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@changv.bsky.social

Survivor. Feminist. Social justice. Human rights. Love animals, nature and the arts. Gen X. Mostly at the window watching the late afternoon light.

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16.09.2025 17:03 β€” πŸ‘ 10462    πŸ” 4345    πŸ’¬ 150    πŸ“Œ 364

Go for it, English xenophobe.

12.10.2025 16:42 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

He's not English you cretin. He's Greek. Why do you have a problem with that?

12.10.2025 16:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Thank you for sharing and for helping Cowlyd. You're so kind. Just shows what a little love and care and perseverance can do. Beautiful, heartwarming story. ❀️

05.10.2025 10:41 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love airports and travelling alone. I feel like it's the only time I feel completely free.

28.09.2025 13:15 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Anyone living and working in the country now, illegally, is ignoring the rules so they'll ignore Digital ID too. Meanwhile citizens and legal residents are forced to get Digital ID which many are not comfortable with. There's a big problem with the process at point of entry into the country.

28.09.2025 12:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

What the UK is proposing is different to what many EU countries have. From what I've seen people aren't comfortable with the mandatory element nor the digital element. I can't see how their current proposal will tackle illegal immigration. Countries that have ID cards still have that same problem.

28.09.2025 11:46 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Typical abuser. If I do a bad thing and you have the gall to react to that bad thing, it's war! NATO needs to show Russia they will not put up with this gaslighty, abusive bullshit.

25.09.2025 16:43 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œWhat I've spent years in trauma therapy dealing with isn't the original harassment. It's everything that came afterwards," Lindsey Boylan told me.

Thank you for this incredibly important piece on surviving and survivors @chloenazra.bsky.social

24.09.2025 13:42 β€” πŸ‘ 450    πŸ” 109    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 10

I don't understand, I think you got the wrong end of the stick. I have nothing but empathy for bipolar people.

14.09.2025 15:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Of course they're not but they can co-exist.

14.09.2025 15:12 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

What you quoted was a response to somebody who said bipolar people are more likely to be victims than perpetrators and I was just pointing out that my abuser wasn't a victim, he was a perpetrator. That's my personal experience.

14.09.2025 15:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

He was bipolar but many other things too. An addict, a narcissist, an abuser. He was a perpetrator of abuse. Against me. Him being bipolar is like a tiny little speck. It's irrelevant to me really. It's not why he abused me. I have empathy for him still, even after everything he did.

14.09.2025 15:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I replied to somebody else who brought up Depp's bipolar that's why it became part of the discussion. I wouldn't have mentioned it otherwise. Then you and someone else entered the chat..

14.09.2025 14:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Because it's not my job to help you with this. I don't owe you my time. Do it yourself if it actually means something to you.

14.09.2025 14:39 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

If you really care about this research it. Everything is available online. I can try to link some stuff for you in a bit but I have to prepare dinner. I don't want to get into arguments online but this is a case very close to my heart so I get wound up when people who know little about it comment.

14.09.2025 14:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Well you're wrong.

14.09.2025 14:23 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

They did claim it and it was proven but do your own research.

14.09.2025 14:22 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I don't believe at all that neurodiverse people are all abusers. I never said that.

14.09.2025 14:21 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1

What?

14.09.2025 14:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

What?? You serious?

14.09.2025 14:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It came out in the unsealed documents Depp's photos were edited. His bodyguard admitted on the stand the photo he submitted was actually sent to him by Depp's lawyers. The dates were all wrong. All of this info is available online. Do your research.

14.09.2025 14:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

You have proved you know zero about the case.

14.09.2025 13:57 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0

She admitted to defending herself.

14.09.2025 13:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

What scratches and bruises? The ones all over her face?

14.09.2025 13:52 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Commenting on cases concerning abuse that you admittedly don't know much about is dangerous. That's the problem.

14.09.2025 13:50 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

The lack of accountability lies at Depp's feet, not Amber Heard's. He took no accountability for his actions. Amber did.

14.09.2025 13:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

If you haven't strongly looked into the case you shouldn't comment on it. I know that case inside out and Depp is no victim. My own experience of domestic abuse pretty much mirrors Amber's so I clocked it immediately. My ex was bipolar too and certainly not a victim but a perpetrator.

14.09.2025 13:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Depp on the otherhand was taking medication for Bipolar, is a known drug addict and has a long history of violence and rage. Amber was reacting to the world she was living in. It was toxic but living in an environment like that will turn you into someone you don't recognise.

14.09.2025 13:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 1

Amber Heard has never been diagnosed with NPD and the quack who said she had BPD+HPD signed a paper diagnosing her a year before she had even met Amber. When asked about it on the stand she feigned ignorance. She wasn't even board certified, had no experience in DV and is friends with Depp's lawyer.

14.09.2025 13:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

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