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@stephandhercats.bsky.social

Chronic illness collector inc fibromyalgia, hEDS, spinal injury, ME, long covid. Love my cats more than people, reading, music, family. Spoonie life sucks! (New profile after massive phone&identity hack)

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I adored this book too. Heโ€™s such a unique writer and so many life wisdoms in there as always with his books

14.02.2026 19:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

13.02.2026 17:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sounds horrid. Not much better here. Hope you can rest after physio and long bus travel xx

09.02.2026 18:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Cat nurses are the best

08.02.2026 08:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Great action shot!

06.02.2026 16:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

06.02.2026 16:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Two important things:
1) after tomorrow the sun will not set before 5pm again in the UKโ€ฆuntil October
2) if youโ€™re struggling just now *please* be kind to yourself

05.02.2026 21:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 549    ๐Ÿ” 94    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 15    ๐Ÿ“Œ 3

Me too. Itโ€™s the toughest thing. We were told in August he had pancreatic cancer and in Sept that it had spread and was terminal but we are very grateful that heโ€™s remarkably still here and enjoying life. I hope youโ€™ve get lots longer with your lovelies

05.02.2026 23:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So sorry and totally feel your fear and pain while I look after my terminally ill ginger lad

05.02.2026 19:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
IMAGE DESCRIPTION: Photo of someone looking at the sick spoons website on a laptop. Graphic of a spoon. Heading - Sick Spoons. Track your daily energy levels using Spoon Theory.

IMAGE DESCRIPTION: Photo of someone looking at the sick spoons website on a laptop. Graphic of a spoon. Heading - Sick Spoons. Track your daily energy levels using Spoon Theory.

1/3: What is Sick Spoons?

The Sick Spoons website is a free tool which allows you to track your activity and rest over the course of the day based on the 'Spoon Theory' metaphor.ย 

Visit the website: https://sickspoons.com/

#MECFS #pwME #LongCovid #SpoonTheory

04.02.2026 15:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
everyone is askign WHAT I DID IN 2025 but NO ONE asked WHAT 2025 DID TO ME  (sad crying face) 

vivera in echoes

everyone is askign WHAT I DID IN 2025 but NO ONE asked WHAT 2025 DID TO ME (sad crying face) vivera in echoes

04.02.2026 00:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 79    ๐Ÿ” 13    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Horrific ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ˜ข

01.02.2026 12:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So handsome and princely ๐Ÿ˜ป๐Ÿ˜ป

31.01.2026 08:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh no I hope itโ€™s nothing too serious at this stage. Yes please stop getting old cats, I hate it, I need many more years either way mine ๐Ÿ™

30.01.2026 22:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Fantastic work!

30.01.2026 22:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

How gorgeous is this? Sheep eating toast. Well worth a follow of this gorgeous farm

30.01.2026 08:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Asking for help doesnโ€™t make you weak. Itโ€™s a form of strength and courage

Image: www.instagram.com/active_minds

29.01.2026 18:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 17    ๐Ÿ” 6    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I do love a Beurer heat pad. Seem to last the best. But Shane about the cover, it needs to be cats!

29.01.2026 23:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So beautiful ๐Ÿฅฐ

29.01.2026 23:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Love this ๐Ÿฉท

29.01.2026 09:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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So grateful that my beautiful Quinny is still with us despite his terminal pancreatic cancer diagnosis 4 months ago. Heโ€™s got thinner but is still enjoying life and lots of cuddles so we are taking a day at a time with him #blessed

28.01.2026 23:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Been doing some easy paint by numbers kits to try to quieten my anxious mind while Iโ€™m in a black hole of depression. Hereโ€™s my bookshop one (sorry itโ€™s sideways, bit like my life lately!)

28.01.2026 23:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m so sorry xx

28.01.2026 23:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Never disturb a sleeping cat!

28.01.2026 21:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So sorry x

28.01.2026 17:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh no Marie Iโ€™m so sorry. That will be a huge adjustment for David after caring for him for so many years. Thinking of you both xx

28.01.2026 17:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh no so sorry to hear that xxx

27.01.2026 23:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Colourful illustrated artwork on a deep red background with handwritten cream text reading โ€œYou can be a kind person and stillโ€. Surrounding the text are playful illustrations including a rainbow, butterfly with heart shapes on its wings, peach, flower, planet Earth with a ring, and an acorn. Additional handwritten phrases say โ€œsay noโ€, โ€œdisagreeโ€, โ€œsay the wrong thingโ€, โ€œstand up for yourselfโ€, โ€œhave bad moodsโ€, and โ€œmake mistakesโ€. The overall feel is warm, reassuring, and human, celebrating kindness alongside boundaries and imperfection. Picture by Nikki Miles

Colourful illustrated artwork on a deep red background with handwritten cream text reading โ€œYou can be a kind person and stillโ€. Surrounding the text are playful illustrations including a rainbow, butterfly with heart shapes on its wings, peach, flower, planet Earth with a ring, and an acorn. Additional handwritten phrases say โ€œsay noโ€, โ€œdisagreeโ€, โ€œsay the wrong thingโ€, โ€œstand up for yourselfโ€, โ€œhave bad moodsโ€, and โ€œmake mistakesโ€. The overall feel is warm, reassuring, and human, celebrating kindness alongside boundaries and imperfection. Picture by Nikki Miles

โ€œCaring for myself is not self indulgence, it is self preservation.โ€ Audre Lorde

Kindness doesnโ€™t require perfection. It may include boundaries, honesty, bad days, and mistakes.

Looking after yourself is part of being human.

๐Ÿงก

#kindness #SelfCompassion #SelfBelief

Picture by Nikki Miles

27.01.2026 21:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 99    ๐Ÿ” 24    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

And thank you for the lovely card and care package you sent me, it was so thoughtful xx

27.01.2026 23:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yay so glad youโ€™ve found somewhere found me as I couldnโ€™t remember your Bluesky name. Big hugs xx

27.01.2026 23:21 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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