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Marie

@mariebenben.bsky.social

I love David Coverdale,Billy Connolly & Scarborough! Mum of 2 and in a relationshipπŸ₯° Fibromyalgia and Arthritis make my life very painful, chronic illnesses are an unwelcome part of my life. Please be kind to each other πŸ₯° I crochet for my sanity🧢🧢🧢🧢

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taking a nice big mug of #whittards white hot chocolate and a good book to bed with me to hopefully help me nod off. the book is The Last Crossing by Brian McGilloway. Has anyone read it? its lookin great so far xx

16.02.2026 23:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

im struggling big time at the moment. this chronic illness malarky is just so πŸ’© fatigue is so bad at the minute, i need a nap after only being out of bed long enough to have my breakfast😒sending love to any fellow sufferers. #fibromyalgia #reynauds #arthritis

16.02.2026 23:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

awww cats are the best. i cant sit down in my house for more than five minutes before one of them (of sometimes both at once) gets up on my lap 😻😻xx

08.02.2026 17:24 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

me too πŸ˜” sending u gentle hugs as l try to get comfy in bed for a few hours to try n get a bit respite from the pain. x

06.02.2026 19:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
[woman smiling] woman with lifelong disease cured after reading 'have you tried going outside?'  mybodyistryingtokillme.com

[woman smiling] woman with lifelong disease cured after reading 'have you tried going outside?' mybodyistryingtokillme.com

#satire

03.02.2026 13:45 β€” πŸ‘ 69    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

I’ve shared a Brand Store on Amazon with you. www.amazon.co.uk/stores/Grump...

please feed the birds if you canπŸ˜” they need us to help them survive 🐧🐦πŸͺΆπŸͺ½πŸͺ½thanks guys xxx

03.02.2026 14:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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May kindness and blessings lead the way today! πŸ™
πŸͺ·πŸ’›πŸ¦‹πŸ’›πŸͺ·
#Kindness #Blessings
(Image: inspirivity.com)

23.01.2026 08:23 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

yeah its hit him really hard steph. im trying my best to keep him going but it will take him a long time to get used to living alone😒 xxx

28.01.2026 19:32 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

you are very welcome steph. just to let u know too,Davids brother passed away a few days before Christmas so we have had an awful time this year. only had the funeral on Jan 15thπŸ˜” hes really struggling with it , not coping well at all bless him xx

27.01.2026 23:34 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

hey steph! ive found you my friend! i have just received my box in the post. i just wanted to say thank you so much and that im so very sorry for the awful situation you are in. i can only say that hopefully with the love and support from yr family and spoonie family u can get back your normality xx

27.01.2026 15:38 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
a woman sitting - you don't have to prove your chronic illness to ignorant people - 

Artist: frizzkidart on Insta

a woman sitting - you don't have to prove your chronic illness to ignorant people - Artist: frizzkidart on Insta

Artist: frizzkidart on Insta

23.01.2026 22:00 β€” πŸ‘ 69    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
you will never see me on my worst days, mainly because i can't even get out of bed but also because i don't want anyone to see how bad it really gets.

you will never see me on my worst days, mainly because i can't even get out of bed but also because i don't want anyone to see how bad it really gets.

22.01.2026 19:00 β€” πŸ‘ 113    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 2

im ending the year as i started it, in pain. i know im not alone in this so im sending all my fellow chronic illness warriors lots of very gentle hugs xx

31.12.2025 23:07 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
pic of a hand holding a mug with sad face on it - you survived every day you thought you couldn't - @powerofpostivity

pic of a hand holding a mug with sad face on it - you survived every day you thought you couldn't - @powerofpostivity

31.12.2025 21:53 β€” πŸ‘ 115    πŸ” 22    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 0
I AM NOT A BAD, WEAK, LAZY OR BROKEN PERSON...

I AM A PERSON MANAGING A VERY DIFFICULT AND CHRONIC ILLNESS...FOR WHICH THERE IS NO CURE
       

[illustration of woman with butterfly on her nose]

I AM NOT A BAD, WEAK, LAZY OR BROKEN PERSON... I AM A PERSON MANAGING A VERY DIFFICULT AND CHRONIC ILLNESS...FOR WHICH THERE IS NO CURE [illustration of woman with butterfly on her nose]

27.12.2025 14:35 β€” πŸ‘ 116    πŸ” 26    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0
β€œYou don’t look sick.”

Thanks. That’s the goal.

But here’s what you don’t see:

I cancel plans I desperately want to attend.

I rest for hours after a shower.

I forget basic words mid-sentence.

I grieve a version of myself I barely remember.

I fight every day for a body that doesn’t cooperate.

It’s not just tired. It’s chronic illness.

Share this if you’ve ever been told you β€˜don’t look sick.’

[Logo: CFS HEALTH]

β€œYou don’t look sick.” Thanks. That’s the goal. But here’s what you don’t see: I cancel plans I desperately want to attend. I rest for hours after a shower. I forget basic words mid-sentence. I grieve a version of myself I barely remember. I fight every day for a body that doesn’t cooperate. It’s not just tired. It’s chronic illness. Share this if you’ve ever been told you β€˜don’t look sick.’ [Logo: CFS HEALTH]

27.12.2025 18:19 β€” πŸ‘ 167    πŸ” 54    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 7

I was getting ready to leave work tonite after working 30hrs this week. I never take time off despite havin the worst fatigue ive had in a long time, i have fibromyalgia,arthritis,v bad shoulder pain etc, im 57! a coworker came in just before i left,shes 19 and she was in tears cos she had a coldπŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈπŸ˜‘

20.12.2025 03:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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anyone have any good news? or any funny stories to share? im in need of a reason to smile. dont mean to be miserable but im struggling to find the good in things at the minuteπŸ₯² xx sending everyone a virtual gentle hug xx pet pics also welcome 😻

25.11.2025 21:01 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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thank you so much x

14.11.2025 03:24 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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my two besties never leave my side when im feeling ill. they keep me warm and make me feel like im not alone (being the only human in my house) love them so much , Angel & Littley 😻😻xxx

02.11.2025 14:56 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

hi,ive never watched any of the traitors series,it doesnt seem like β€˜my thing’. hope you are feeling ok. im huddled on the sofa with a fluffy blanket and my2cats. feeling grateful for two days off work to rest as im not doing great atmπŸ˜” feeling like i need cat cuddles and a good book x sending hugs

02.11.2025 14:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†so funny x

02.11.2025 13:54 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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im so looking forward to #tomdaleyknittingshow on ch4 tonight. I prefer crochet but i love anything yarn related🧢so cant wait to watch! crochet is a hobby, an interest but most of all a distraction from my pain.

02.11.2025 13:49 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

hi, i can identify with every single post on this page unfortunately. fibromyalgia and arthritis make my life extremely difficult and every day is a struggle. having people who understand and places to go to find support means everythingπŸ₯°

02.11.2025 13:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

i know how that feels. sending a fellow sufferer some gentle hugs x

07.10.2025 23:27 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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feeling really low atmπŸ˜”it’s so hard to stay positive when u have to fight a bloody war against your own body every day of your life
#fibromyalgia #arthritis #chronicillness

07.10.2025 23:24 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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