πŸ“Œ 325

Yeah and they just left it there, blocking snelling after abducting driver

11.01.2026 21:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Happy to report the 3yo reminisced several times today about how much fun we had at Tator Tot Time 😊πŸ₯”

11.01.2026 00:33 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This week we found out radiator pipes can have micro leaks at joints when hot that reseal with mineral deposits as they cool and then never come back . Random puddle in basement , has not happened before or again. Good stuff

10.01.2026 19:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A cute kid story to end this crappy week. I took my 3yo to the community center for free "tot time" since his daycare is closed (because of ICE). He got super excited when he saw where we were and yelled "Yay tator tot time! I love going to tator tot time"

09.01.2026 21:09 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

So if Minneapolis schools are closed tomorrow, how much of a target does that make St. Paul (or other suburbs) tomorrow? Asking as parent of a kid who attends a majority nonwhite school that is about 100 feet from Minneapolis border 😭 I don’t want to live in this fucking timeline

08.01.2026 03:40 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Same. Felt very much like no one ran that script by someone outside Hollywood

02.01.2026 03:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I was very young when my grandmother died of ALS but I remember the ensure cans in her pantry. Liquid calories kept her from hospitalization, and allowed her to stay with family

31.12.2025 17:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

For the record, urgent care visit confirmed her cold symptoms were Influenza A. If you think you have any runny nose, cough, or aches, just assume
you have the flu. Stay home

30.12.2025 03:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Go buy a rapid flu covid test and keep it on hand. Trying to navigate sickness with family up north during a blizzard and having some tests on hand at their home would really help figure out plans tomorrow 😩

29.12.2025 03:22 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Thanks. Did Google, was overwhelmed by options and wide range of prices.

24.12.2025 14:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I did not know they made these in mini sizes! Where did you get this? I have a friend who loves hand pan YouTube for her concentration music

24.12.2025 14:24 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

St. Paul doesn’t have sidewalk inventory or priorities. They would need to do much needed inventory work before taking on municipal clearing. Their sidewalk maintenance and repair , outside of full reconstruction , is ad hoc and questionable decision making.

15.12.2025 01:04 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

These therapies are miracles. My youngest was an infant the yr before these were approved. He would have died from RSV w/o hospitalization. They also reduce burden on the hospitals and clinics immensely during cold/flu season.

The birth rate is too low! (instantly tries to kill a bunch of babies)

09.12.2025 17:23 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

We have staff with little kids, one that is just coming off surgery and is using crutches. Also a handful of us still mask in office and don’t eat indoors, yet the only departmental activity is eating in a tight basement space the week before Christmas/ holidays. πŸ‘Ž

09.12.2025 15:04 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Nothing says β€œI appreciate my staff” like refusing to reschedule the annual pizza party, and telling staff they have to commute in during a storm tomorrow. Also assumes everyone is able to trudge thru snow and that no one has kids who might need picking up on time. I feel morale lifting already!

09.12.2025 14:47 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I don’t feel like I’ve changed much since college but my 3yo just stared at a photo of me at college grad and insisted no one looked familiar. Me- β€œDoes that look like mommy?” 3yo - β€œNo. Who is this??”
Humbled

08.12.2025 13:45 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I hope surgery is successful and you are feeling better soon πŸ’–

03.12.2025 23:01 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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